Kristian Nairn | Beyond The Throne


On this episode of The Story & Craft Podcast, we sit down with actor, DJ and author, Kristian Nairn, who has a new memoir out called “Beyond The Throne!” Kristian is known for his work on Game of Thrones and Our Flag Means Death, as well as his work as a DJ and mixer. We discuss the cultural impact of Game of Thrones, as well as the creative process behind being a DJ and authoring a book about his own life experiences. It’s a great conversation with Kristian’s as we touch on his reflections on self-acceptance and authenticity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Introduction to Story Craft03:26 The Journey to Game of Thrones04:46 DJing and Musical Influences07:06 The Art of Remixing10:22 Performing Live and Acting15:55 Early Life and Education20:36 The DJ Journey Begins21:49 Dream Festivals and Travel22:30 Memorable Nights in Ibiza22:56 The Club Scene and Its Culture23:30 Acting Aspirations and Career Reflections25:15 Writing the Book: Epiphanies and Reflections28:25 The Seven QuestionsListen and subscribe on your favorite podcast app. Also, check out the show and sign up for the newsletter at www.storyandcraftpod.com...#podcast #KristianNairn #Acting #Actor #Author #DJ #GameofThrones #OurFlagMeansDeath #EDM #ElectronicMusic #TranceMusic #HouseMusic #HBO #BeyondTheThrone #lgbtq #storyandcraft
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Because they have a castle built inside a
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studio, and everything's real.
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It's not just silly props.
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Everything smells correct.
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Not that I know what a
castle should smell like.
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There would be real dead animals
hanging out, like, you really
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felt like you were there.
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Announcer: Welcome to Story Craft.
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Now, here's your host, Marc Preston.
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Marc Preston: Okay, here we go.
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Another episode of Story Craft.
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How are you?
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Hope you're doing well.
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My name is Marc Preston.
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If this is your first episode
of Story Craft, welcome.
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Welcome.
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So glad to have you appreciate you,
uh, being by for the fun and mischief.
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And of course, if this is a return
episode, you've been here before.
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Thank you for coming back by very much.
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Appreciate it.
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All right today, Kristian Nairn going
to let you check out the, uh, sit down
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Kristian and I had a really cool guy.
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You might know him from game of Thrones.
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Uh, also our flag means
death and other HBO show.
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Uh, now the new book he has
out a memoir is called beyond.
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The throne talking about his life,
his background, uh, not only as an
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actor, but as a DJ, uh, he's mixed
with and toured with, uh, some big
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names, just an interesting guy.
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Really enjoyed the opportunity
to sit down with Kristian.
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Also appreciate the opportunity
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All right.
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So, uh, right now I've got a,
uh, golden retriever, uh, the
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ranger is underneath my legs here.
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Uh, he's being very good.
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Uh, yes, I'm talking about you.
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You know, it's his first show he's
done with me, hanging out, sitting, uh,
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sitting with me here while I record.
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He's looking at me going,
make this thing interesting.
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Okay, so I will do that right
now because it is Kristian Nairn
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Day, right here on Story Craft.
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Kristian Nairn: Yeah, it's very much
about our flagman's death at the moment.
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Although there's definitely been a
resurgence and the interest for Game
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of Thrones with It's interesting,
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Marc Preston: it seems like Game of
Thrones, it has kind of like a following
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which doesn't abate, you know, it's just
people are just very passionate about it.
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Now the, the book you put out, is it a
memoir or is it kind of you reflecting
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on your time uh, doing Game of Thrones?
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Okay, what's kind of For lack
of a better way of putting
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Kristian Nairn: it, the gist of the book.
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Well, when I first started this
process, I didn't know the difference
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between an autobiography and a memoir.
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But I do now know that it is,
it is definitely a memoir.
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It's just a time in my life, really,
right from the start till now, um, it's
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not an autobiography because I still
believe there's plenty more to come.
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I'm interested to see
what's going to happen now.
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I'm not going to write another
one, but, um, It's just about
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how the show changed my life.
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It really helped me fit into my own skin.
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And, uh, I try to make me, I
don't say that I set it into
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my life when I was younger.
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And through things like Game
of Thrones, music, performance,
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and really finding who I am.
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Um, I made my life fit me rather
than me trying to fit in, you
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know, and that's been successful
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Marc Preston: for me.
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How did Game of Thrones come to you?
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I mean, was there something that
you were just a working actor?
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You're out there, you're auditioning,
or was there somebody saw you?
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It's like, yeah, we got this thing
we're doing and you're great for it.
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You know, how did it
come together for you?
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That's a little bit of
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Kristian Nairn: both.
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Um, I wasn't working as
an actor at the time.
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I was, uh, I was actually a drag
artist, a DJ, um, and occasionally I
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would have had a dramatic audition,
but I didn't really, honestly, I didn't
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really have that much interest in it
at the time because I thought music
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was the only thing that fulfilled me.
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Um, I later discovered that it's actually
expression that fulfills me, any kind of
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expression, be it acting, be it DJing,
singing, be it drawing a picture on my
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own with no, with no commercial attitudes.
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It all makes me feel the same.
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And that's a good thing.
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I just have to express and create.
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Um, and that's the, what the
book shows, but it wasn't an
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easy path for me to get there.
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I take passive blame for that
as well myself, because you have
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to believe in yourself before
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Marc Preston: anybody else will.
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Transcribed I think a lot of self doubt
anytime you, anytime you do something
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creative, you know, because what I think
motivates people to do something creative.
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Uh, and the folks I've spoken with here
and in my career and doing what I do, you
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know, you have a lot of folks are kind of
in their own head a little bit, you know,
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they have something they want to express.
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They just got to find the right path.
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You know, you said you were DJing.
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That's something for me, which is
very cool because I know only my kids
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who have this, the, your, your genre
of music or genres of music, uh,
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something I'm, I'm actually pretty into.
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Question, cause I got a nerd out
on this, your opinion, uh, cause
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you're the only, the only mixer DJ
I've had a chance to speak with.
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Oh, no, no, no, no.
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I did.
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I did.
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No, I did speak to Ariel Vroman,
uh, who's a director as well.
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I did speak with him.
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Uh, he has that new show.
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It'll be, uh, 1992 coming out.
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Um, would you say, like,
would it be, like, maybe mid
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to late 90s to early 2000s?
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Do you think that was kind of like a A
golden era, a lot of the guys which are
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now being sampled in music, uh, and,
and, or being having remixes come out.
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What, what is your thought on that?
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Just to kind of as a little side
note, do you think that was sort of a
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pivotal era in, in electronic music?
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Kristian Nairn: Very much so.
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Um, I knew really very little about
electronic music back then, but
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I was a very anxious music buyer.
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I just, uh, we had to retain a friend
that I would go down to the local
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music store on a Monday with as much
money or pocket money, we could muster.
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Uh, um, I would just buy random
cheap CD singles and that's how
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I got into house music really.
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Because you had like
Robin S, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Um, you had like all the big
tracks, which are still being,
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as you say, remixed today.
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They've been released like a hundred times
already, but the originals came out then.
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And it was a heyday.
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And it was for quite a long time.
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The club scene was booming.
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Um, you had artists like
Shapeshifters, who did Lola's theme.
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That changed, that changed house music.
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Um, I, I, I would, I would say
blame, I, I would attribute.
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To the explosion.
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Absolutely.
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But, um, it's very different now.
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Very different on your right.
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Yeah.
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I,
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Marc Preston: I'm kind of into,
uh, I I guess it would be defined
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because like it was tropical house,
you know, I don't know if that Yeah.
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You know, there's so many sub and
some sub genres and that's kind
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of like, I don't know it, 'cause
I'm living next to the beach.
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I don't know if that's kinda
like sitting or something.
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Like, I noticed that a lot of the big
names there, uh, that were, that were
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really, that were just kind of in the
scene and, and there was, they were
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getting kind of regular radio airplay.
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Uh, like Robert Miles, the song children.
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I remember that was like a
big, I've looked at some of
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the names of your remixing.
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I, you know, again, I got
to geek out a little bit.
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When you remix a song,
what is the process?
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Do you hear it and go, God, I've
got some ideas of their song.
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What I can, what I
personally can do with it.
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What's the path of going,
I'm going to remix it.
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Do you get in touch with the artist
and how do you get a hold of the tracks
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that you need, or do you just get the
raw song and to start playing with it?
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Kristian Nairn: There are so many ways.
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It's going to cut, um, through,
do we say that anymore?
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Swag your cats.
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We'll swag them.
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Yeah.
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We'll swag them non violently.
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We'll just sniff your face.
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The cat's enjoying the swagging, guys.
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So if I go after the track, if there's a
track I might want to do, I will contact
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the artist and I'll ask for the parts.
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You ask for the parts.
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If you're producing on a DAW, um,
like Logic or, um, Fruity Loops
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or Raisin, anything like that.
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Um, those are all different programs
for producing electronic music.
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Um, you get all the parts separately,
the bass, the synthesizers, even the
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automation on the tracks, like turning up
a chorus or turning up a, uh, a reverb.
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That's all I'm going to do.
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I'll be in.
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It'll be in the files, if you
can get the original signs,
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Marc Preston: it's better because
yeah, I'm assuming it would be
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because if it just, you know, you can
really rebuild it from, from scratch.
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Uh, but did you have a musical background?
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Are we, were you a, were you a band kid
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Kristian Nairn: in school?
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And I try to play things in rather
than draw that if you don't mean
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with the mouse, I can't play piano,
I can't play the guitar and stuff.
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So I try to do it slightly differently.
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You said like, when you're writing
music on a computer like this,
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it doesn't feel natural to me.
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So I try
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Marc Preston: to do it on
an instrument at least.
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As far as the collaborations, like
what, if you go into your library, what
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is it that you think is like, Oh man,
this is, this is for me, this is kind
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of like perfect collaboration or this
is, this is exactly, uh, this is my,
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my, my figurative voice, you know, what
would that, what would that be for you?
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Kristian Nairn: If you're working
with an original track, it's all
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about putting your stamp on it.
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Um, you obviously have a point of view.
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And you have an end goal.
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Um, so I first of all try to
work out is this gonna work?
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Is it gonna work with the elements
that I'm gonna change the,
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I'm gonna change the baseline.
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Um, a lot of the tracks I choose
from our traditional, like
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nineties or two thousands TRAs.
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And so for start, I'm gonna
have bring 'em down at BPM by
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probably 15 to 20 BPM sometimes.
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And that will automatically
create space and therefore a
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very different vibe to the track.
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So that's, that's almost that
part of the work done for me.
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If I can slow it down, create
a bit more room in the track
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from all the mad 135 to 145 BPM.
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and I imagine that most people
do that, but maybe they don't.
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I don't know, but when I have a little
bit of space in the track, I can sort
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of, even my imagination goes nuts.
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Like, even when I listen to some of
the old classic records, like Beethoven
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and stuff, when I was a child, I
would be going, why didn't he do that?
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Why didn't he try this direction?
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And my mom was always like,
oh shut up, Kristian.
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Right, yeah, it's Beethoven.
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What would you know?
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I'll just show you, what would I know?
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I've always been into
reworking and rejigging.
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Marc Preston: So do you, do you enjoy,
um, were you always a performer?
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I know you're getting, when you get up
and DJ and you do a live set, you've
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got, you know, my daughter works with me.
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She bartended over the summer at a
big beach bar here on the island.
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Steve Aoki came and played and do you
enjoy being up in front of a large
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crowd and just kind of, kind of just,
you know, what's the energy like for
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Kristian Nairn: you
when you're doing that?
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It's the best feeling in the world.
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Um, of all the things I do in my life
and have done and probably will do.
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Um, there's nothing gives me a bigger
buzz than standing behind a DJ, um,
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set or being on stage with music.
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Um, I've, I've played in bands, you
asked me before with the band kids
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thing, I've toured with Scissor Sisters.
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Um, I've been on tour with a number of
bands actually, and it's the same feeling.
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I just love being on stage.
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For someone who was such a shy
kid, I would have told you, you
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were crazy, um, if you'd told
me what I would do for a career.
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Marc Preston: Isn't that
weird how that works out?
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Yeah, I remember I was telling one
of my kids It's like I could be on
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stage in front of 10 000 people I
used to work at a radio and had a
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syndicate show and everything to
get on I remember I got on stage.
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I was introducing I forgot who it was
to some late 90s band and I I think it
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was like I think it was goo goo dolls
I think uh, or oh wow And when you get
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on stage when you get lights are on
you can only see the first few rows
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anyway That, that for me was a charge.
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I was cool, but you put me in
front of like three or four people.
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That's a different story.
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So it's like the bigger the crowd,
the easier it is for those who are.
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I agree with that.
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Kristian Nairn: developed this
like focus point, which is
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just above people's eye line.
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So you're not actually making
contact with them, but you do, you
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basically drop your eyes down to the
fan, the thing, give them a wave.
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And then focus on that point
where it looks like you're living
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in the crowd, but you're not.
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Marc Preston: Were there any
parallels that you found in terms
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of performance between mixing and
doing all that and being on camera?
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Well, to me,
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Kristian Nairn: it's the same.
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It's the same vibe.
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Um, when I get up on the stage to
DJ, that's not really me there.
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Um, in some ways, it's not me.
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In some ways, it's never more me.
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But it's not me upsetting
you or talking to you.
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It's, it's a character in a way,
just like being a drag queen was
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playing a character version of itself.
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So it's very obvious that it's the
same, uh, to me, it's very obvious
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that it's the same zone in my head.
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And that's why I realized that it's
not just the individual thing of
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acting or thing of music or it's, it's
everything that really lights my fire.
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Um, and that's why I feel very
lucky that I really, I really
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have tied together three or four
things quite successfully so far.
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I feel really grateful for it.
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Because, uh, I liked the variation.
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Marc Preston: So acting, what was like
one of the big learning curve things
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that you, you know, you're, you're
working with experienced actors, you
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know, you're working on, you know,
arguably kind of a popular show.
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The show is sort of like a
law I mentioned lost earlier.
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It had cultural impact, you know,
what was that a heady thing for you?
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Or did you know going into it or while
you're doing it, did you have the sense of
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how big this was or how big it would be?
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Or what was your take on that?
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Kristian Nairn: Um, yes, I, first of all,
did on the first day say how big it was.
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Because they have a castle built
inside, built inside a studio.
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Um, and everything's real.
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Uh, it's not just silly props.
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These are things that have been made by
artisans, and everything smells correct.
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Not that I know what, not that I
know what a castle should smell like.
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But I, I, I think, That's correct.
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That would be real dead animals
hanging up with like, uh, just as
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a big obituary, like it was real.
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It felt real.
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I'm not made it really easy
to inhabit an imaginary space.
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Um, you really felt like you were
there and there was a sense of
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responsibility, um, for me cause
I did not want to do a bad job.
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Um, I really did not want to do a bad job.
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I was worried about that at first.
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Um, you know, the other thing that didn't
do me any favors because as many people
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who, as many people who were celebrating
that I'd got the part, there were other
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people saying, well, he's not an actor.
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Um, and the weird thing was that
when it came out that I was a DJ,
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the people who didn't know that said,
Oh, he's going to be a celebrity DJ.
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And I'm like, I can't win.
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I can't win.
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That was 20 years.
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You know, it wasn't just an idea I
had to bring them some extra money.
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I think that was my job.
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But um, there was definitely a heaviness
to me, for me, um, until I became
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more confident in what I was doing.
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Um, and the confidence
was the key, really.
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I'd also been collaborative.
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Marc Preston: Um, yeah, that had to be
something a little bit different for you
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because when you're DJing, you're, you're
in a room, you're home and you're, you got
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your setup and you're, you're building the
tracks here, but you're on a set, you're
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with other actors and you're reacting
and, and you know, vibing on their energy.
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That had to be a big kind of 180
for you, at least a little bit.
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Well, no, actually, because
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Kristian Nairn: really being a good DJ,
I'll say, I was going to say being a
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DJ, but I will think being a good DJ,
you should be able to read a crowd.
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I need to talk to you about energy.
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It's all about energy, man.
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Really?
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It's all about energy.
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Um, isn't life all about energy,
but it's the same, it's, it's all
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about reading the energy correctly.
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I'm giving your energy back
correctly in a way that
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Marc Preston: makes sense artistically.
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When Game of Thrones was going on,
when you, when you were shooting it,
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rather, well, I'm first of all, where
did y'all shoot Game of Thrones?
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Within around Northern Ireland.
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All my scenes were filmed there.
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So it wasn't too, it wasn't
too big of a jump for you, so.
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Going back to your, your origin story
in Ireland, what did your folks do?
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Were they, were they at all on
the creative side of things or?
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Yeah, never met my father.
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So,
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Kristian Nairn: um, I believe he was
good at the theater, but I don't know.
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Um, mom's not particularly
creative, though.
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Um, I don't come from the
political positions or actors.
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Uh, no, uh, maybe it was the milkman.
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I'm not sure.
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I've got it from somewhere there.
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Uh, did you have any, did you have any
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Marc Preston: siblings coming up
or were you, were you an only kid?
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No, I'm an only child.
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Just me and my mom.
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All right.
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You, you and I are in the only kid club.
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You know, I always like people when they
say, oh, you must have been spoiled.
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I was like, spoiled.
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No, no.
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It's, it's, it's, no, no.
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Not, not at all.
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Not spoiled.
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But so you're in Ireland, kind of the arc
of your experience based on the, like what
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you said that doing the DJ thing, what you
did kind of helped you come out of your,
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um, you know, figuratively come out of
the closet, you know, come out, kind of
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come into who you were meant to be, if you
will, what was the arc of experience for
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you, like high school, when did it, when
did you start feeling like I'm going to
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do my thing, you know, The hell with it.
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I'm gonna, I'm gonna, you know, feel
kind of, kind of like you said, you, you,
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uh, your expression, you know, you're
finding the ways to express yourself.
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When did that kick in for you?
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Kristian Nairn: I think it was
just, I went to a college in, or a
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school in Belfast called Methody,
or Methodist College Belfast.
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It's a really, it's a great school.
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Mum really fought hard to put me in there.
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Is that a good?
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And I didn't swim at all.
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Uh, it was, uh, I didn't
enjoy any second of it.
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Any second.
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Um, because it was quite a
traditional school, like St.
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Aidan, or like, without all the slobs.
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Um, and Hogwarts, uh, everywhere.
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Like, just, the teachers wore
the mortarboards, the man,
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and the robe, the bat robe.
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Like, especially about corridor,
like we are or something.
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Um, that's the kind of school that
was, um, and I just did not vibe there.
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And I remember the last year I
wanted to go back to my A levels.
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That's, I don't know what the
equivalent is in America, but it's
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just before you go to university.
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I went to go back and I'd
grown my hair over the summer.
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Didn't seem important.
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And I got back in, I just got all this
hassle about how I looked and tucked
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my shirt in, you know, what happens if
you're sitting on a bus looking like this?
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I can't, you're not interested
in what we want to learn.
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You're not interested in, uh, in pushing
children towards things that they like.
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It sounds like more of a
conformity kind of a thing, you
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Marc Preston: know?
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Kristian Nairn: Yeah.
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At that stage, I'd had enough.
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I broke my mom's heart.
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I was able to see her really
fought hard to get me in there.
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And that was a pretentious moment.
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But I think she realized at the end that
I was starting to come out of Michelle
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and I needed, that was so important to
me that I, to know that little inch of,
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inch of her manicure color, that little
inch, that was so important to me.
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I would have, I would have, I
would have went to ground for that.
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Because it was just the first
statement, you know, it's the first
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thing I wouldn't back down about.
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Marc Preston: So you
decided to leave early.
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Yeah.
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What was the next step?
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You know, here you are, you
know, your mother's like, I
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don't know what you're doing.
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Did you already have a North Star?
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Did you say, this is something I want
to do, be it music or, or did you just
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like, you didn't know anything, you
had no idea what you wanted to do.
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Kristian Nairn: I knew music, but, um, my
mom sent me to that school because it had
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a legendary music department and she kind
of hoped that that would focus me on that.
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But all they were interested in with
me was getting me to play rugby.
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Oh, that I had.
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Absolutely zero, zero
interest in playing rugby.
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And that didn't go down well with
them, but I didn't have a no star, um,
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apart from the music I loved, I didn't
ever think I could make it a career.
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Uh, I didn't know if I'll be able to,
because I didn't think I lived right.
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You know, I didn't think I had the look.
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Just, I mean, it's a real thing, you know?
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Um, I don't believe it anymore, but.
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Back then I thought I would have had
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Marc Preston: to live a certain way.
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Yeah.
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So they looked at you, you know, you're
six 10, they're trying to capitalize
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on your stature, you know, it reminds
me, I remember a seventh grade.
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I got to junior high school and I remember
the vice principal became, I was already
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really, really tall for, for my age.
441
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I'm six two now.
442
00:19:56,165 --> 00:19:56,514
I don't know.
443
00:19:56,754 --> 00:19:59,615
I don't remember how tall I was then,
but I was one of the taller kids and
444
00:19:59,615 --> 00:20:02,274
he came up to me and he said, uh,
Hey, we really would love you to,
445
00:20:02,275 --> 00:20:05,215
you know, comes up to my locker, it's
like, You know, you play basketball.
446
00:20:05,215 --> 00:20:06,324
We want to see you at the tryouts.
447
00:20:06,324 --> 00:20:08,985
I'm like, I have zero interest
in playing basketball.
448
00:20:09,435 --> 00:20:12,715
And I just, it just was not a
sport that really grabbed me.
449
00:20:13,124 --> 00:20:16,885
And so I remember my, the rest
of my junior high experience.
450
00:20:16,885 --> 00:20:18,294
I think he was irritated at me.
451
00:20:18,334 --> 00:20:21,264
You know, I was not his favorite person
because I wouldn't play or something,
452
00:20:21,264 --> 00:20:22,594
you know, but I know that feeling.
453
00:20:22,970 --> 00:20:24,690
Kristian Nairn: I have the feeling
too, you had the coach that was
454
00:20:24,690 --> 00:20:25,830
a little bit disappointed in you.
455
00:20:25,940 --> 00:20:27,200
Yeah, yeah, that's, yeah.
456
00:20:27,350 --> 00:20:28,940
I'm not interested in this shit, dude.
457
00:20:29,140 --> 00:20:30,880
Honestly, don't interest him.
458
00:20:31,360 --> 00:20:34,420
Marc Preston: So when did the
DJing come into your life?
459
00:20:34,420 --> 00:20:36,599
When did you sit down and start mixing?
460
00:20:36,599 --> 00:20:39,609
Was it something that you had heard
and like, how do they do that?
461
00:20:39,609 --> 00:20:41,870
Or was it just, or did you
just kind of fall into it?
462
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,620
Kristian Nairn: I was simply a club kid
and I was working, as I say, in drag.
463
00:20:46,300 --> 00:20:49,340
Someone, did he show up for a
shift one night and I learned
464
00:20:49,340 --> 00:20:50,690
how to do it in music college.
465
00:20:50,750 --> 00:20:51,830
I fell in for him.
466
00:20:52,530 --> 00:20:54,020
And the rest was history.
467
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,300
Um, it just worked.
468
00:20:57,100 --> 00:20:58,080
It worked really well.
469
00:20:58,430 --> 00:21:03,679
I was the kid who, when I was in, I'd been
a big heavy metal fan all my life as well.
470
00:21:03,910 --> 00:21:06,960
And I would bring my friends to
my bedroom and I'd be listening
471
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:11,050
to a guitar solo and I was so
keen to share things that I loved.
472
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:12,870
I'd be like, look, let's
listen to this part.
473
00:21:12,870 --> 00:21:16,210
And I'd let out my friend, welcome
the musician, and they'd be going, uh.
474
00:21:17,205 --> 00:21:20,875
Uh, yeah, whatever, but I was
so excited for me being a DJ.
475
00:21:20,885 --> 00:21:21,635
That's the same thing.
476
00:21:21,645 --> 00:21:23,325
It was like sharing the
things I love with people.
477
00:21:24,764 --> 00:21:26,424
That's why I feel so good about it.
478
00:21:26,505 --> 00:21:28,314
Uh, I love the crowds going really well.
479
00:21:28,315 --> 00:21:29,225
You'll get that all back.
480
00:21:30,505 --> 00:21:31,875
Yeah, the energy gets returned to you.
481
00:21:31,875 --> 00:21:33,285
And I love, I love that.
482
00:21:34,484 --> 00:21:37,305
Um, actually I don't do as much
as I used to because things are
483
00:21:37,305 --> 00:21:38,915
slightly different now since COVID.
484
00:21:39,615 --> 00:21:41,655
Um, I used to be a DJ four times a week.
485
00:21:41,905 --> 00:21:42,595
Uh, really?
486
00:21:42,774 --> 00:21:43,155
Yeah.
487
00:21:43,195 --> 00:21:43,635
Yeah.
488
00:21:43,635 --> 00:21:46,955
All over the world, but
it's not coming back again,
489
00:21:47,085 --> 00:21:48,855
Marc Preston: but I really miss it.
490
00:21:49,459 --> 00:21:51,769
See, that to me seems like the
exciting thing, being able to
491
00:21:51,769 --> 00:21:53,970
travel to the different festivals.
492
00:21:53,970 --> 00:21:55,959
Like, I've always wanted
to go to, uh, like Ibiza in
493
00:21:55,959 --> 00:21:57,690
Spain, uh, and check that out.
494
00:21:57,690 --> 00:22:00,379
Like, there's, uh, cause I like
the ballet art trance stuff.
495
00:22:00,420 --> 00:22:03,959
I like, or like, uh, there's a guy
named DJ Shaw, or, uh, uh, oh God,
496
00:22:03,999 --> 00:22:05,869
uh, Roger Shaw, I think it's his name.
497
00:22:06,169 --> 00:22:08,899
But just kind of that vibe,
everybody's there to have a good
498
00:22:08,899 --> 00:22:10,729
time, they're all into that thing.
499
00:22:11,215 --> 00:22:12,825
And it's, you're just
kind of vibing on it.
500
00:22:12,825 --> 00:22:13,445
To me, that'd be kind of fun.
501
00:22:13,445 --> 00:22:14,105
I'm a little old.
502
00:22:14,105 --> 00:22:17,405
I get, well, I'm not old, but I'm kind
of at that point of going, fuck it.
503
00:22:17,485 --> 00:22:18,735
I'm just going to do
whatever I want to do.
504
00:22:18,765 --> 00:22:20,095
I'm like, I'm going to go check it out.
505
00:22:20,335 --> 00:22:21,205
You know, I'll bring them.
506
00:22:21,225 --> 00:22:23,064
I'm sure some of my kids
will go along with me.
507
00:22:23,064 --> 00:22:25,194
You're like, Oh yeah, the old
guy, you know, you just, he's
508
00:22:25,194 --> 00:22:26,354
got some issue apparently.
509
00:22:26,644 --> 00:22:29,404
But no, I think that'd be a blast
to, to travel around the world.
510
00:22:29,414 --> 00:22:29,914
DJ.
511
00:22:30,155 --> 00:22:32,915
Kristian Nairn: Basically is that people
who've gone there for years will tell
512
00:22:32,915 --> 00:22:34,175
you it's not as good as it used to be.
513
00:22:34,175 --> 00:22:35,425
I don't have that experience.
514
00:22:35,515 --> 00:22:36,265
I don't know that.
515
00:22:36,715 --> 00:22:38,455
But I've played there
two or three times now.
516
00:22:38,455 --> 00:22:38,485
And.
517
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:44,010
They were memorable, memorable
nights, and there was a vibe in
518
00:22:44,010 --> 00:22:45,210
the air, you could almost smell it.
519
00:22:45,410 --> 00:22:47,110
Sure, something that you
could smell for sure, yeah.
520
00:22:47,590 --> 00:22:48,829
Let's see what those clubs involved.
521
00:22:48,940 --> 00:22:51,560
You can almost feel it in the
air in a bit, you have this
522
00:22:51,570 --> 00:22:53,600
vibe of partying and just low.
523
00:22:53,869 --> 00:22:55,009
It doesn't matter what age you are, man.
524
00:22:56,065 --> 00:22:58,825
Marc Preston: Yeah, that's kind of
like that movie that XOXO that Netflix
525
00:22:58,855 --> 00:23:02,915
put out that it just seemed like it
was trying to capture a little nugget
526
00:23:02,915 --> 00:23:06,375
of what that experience is like, you
know, people who are gonna, uh, fly
527
00:23:06,375 --> 00:23:09,044
in their own freak flag for lack of a
better way of putting it, you know, and
528
00:23:09,044 --> 00:23:10,945
do it proudly, which is pretty cool.
529
00:23:11,044 --> 00:23:11,974
Um, a great
530
00:23:11,974 --> 00:23:16,135
Kristian Nairn: few of us, the club
kids, club ornament as well, the door
531
00:23:16,135 --> 00:23:20,955
whores, you know, clubs were a haven for
that and that's what I love the most.
532
00:23:21,575 --> 00:23:21,995
I feel like I'm
533
00:23:21,995 --> 00:23:23,534
Marc Preston: getting an
education here at Door Whores.
534
00:23:23,625 --> 00:23:24,955
I have been licensed over the years.
535
00:23:25,675 --> 00:23:29,034
Going to the Game of Thrones and
then, you know, our, our flag means,
536
00:23:29,064 --> 00:23:30,495
I haven't seen our flag means death.
537
00:23:30,495 --> 00:23:33,184
It's, it is on the, it
is on the list as well.
538
00:23:33,564 --> 00:23:38,275
Is there a genre, is there a kind of, uh,
be it a project, be it actors or something
539
00:23:38,275 --> 00:23:41,804
now, uh, that you would like to get into,
that you would like to do, a movie, a
540
00:23:41,804 --> 00:23:46,314
show, you know, so there is something
that you would like to tap into creatively
541
00:23:46,314 --> 00:23:47,624
on camera that you haven't done yet.
542
00:23:48,090 --> 00:23:48,610
Kristian Nairn: Really?
543
00:23:48,909 --> 00:23:50,490
I just live for the next project.
544
00:23:50,750 --> 00:23:54,130
And I know it sounds like a bit of
a cop out, but I really do love the
545
00:23:54,130 --> 00:23:56,960
variation and my, and my career.
546
00:23:57,350 --> 00:23:59,639
So whatever's left is what
I'm looking forward to.
547
00:24:00,030 --> 00:24:01,989
Um, I have no doubts.
548
00:24:02,399 --> 00:24:04,939
Well, there'll be something
cool coming because I
549
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:05,747
Marc Preston: Time to be a surfer.
550
00:24:05,747 --> 00:24:07,929
You're not really sure what waves
coming in, but you're ready to surf.
551
00:24:08,629 --> 00:24:10,290
Kristian Nairn: I can react to the waves.
552
00:24:10,360 --> 00:24:13,409
Um, you know, I know the
ocean, I know the sea.
553
00:24:13,775 --> 00:24:16,465
So I can, I think I can react
accordingly, but I don't have any plans.
554
00:24:16,505 --> 00:24:20,675
Uh, I've never planned as if you read
the book, you'll probably be very aware.
555
00:24:21,055 --> 00:24:22,785
Um, there were never any concrete plans.
556
00:24:22,855 --> 00:24:24,435
I don't really intend to make any.
557
00:24:24,855 --> 00:24:25,145
So,
558
00:24:25,805 --> 00:24:29,095
Marc Preston: I think there was something
to be said for improv, you know, that's
559
00:24:29,364 --> 00:24:30,744
just improv ing your way through it.
560
00:24:30,765 --> 00:24:33,935
Uh, and I'm trying to remember, even I
did a little bit of cursory, just kind of
561
00:24:33,935 --> 00:24:39,185
looking through that you did, uh, um, uh,
my kids is our like show we all watch.
562
00:24:39,195 --> 00:24:40,584
It's, uh, uh, the rookie.
563
00:24:40,775 --> 00:24:42,585
Uh, Okay.
564
00:24:42,585 --> 00:24:42,705
Yeah.
565
00:24:43,090 --> 00:24:43,390
Okay.
566
00:24:43,570 --> 00:24:44,500
I'm trying to remember the episode.
567
00:24:44,500 --> 00:24:49,450
Was that the episode where, uh, uh,
uh, Eric Winter had to fight you,
568
00:24:49,450 --> 00:24:50,920
I think, or something like that?
569
00:24:51,100 --> 00:24:52,780
Was, am I thinking of the right episode or
570
00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:57,140
Kristian Nairn: No, I was, uh, a guy who'd
been assaulted actually, uh, as a gay man.
571
00:24:57,710 --> 00:24:58,940
Um, he was having a shot.
572
00:24:59,564 --> 00:25:01,250
He, he didn't like the outside.
573
00:25:01,250 --> 00:25:02,209
He was terrified to white.
574
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:04,890
Marc Preston: Oh, okay.
575
00:25:04,930 --> 00:25:05,200
Okay.
576
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:05,480
Okay.
577
00:25:05,620 --> 00:25:05,760
Yeah.
578
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:05,900
Yeah.
579
00:25:05,900 --> 00:25:06,070
Yeah.
580
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:06,490
Okay.
581
00:25:06,490 --> 00:25:06,960
I gotcha.
582
00:25:07,210 --> 00:25:09,740
I was trying to remember, uh,
cause I know it was one episode.
583
00:25:09,740 --> 00:25:12,329
I was like, okay, I know the kids
and I've seen every episode and I
584
00:25:12,329 --> 00:25:15,180
was trying to think of what, uh,
I do, I do remember that episode.
585
00:25:15,300 --> 00:25:19,240
Now beyond the throne, did you have
any epiphanies writing the book that
586
00:25:19,250 --> 00:25:22,020
G ever write and go, Oh, I didn't
really kind of put this together
587
00:25:22,020 --> 00:25:25,220
until now, you know, sitting down,
put my life notes in front of me.
588
00:25:25,220 --> 00:25:28,760
Did some, was there an epiphany
about your, Growing up or
589
00:25:28,770 --> 00:25:30,030
anything, the whole book
590
00:25:30,030 --> 00:25:30,780
Kristian Nairn: was an epiphany.
591
00:25:31,139 --> 00:25:32,470
Everything's been an epiphany to me.
592
00:25:32,470 --> 00:25:35,810
I didn't ever expect to be
writing a book about my life.
593
00:25:35,899 --> 00:25:39,819
Um, that itself was an epiphany.
594
00:25:40,699 --> 00:25:44,320
But even during these interviews,
I've had some epiphanies.
595
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,659
Cause what's your number?
596
00:25:47,210 --> 00:25:50,240
It's not, it's just, you know, obviously
you're reading off a page or whatever.
597
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:54,870
It's whatever, but while I talk
about my life, I'm always breaking
598
00:25:54,870 --> 00:25:56,070
it down every time as well.
599
00:25:56,070 --> 00:26:01,040
So I'm literally having moments to
myself and every interview also.
600
00:26:01,370 --> 00:26:02,959
So there's hunger zoom in the book.
601
00:26:03,610 --> 00:26:07,955
Um, and that has been a process and
it really has, and I feel better now.
602
00:26:07,955 --> 00:26:11,600
I feel like it has cleansed me a little.
603
00:26:12,625 --> 00:26:12,995
Yeah,
604
00:26:12,995 --> 00:26:16,665
Marc Preston: you kind of, you got to
put it out there and then you look at
605
00:26:16,665 --> 00:26:19,855
it from different angles and you kind
of process it and you realize, you know,
606
00:26:19,955 --> 00:26:22,475
especially if you're kind of like of
that mentality, you know, you got to keep
607
00:26:22,485 --> 00:26:25,105
moving forward, you know, past is past.
608
00:26:25,725 --> 00:26:27,544
Sometimes you compartmentalize it.
609
00:26:27,544 --> 00:26:29,244
You don't really have a chance
to kind of work through it.
610
00:26:29,244 --> 00:26:34,095
And I imagine writing a book forces you
to kind of work through understanding
611
00:26:34,095 --> 00:26:35,784
more about yourself at the very assuming.
612
00:26:36,139 --> 00:26:38,120
Kristian Nairn: But yeah, also, I'm
not ashamed of people that know me.
613
00:26:38,620 --> 00:26:41,969
I haven't always made all the
best decisions, and I don't
614
00:26:41,969 --> 00:26:42,689
know if I would change them.
615
00:26:43,799 --> 00:26:44,719
I'm not ashamed of it.
616
00:26:45,250 --> 00:26:48,139
I'm not ashamed of anything I've
done, and anything I need to explain.
617
00:26:48,749 --> 00:26:55,070
Um, A, I don't do explaining, but if I
had to, I could split, um, even the wrong
618
00:26:55,070 --> 00:26:55,649
Marc Preston: decisions.
619
00:26:56,010 --> 00:26:58,740
Well, is there any takeaway that you
would like, you know, someone like
620
00:26:59,010 --> 00:27:03,270
yourself with your upbringing or with
your, your life experience, you know,
621
00:27:03,270 --> 00:27:06,660
if you could reach somebody with a
book, who would that be and kind of what
622
00:27:06,660 --> 00:27:08,340
would you want their takeaway to be?
623
00:27:08,340 --> 00:27:12,810
You know, if you could kind of influence
or, uh, motivator, whatever you wanna
624
00:27:12,810 --> 00:27:16,159
call it, or make somebody feel better
about a moment in life, you know, what
625
00:27:16,159 --> 00:27:19,929
would you like, who would you like to
talk to with, uh, uh, with this book?
626
00:27:20,170 --> 00:27:21,100
I wanna talk to the people
627
00:27:21,100 --> 00:27:22,960
Kristian Nairn: who like
me when I was younger.
628
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,930
The life is full of people
telling you who you are.
629
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,740
Um, and who they want you
to be and who you should be.
630
00:27:29,530 --> 00:27:32,879
Um, but there's only one,
there's only one person that
631
00:27:32,879 --> 00:27:34,740
matters and that's you, yourself.
632
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:40,110
Um, as long as you're happy with yourself,
um, don't let anybody else influence
633
00:27:40,110 --> 00:27:41,629
you, who you are and what you love.
634
00:27:42,170 --> 00:27:45,800
Um, cause that is not a recipe
for success and happiness.
635
00:27:46,379 --> 00:27:50,450
Um, and it will come out in
horrible, negative ways in your life.
636
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,670
Even if the person who, even if the
people who are trying to influence you are
637
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:54,630
thinking they're doing it for the best.
638
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,560
It's just toxic and unhealthy to
be anyone but who you truly are.
639
00:27:59,389 --> 00:28:02,629
If I can help someone get there
faster, uh, maybe through my own
640
00:28:02,629 --> 00:28:05,100
example, I'd be a happy, I'd be a happy
641
00:28:05,100 --> 00:28:05,310
Marc Preston: boy.
642
00:28:05,810 --> 00:28:06,500
That's awesome.
643
00:28:06,550 --> 00:28:07,149
I like that.
644
00:28:07,149 --> 00:28:11,310
And that's, uh, I heard something,
uh, a quote once I said, uh, they
645
00:28:11,310 --> 00:28:13,860
didn't really know necessarily the
secret to success, but they knew
646
00:28:13,860 --> 00:28:16,600
the secret to failure, trying to
make everybody happy all the time.
647
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,919
Well, before we get going, I got
something I call my seven questions.
648
00:28:25,919 --> 00:28:29,220
I always like to throw it out at the kind
of the end of our little chats here, uh,
649
00:28:29,370 --> 00:28:30,560
cause a little extra get to know you.
650
00:28:31,210 --> 00:28:35,380
First question I got is what
is your favorite comfort food?
651
00:28:35,450 --> 00:28:38,780
That thing that just like, it just
makes you feel good at a bad day.
652
00:28:38,780 --> 00:28:40,090
You want it at a great day.
653
00:28:40,090 --> 00:28:41,680
You want it to, what
would that be for you?
654
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:42,040
There's
655
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,410
Kristian Nairn: a shameful answer to this.
656
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,549
And, um, I wouldn't have to reach
my arm very far to prove it.
657
00:28:46,990 --> 00:28:47,669
Uh, probably
658
00:28:47,669 --> 00:28:48,449
Marc Preston: McDonald's.
659
00:28:48,749 --> 00:28:49,489
Uh, that's okay.
660
00:28:49,540 --> 00:28:51,210
My, my youngest daughter, Emma traveled.
661
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,520
She's she over the summer or she, she
studied in Spain and she went back.
662
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,120
She met a friend.
663
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:55,980
She went back to Italy.
664
00:28:56,405 --> 00:28:59,675
She, she has a thing for trying McDonald's
in every country, you know, in Portugal.
665
00:29:00,034 --> 00:29:00,364
Why?
666
00:29:00,514 --> 00:29:03,534
Yeah, I, I, I tried McDonald's
in every goddamn country.
667
00:29:03,715 --> 00:29:06,495
Well, it's probably healthier if you can
say that in other countries besides the U.
668
00:29:06,495 --> 00:29:06,604
S.
669
00:29:06,635 --> 00:29:09,074
because they can't put all that,
all the same junk in it that,
670
00:29:09,074 --> 00:29:09,844
you know, that they do here.
671
00:29:09,844 --> 00:29:11,705
But, um, I got played
with death in that one.
672
00:29:11,854 --> 00:29:12,414
Well, there you go.
673
00:29:12,415 --> 00:29:13,814
So, hey, you know, McDonald's.
674
00:29:13,874 --> 00:29:14,915
Happy meals as a kid.
675
00:29:14,925 --> 00:29:15,655
That was my thing.
676
00:29:15,804 --> 00:29:18,874
Um, now, if you were to sit down with
three people and have a cup of coffee,
677
00:29:18,925 --> 00:29:23,415
uh, talk story for a few hours, living
or not, who would those three people be
678
00:29:23,415 --> 00:29:25,245
you would like to sit down and chat with?
679
00:29:26,055 --> 00:29:26,885
And that's a huge
680
00:29:26,895 --> 00:29:27,495
Kristian Nairn: question.
681
00:29:28,145 --> 00:29:30,465
I would like to sit down with Tina Turner.
682
00:29:31,395 --> 00:29:34,685
That's someone that I've always really
loved to have met and admired greatly.
683
00:29:34,805 --> 00:29:36,025
First concert I ever went to.
684
00:29:36,194 --> 00:29:39,046
Uh, well, yeah, Tina Turner is my hero.
685
00:29:39,046 --> 00:29:42,392
Um, maybe I'd like to meet Gary Oldman.
686
00:29:42,392 --> 00:29:43,228
Oh yeah.
687
00:29:43,228 --> 00:29:47,265
Just to thank him for being one of the
best actors in the world and bringing
688
00:29:47,265 --> 00:29:48,545
some of my favorite characters to life.
689
00:29:48,615 --> 00:29:49,205
Such a community.
690
00:29:50,165 --> 00:29:50,825
Oh yeah.
691
00:29:50,975 --> 00:29:51,255
Yeah.
692
00:29:51,255 --> 00:29:52,985
He's someone that I really look up to.
693
00:29:53,695 --> 00:29:54,245
Um,
694
00:29:55,165 --> 00:29:56,415
Marc Preston: I don't know if that's
your last name is Bill Murray.
695
00:29:56,565 --> 00:29:58,405
That's one of my favorite
tables to sit at.
696
00:29:58,405 --> 00:30:01,425
The one you just laid out here
is like, somehow that's perfect.
697
00:30:01,425 --> 00:30:01,865
I don't know.
698
00:30:01,875 --> 00:30:04,505
That's just like, I haven't heard
somebody put that combination together.
699
00:30:04,525 --> 00:30:05,415
I like that.
700
00:30:05,415 --> 00:30:06,155
Bill Murray is just.
701
00:30:06,295 --> 00:30:06,775
The role model for
702
00:30:06,935 --> 00:30:10,645
Kristian Nairn: Samuel reared me, but
the way you asked that question, it's
703
00:30:10,645 --> 00:30:13,925
weird that they're all males because
I, as I normally say, my heroes are
704
00:30:13,925 --> 00:30:16,995
all, they're all Samuel role models,
but that's interesting because that's a
705
00:30:16,995 --> 00:30:18,044
Marc Preston: slightly
different way to look at it.
706
00:30:18,265 --> 00:30:22,255
Next question, uh, when you were young,
who was your first celebrity crush?
707
00:30:22,615 --> 00:30:23,435
Luke Skywalker.
708
00:30:23,785 --> 00:30:24,845
You don't have to answer that.
709
00:30:25,005 --> 00:30:25,765
I'm loving this.
710
00:30:25,765 --> 00:30:27,245
You're giving me things
I haven't heard before.
711
00:30:27,245 --> 00:30:28,075
Luke Skywalker.
712
00:30:28,185 --> 00:30:28,915
That is awesome.
713
00:30:28,915 --> 00:30:29,895
I'm going to remember that forever.
714
00:30:29,945 --> 00:30:30,125
Number chips.
715
00:30:33,150 --> 00:30:35,145
Eric Estrada, or, oh, no, no, no.
716
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,180
Or, or is it John?
717
00:30:37,175 --> 00:30:37,465
John?
718
00:30:37,605 --> 00:30:39,180
It was John, uh, the blonde guy.
719
00:30:39,180 --> 00:30:39,330
Yeah.
720
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:39,900
Yep, yep, yep.
721
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:40,770
Well, now we know your title.
722
00:30:41,130 --> 00:30:42,145
That was my childhood type.
723
00:30:42,175 --> 00:30:43,265
That was a childhood type.
724
00:30:43,530 --> 00:30:44,160
Very good for you.
725
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,210
Well, now next question.
726
00:30:45,210 --> 00:30:47,990
Now, if you're gonna be living on an
exotic island, uh, you somewhere, it's
727
00:30:47,990 --> 00:30:51,110
like a resort somewhere you want to be,
but there's no internet, no streaming.
728
00:30:51,380 --> 00:30:52,550
You're gonna be there a year.
729
00:30:52,610 --> 00:30:54,350
You gotta bring one album with you.
730
00:30:54,975 --> 00:30:58,225
And one DVD or one movie that you
can, that you're comfortable just
731
00:30:58,225 --> 00:30:59,955
watching and listening to all year.
732
00:31:00,165 --> 00:31:01,435
What would that album be?
733
00:31:01,545 --> 00:31:03,775
What would that, uh, would that DVD be?
734
00:31:04,075 --> 00:31:06,415
Kristian Nairn: The album would
either be a little easier for me
735
00:31:06,455 --> 00:31:08,195
because music questions are easier.
736
00:31:08,465 --> 00:31:11,165
I would either be the Tron
soundtrack from Daft Punk.
737
00:31:11,835 --> 00:31:12,765
Oh yeah.
738
00:31:12,985 --> 00:31:13,895
Which is amazing.
739
00:31:14,255 --> 00:31:16,825
Or Sonic Temple by The Cult.
740
00:31:17,095 --> 00:31:20,045
That's been my favorite
rock album for many years.
741
00:31:20,265 --> 00:31:23,195
So those are the albums I know I
picked two, but yeah, whatever.
742
00:31:23,445 --> 00:31:23,875
Sue me.
743
00:31:24,355 --> 00:31:25,940
Um, And what was the other one?
744
00:31:26,180 --> 00:31:28,700
It was, uh, what would,
what would the movie be?
745
00:31:28,730 --> 00:31:29,030
Yeah.
746
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,900
Well, my go to TV show is Frazier,
but where did my go to movies?
747
00:31:32,900 --> 00:31:34,550
Probably Tron to get me to sleep.
748
00:31:34,820 --> 00:31:36,050
Uh, that's why I go to Sleep movie.
749
00:31:36,050 --> 00:31:39,440
I mean, I, the, the soundtrack
really, it, it calms me, but, uh,
750
00:31:40,150 --> 00:31:41,740
lost in translation, possibly.
751
00:31:42,315 --> 00:31:44,565
Marc Preston: Oh, I just told
somebody about that the other day.
752
00:31:44,565 --> 00:31:47,575
That is one of my favorite all time,
but that's one of those movies.
753
00:31:47,645 --> 00:31:49,285
If I see it on TV, I'm watching it.
754
00:31:49,345 --> 00:31:51,025
You know, it's just such a great movie.
755
00:31:51,025 --> 00:31:51,665
So well done.
756
00:31:51,785 --> 00:31:51,925
And
757
00:31:51,965 --> 00:31:54,985
Kristian Nairn: to me, it really
represents being in a strange city,
758
00:31:55,185 --> 00:31:56,495
not really knowing where you are.
759
00:31:56,515 --> 00:32:00,065
Uh, it's just all that weird,
but you're in a privileged
760
00:32:00,065 --> 00:32:02,025
situation, you know, you have to,
761
00:32:02,305 --> 00:32:03,665
Marc Preston: you have
to do your work as well.
762
00:32:03,945 --> 00:32:07,995
And you find your people in the most
random ways sometimes, you know, if
763
00:32:07,995 --> 00:32:11,225
you were to define next question,
uh, your definition of a perfect day,
764
00:32:11,405 --> 00:32:14,395
you know, what would the component
parts be from the time you get up
765
00:32:14,585 --> 00:32:16,135
to tell the time you went to sleep?
766
00:32:16,465 --> 00:32:19,635
What would some of those component parts
be to say, this has been a good day?
767
00:32:20,025 --> 00:32:20,345
Kristian Nairn: Okay.
768
00:32:20,345 --> 00:32:21,715
I probably start off on the beach.
769
00:32:22,285 --> 00:32:23,255
I love the sea.
770
00:32:23,585 --> 00:32:24,555
I love the beach.
771
00:32:24,825 --> 00:32:26,365
That would be the last outdoor adventure.
772
00:32:26,790 --> 00:32:30,030
I'll probably go home and boot up World
of Warcraft for an hour, only because
773
00:32:30,030 --> 00:32:31,880
it's a special day, only for an hour.
774
00:32:32,190 --> 00:32:35,670
Getting to chill with my friends
and just hanging out and having a
775
00:32:35,670 --> 00:32:37,400
laugh and forgetting about work.
776
00:32:37,780 --> 00:32:38,790
That's a, that's a good day.
777
00:32:39,070 --> 00:32:40,490
I'm a little ADHD.
778
00:32:40,630 --> 00:32:42,570
I find it hard to focus sometimes.
779
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,930
And so finding things
that just let me relax.
780
00:32:45,060 --> 00:32:46,220
I love to craft stuff.
781
00:32:46,260 --> 00:32:47,800
I've recently got into crafting a lot.
782
00:32:48,260 --> 00:32:51,240
So, uh, I'm customizing trailers.
783
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:52,200
I don't know what's happening to me.
784
00:32:52,220 --> 00:32:53,720
I'm turning into like a, a one man Etsy.
785
00:32:54,235 --> 00:32:57,935
Uh, but I find that really helps me
at ESD, uh, it's just calms the mind.
786
00:32:58,785 --> 00:32:59,885
Uh, and that's what I do it for.
787
00:32:59,905 --> 00:33:04,485
I'm not looking to set up an empire
here, but, uh, yeah, some crafting, a
788
00:33:04,485 --> 00:33:06,885
beach, some Warcraft and my friends.
789
00:33:07,155 --> 00:33:07,845
That's perfect.
790
00:33:07,855 --> 00:33:08,065
That's
791
00:33:08,075 --> 00:33:08,375
Marc Preston: perfect.
792
00:33:08,395 --> 00:33:11,735
Now, last couple of questions is if you
weren't doing this for a living, what
793
00:33:11,735 --> 00:33:15,845
else could you be doing that would you
derive joy from that would be your jam?
794
00:33:15,995 --> 00:33:17,715
What else would you be doing besides this?
795
00:33:18,475 --> 00:33:20,815
Kristian Nairn: Well, I was training
to be a sign language interpreter
796
00:33:20,855 --> 00:33:22,575
before this, and I really loved it.
797
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,940
Um, I was, I also was studying,
uh, as a counselor, so I was
798
00:33:27,210 --> 00:33:28,140
aiming myself to be that guy.
799
00:33:28,660 --> 00:33:31,200
I'm a therapist for, um,
hearing impaired people.
800
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:32,510
I love that.
801
00:33:32,900 --> 00:33:35,720
I, I love, I love the
science of helping people.
802
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,650
It's interesting to me and how, you
know, I'm willing to help other people.
803
00:33:39,650 --> 00:33:40,900
You usually end up
804
00:33:40,900 --> 00:33:42,430
Marc Preston: helping yourself as well.
805
00:33:42,650 --> 00:33:44,080
I always want to learn
sign language as well.
806
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,640
The high school I went to was the,
in our district was the place a lot
807
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:48,750
of the hearing impaired kids went to.
808
00:33:48,750 --> 00:33:50,330
So we had an interpreter
in front of class.
809
00:33:50,350 --> 00:33:53,530
And I was always trying to figure out if I
could like interpret what they were doing.
810
00:33:53,540 --> 00:33:57,615
But, uh, now the last question I got
for you, If you were to jump into that
811
00:33:57,615 --> 00:34:01,425
DeLorean and you're going to be going
back to have a moment with 16 year
812
00:34:01,425 --> 00:34:05,295
old you, you got a piece of advice to
pass along to make that moment, either
813
00:34:05,295 --> 00:34:07,975
that moment better or set yourself
on a little bit different path.
814
00:34:08,095 --> 00:34:10,335
What would your advice
to 16 year old you be?
815
00:34:10,870 --> 00:34:10,970
I
816
00:34:10,970 --> 00:34:13,700
Kristian Nairn: would, I would actually
grab myself by the face, I would, I
817
00:34:13,700 --> 00:34:18,500
would grab myself and stare into my eyes
and just go, trust yourself, just trust
818
00:34:18,500 --> 00:34:23,351
yourself, and don't let anyone else, don't
believe, or don't go for what anyone else
819
00:34:23,351 --> 00:34:25,574
wants you to do, just believe in yourself.
820
00:34:25,574 --> 00:34:26,963
It took me a very
821
00:34:26,963 --> 00:34:27,519
Marc Preston: long time.
822
00:34:27,519 --> 00:34:30,215
My friend, I appreciate you
taking time out to talk to me.
823
00:34:30,215 --> 00:34:31,435
This has been wonderful.
824
00:34:31,475 --> 00:34:32,785
Uh, I really appreciate it.
825
00:34:32,865 --> 00:34:36,525
And of course, uh, beyond the throne,
looking forward to checking that out.
826
00:34:36,605 --> 00:34:38,855
A great story just from
what you've told me.
827
00:34:38,855 --> 00:34:41,775
And, uh, I'm going to be, we
should check in at some point in
828
00:34:41,775 --> 00:34:44,675
time down the line after I've seen
all of games at game of thrones.
829
00:34:45,035 --> 00:34:50,215
And I'll compare some notes, but, uh, my
friend, have yourself a, uh, a wonderful
830
00:34:50,225 --> 00:34:53,545
rest of your week, and hopefully we'll
have a chance to check in down the line.
831
00:34:53,545 --> 00:34:54,635
My friend, I hope so.
832
00:34:54,695 --> 00:34:55,935
I have a really great day, my friend.
833
00:34:55,955 --> 00:34:57,075
I really appreciate this.
834
00:34:59,865 --> 00:35:00,485
Well, there you go.
835
00:35:00,605 --> 00:35:04,535
Kristian Nairn really enjoyed the
opportunity to sit down with him.
836
00:35:04,835 --> 00:35:06,615
Of course, the new memoir.
837
00:35:06,750 --> 00:35:07,690
It is out right now.
838
00:35:07,690 --> 00:35:12,270
It is called beyond the throne
recounting an intriguing journey.
839
00:35:12,530 --> 00:35:15,080
Cool guy, again, a game of thrones.
840
00:35:15,090 --> 00:35:15,940
You can check him out.
841
00:35:16,170 --> 00:35:21,160
HBO also, uh, our flag
means death HBO as well.
842
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,280
And max, but really enjoyed the
opportunity to sit down with Kristian,
843
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,590
grab the book, uh, and of course,
pop on over to story and craft.
844
00:35:28,730 --> 00:35:30,290
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845
00:35:30,730 --> 00:35:33,730
Uh, that's where you can find out
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846
00:35:33,790 --> 00:35:38,860
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847
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852
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853
00:35:58,075 --> 00:36:00,285
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854
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857
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858
00:36:09,725 --> 00:36:14,025
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859
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860
00:36:17,885 --> 00:36:18,595
Thank you so much.
861
00:36:18,635 --> 00:36:19,265
Appreciate it.
862
00:36:19,295 --> 00:36:22,065
Uh, I'm going to get on out of
here, get this, uh, Very well
863
00:36:22,065 --> 00:36:26,115
behaved golden retriever, uh, puppy
who, uh, I'm actually surprised.
864
00:36:26,115 --> 00:36:27,565
He's so chill right now under me.
865
00:36:27,565 --> 00:36:29,515
I'm going to get him
outside a little treat.
866
00:36:29,925 --> 00:36:30,375
Oh my God.
867
00:36:30,375 --> 00:36:31,225
I said the T word.
868
00:36:31,375 --> 00:36:32,255
I got his attention now.
869
00:36:32,635 --> 00:36:33,835
All right, let me get on out of here.
870
00:36:33,835 --> 00:36:37,575
I'm going to check you next time,
right here on story and craft.
871
00:36:37,875 --> 00:36:40,415
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872
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Kristian Nairn
Actor | DJ | Author
Kristian Nairn is a Northern Irish Actor and Musician. He is a successful DJ, having performed alongside acts such as the Scissor Sisters. He has worked Worldwide. Game of Thrones marks Nairn's first major acting role. He plays the role of the enigmatic fan favorite character, Hodor.