Oct. 29, 2024

Kristian Nairn | Beyond The Throne

Kristian Nairn | Beyond The Throne
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Kristian Nairn | Beyond The Throne

On this episode of The Story & Craft Podcast, we sit down with actor, DJ and author, Kristian Nairn, who has a new memoir out called “Beyond The Throne!”  Kristian is known for his work on Game of Thrones and Our Flag Means Death, as well as his work as a DJ and mixer.  We discuss the cultural impact of Game of Thrones, as well as the creative process behind being a DJ and authoring a book about his own life experiences.  It’s a great conversation with Kristian’s as we touch on his reflections on self-acceptance and authenticity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Introduction to Story Craft03:26 The Journey to Game of Thrones04:46 DJing and Musical Influences07:06 The Art of Remixing10:22 Performing Live and Acting15:55 Early Life and Education20:36 The DJ Journey Begins21:49 Dream Festivals and Travel22:30 Memorable Nights in Ibiza22:56 The Club Scene and Its Culture23:30 Acting Aspirations and Career Reflections25:15 Writing the Book: Epiphanies and Reflections28:25 The Seven QuestionsListen and subscribe on your favorite podcast app.  Also, check out the show and sign up for the newsletter at  www.storyandcraftpod.com...#podcast #KristianNairn #Acting #Actor #Author #DJ #GameofThrones #OurFlagMeansDeath #EDM #ElectronicMusic #TranceMusic #HouseMusic #HBO #BeyondTheThrone #lgbtq #storyandcraft

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Kristian Nairn:

Because they have a castle built inside a

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studio, and everything's real.

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It's not just silly props.

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Everything smells correct.

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Not that I know what a

castle should smell like.

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There would be real dead animals

hanging out, like, you really

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felt like you were there.

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Announcer: Welcome to Story Craft.

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Now, here's your host, Marc Preston.

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Marc Preston: Okay, here we go.

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Another episode of Story Craft.

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How are you?

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Hope you're doing well.

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My name is Marc Preston.

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If this is your first episode

of Story Craft, welcome.

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Welcome.

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So glad to have you appreciate you,

uh, being by for the fun and mischief.

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And of course, if this is a return

episode, you've been here before.

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Thank you for coming back by very much.

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Appreciate it.

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All right today, Kristian Nairn going

to let you check out the, uh, sit down

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Kristian and I had a really cool guy.

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You might know him from game of Thrones.

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Uh, also our flag means

death and other HBO show.

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Uh, now the new book he has

out a memoir is called beyond.

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The throne talking about his life,

his background, uh, not only as an

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actor, but as a DJ, uh, he's mixed

with and toured with, uh, some big

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names, just an interesting guy.

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Really enjoyed the opportunity

to sit down with Kristian.

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Also appreciate the opportunity

to have you here with me.

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Uh, don't forget if you would.

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That way you get notified every

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And also it's a way to show a little bit

of love and you know, I appreciate it.

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I'm sending you a big hug right now.

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For showing love and also

a story and craft pod.

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com, the website, everything you

could possibly want to know about

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the show again, story and craft pod.

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com.

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All right.

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So, uh, right now I've got a,

uh, golden retriever, uh, the

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ranger is underneath my legs here.

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Uh, he's being very good.

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Uh, yes, I'm talking about you.

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You know, it's his first show he's

done with me, hanging out, sitting, uh,

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sitting with me here while I record.

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He's looking at me going,

make this thing interesting.

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Okay, so I will do that right

now because it is Kristian Nairn

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Day, right here on Story Craft.

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Kristian Nairn: Yeah, it's very much

about our flagman's death at the moment.

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Although there's definitely been a

resurgence and the interest for Game

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of Thrones with It's interesting,

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Marc Preston: it seems like Game of

Thrones, it has kind of like a following

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which doesn't abate, you know, it's just

people are just very passionate about it.

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Now the, the book you put out, is it a

memoir or is it kind of you reflecting

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on your time uh, doing Game of Thrones?

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Okay, what's kind of For lack

of a better way of putting

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Kristian Nairn: it, the gist of the book.

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Well, when I first started this

process, I didn't know the difference

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between an autobiography and a memoir.

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But I do now know that it is,

it is definitely a memoir.

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It's just a time in my life, really,

right from the start till now, um, it's

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not an autobiography because I still

believe there's plenty more to come.

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I'm interested to see

what's going to happen now.

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I'm not going to write another

one, but, um, It's just about

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how the show changed my life.

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It really helped me fit into my own skin.

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And, uh, I try to make me, I

don't say that I set it into

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my life when I was younger.

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And through things like Game

of Thrones, music, performance,

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and really finding who I am.

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Um, I made my life fit me rather

than me trying to fit in, you

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know, and that's been successful

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Marc Preston: for me.

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How did Game of Thrones come to you?

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I mean, was there something that

you were just a working actor?

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You're out there, you're auditioning,

or was there somebody saw you?

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It's like, yeah, we got this thing

we're doing and you're great for it.

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You know, how did it

come together for you?

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That's a little bit of

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Kristian Nairn: both.

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Um, I wasn't working as

an actor at the time.

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I was, uh, I was actually a drag

artist, a DJ, um, and occasionally I

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would have had a dramatic audition,

but I didn't really, honestly, I didn't

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really have that much interest in it

at the time because I thought music

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was the only thing that fulfilled me.

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Um, I later discovered that it's actually

expression that fulfills me, any kind of

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expression, be it acting, be it DJing,

singing, be it drawing a picture on my

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own with no, with no commercial attitudes.

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It all makes me feel the same.

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And that's a good thing.

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I just have to express and create.

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Um, and that's the, what the

book shows, but it wasn't an

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easy path for me to get there.

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I take passive blame for that

as well myself, because you have

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to believe in yourself before

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Marc Preston: anybody else will.

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Transcribed I think a lot of self doubt

anytime you, anytime you do something

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creative, you know, because what I think

motivates people to do something creative.

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Uh, and the folks I've spoken with here

and in my career and doing what I do, you

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know, you have a lot of folks are kind of

in their own head a little bit, you know,

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they have something they want to express.

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They just got to find the right path.

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You know, you said you were DJing.

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That's something for me, which is

very cool because I know only my kids

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who have this, the, your, your genre

of music or genres of music, uh,

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something I'm, I'm actually pretty into.

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Question, cause I got a nerd out

on this, your opinion, uh, cause

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you're the only, the only mixer DJ

I've had a chance to speak with.

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Oh, no, no, no, no.

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I did.

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I did.

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No, I did speak to Ariel Vroman,

uh, who's a director as well.

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I did speak with him.

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Uh, he has that new show.

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It'll be, uh, 1992 coming out.

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Um, would you say, like,

would it be, like, maybe mid

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to late 90s to early 2000s?

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Do you think that was kind of like a A

golden era, a lot of the guys which are

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now being sampled in music, uh, and,

and, or being having remixes come out.

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What, what is your thought on that?

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Just to kind of as a little side

note, do you think that was sort of a

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pivotal era in, in electronic music?

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Kristian Nairn: Very much so.

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Um, I knew really very little about

electronic music back then, but

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I was a very anxious music buyer.

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I just, uh, we had to retain a friend

that I would go down to the local

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music store on a Monday with as much

money or pocket money, we could muster.

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Uh, um, I would just buy random

cheap CD singles and that's how

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I got into house music really.

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Because you had like

Robin S, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Um, you had like all the big

tracks, which are still being,

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as you say, remixed today.

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They've been released like a hundred times

already, but the originals came out then.

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And it was a heyday.

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And it was for quite a long time.

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The club scene was booming.

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Um, you had artists like

Shapeshifters, who did Lola's theme.

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That changed, that changed house music.

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Um, I, I, I would, I would say

blame, I, I would attribute.

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To the explosion.

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Absolutely.

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But, um, it's very different now.

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Very different on your right.

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Yeah.

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I,

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Marc Preston: I'm kind of into,

uh, I I guess it would be defined

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because like it was tropical house,

you know, I don't know if that Yeah.

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You know, there's so many sub and

some sub genres and that's kind

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of like, I don't know it, 'cause

I'm living next to the beach.

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I don't know if that's kinda

like sitting or something.

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Like, I noticed that a lot of the big

names there, uh, that were, that were

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really, that were just kind of in the

scene and, and there was, they were

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getting kind of regular radio airplay.

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Uh, like Robert Miles, the song children.

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I remember that was like a

big, I've looked at some of

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the names of your remixing.

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I, you know, again, I got

to geek out a little bit.

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When you remix a song,

what is the process?

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Do you hear it and go, God, I've

got some ideas of their song.

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What I can, what I

personally can do with it.

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What's the path of going,

I'm going to remix it.

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Do you get in touch with the artist

and how do you get a hold of the tracks

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that you need, or do you just get the

raw song and to start playing with it?

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Kristian Nairn: There are so many ways.

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It's going to cut, um, through,

do we say that anymore?

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Swag your cats.

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We'll swag them.

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Yeah.

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We'll swag them non violently.

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We'll just sniff your face.

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The cat's enjoying the swagging, guys.

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So if I go after the track, if there's a

track I might want to do, I will contact

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the artist and I'll ask for the parts.

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You ask for the parts.

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If you're producing on a DAW, um,

like Logic or, um, Fruity Loops

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or Raisin, anything like that.

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Um, those are all different programs

for producing electronic music.

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Um, you get all the parts separately,

the bass, the synthesizers, even the

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automation on the tracks, like turning up

a chorus or turning up a, uh, a reverb.

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That's all I'm going to do.

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I'll be in.

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It'll be in the files, if you

can get the original signs,

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Marc Preston: it's better because

yeah, I'm assuming it would be

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because if it just, you know, you can

really rebuild it from, from scratch.

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Uh, but did you have a musical background?

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Are we, were you a, were you a band kid

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Kristian Nairn: in school?

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And I try to play things in rather

than draw that if you don't mean

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with the mouse, I can't play piano,

I can't play the guitar and stuff.

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So I try to do it slightly differently.

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You said like, when you're writing

music on a computer like this,

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it doesn't feel natural to me.

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So I try

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Marc Preston: to do it on

an instrument at least.

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As far as the collaborations, like

what, if you go into your library, what

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is it that you think is like, Oh man,

this is, this is for me, this is kind

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of like perfect collaboration or this

is, this is exactly, uh, this is my,

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my, my figurative voice, you know, what

would that, what would that be for you?

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Kristian Nairn: If you're working

with an original track, it's all

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about putting your stamp on it.

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Um, you obviously have a point of view.

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And you have an end goal.

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Um, so I first of all try to

work out is this gonna work?

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Is it gonna work with the elements

that I'm gonna change the,

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I'm gonna change the baseline.

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Um, a lot of the tracks I choose

from our traditional, like

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nineties or two thousands TRAs.

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And so for start, I'm gonna

have bring 'em down at BPM by

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probably 15 to 20 BPM sometimes.

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And that will automatically

create space and therefore a

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very different vibe to the track.

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So that's, that's almost that

part of the work done for me.

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If I can slow it down, create

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from all the mad 135 to 145 BPM.

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It definitely creates head space.

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And the music, I like that, I enjoy that.

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When I listen to music, I put my

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and I imagine that most people

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I don't know, but when I have a little

bit of space in the track, I can sort

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of, even my imagination goes nuts.

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Like, even when I listen to some of

the old classic records, like Beethoven

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and stuff, when I was a child, I

would be going, why didn't he do that?

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Why didn't he try this direction?

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And my mom was always like,

oh shut up, Kristian.

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Right, yeah, it's Beethoven.

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What would you know?

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I'll just show you, what would I know?

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I've always been into

reworking and rejigging.

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Marc Preston: So do you, do you enjoy,

um, were you always a performer?

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I know you're getting, when you get up

and DJ and you do a live set, you've

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got, you know, my daughter works with me.

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She bartended over the summer at a

big beach bar here on the island.

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Steve Aoki came and played and do you

enjoy being up in front of a large

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crowd and just kind of, kind of just,

you know, what's the energy like for

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Kristian Nairn: you

when you're doing that?

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It's the best feeling in the world.

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Um, of all the things I do in my life

and have done and probably will do.

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Um, there's nothing gives me a bigger

buzz than standing behind a DJ, um,

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set or being on stage with music.

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Um, I've, I've played in bands, you

asked me before with the band kids

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thing, I've toured with Scissor Sisters.

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Um, I've been on tour with a number of

bands actually, and it's the same feeling.

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I just love being on stage.

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For someone who was such a shy

kid, I would have told you, you

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were crazy, um, if you'd told

me what I would do for a career.

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Marc Preston: Isn't that

weird how that works out?

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Yeah, I remember I was telling one

of my kids It's like I could be on

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stage in front of 10 000 people I

used to work at a radio and had a

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syndicate show and everything to

get on I remember I got on stage.

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I was introducing I forgot who it was

to some late 90s band and I I think it

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was like I think it was goo goo dolls

I think uh, or oh wow And when you get

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on stage when you get lights are on

you can only see the first few rows

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anyway That, that for me was a charge.

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I was cool, but you put me in

front of like three or four people.

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That's a different story.

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So it's like the bigger the crowd,

the easier it is for those who are.

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I agree with that.

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Kristian Nairn: developed this

like focus point, which is

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just above people's eye line.

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So you're not actually making

contact with them, but you do, you

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basically drop your eyes down to the

fan, the thing, give them a wave.

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And then focus on that point

where it looks like you're living

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in the crowd, but you're not.

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Marc Preston: Were there any

parallels that you found in terms

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of performance between mixing and

doing all that and being on camera?

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Well, to me,

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Kristian Nairn: it's the same.

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It's the same vibe.

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Um, when I get up on the stage to

DJ, that's not really me there.

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Um, in some ways, it's not me.

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In some ways, it's never more me.

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But it's not me upsetting

you or talking to you.

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It's, it's a character in a way,

just like being a drag queen was

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playing a character version of itself.

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So it's very obvious that it's the

same, uh, to me, it's very obvious

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that it's the same zone in my head.

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And that's why I realized that it's

not just the individual thing of

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acting or thing of music or it's, it's

everything that really lights my fire.

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Um, and that's why I feel very

lucky that I really, I really

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have tied together three or four

things quite successfully so far.

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I feel really grateful for it.

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Because, uh, I liked the variation.

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Marc Preston: So acting, what was like

one of the big learning curve things

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that you, you know, you're, you're

working with experienced actors, you

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know, you're working on, you know,

arguably kind of a popular show.

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The show is sort of like a

law I mentioned lost earlier.

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It had cultural impact, you know,

what was that a heady thing for you?

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Or did you know going into it or while

you're doing it, did you have the sense of

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how big this was or how big it would be?

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Or what was your take on that?

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Kristian Nairn: Um, yes, I, first of all,

did on the first day say how big it was.

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Because they have a castle built

inside, built inside a studio.

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Um, and everything's real.

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Uh, it's not just silly props.

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These are things that have been made by

artisans, and everything smells correct.

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Not that I know what, not that I

know what a castle should smell like.

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But I, I, I think, That's correct.

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That would be real dead animals

hanging up with like, uh, just as

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a big obituary, like it was real.

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It felt real.

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I'm not made it really easy

to inhabit an imaginary space.

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Um, you really felt like you were

there and there was a sense of

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responsibility, um, for me cause

I did not want to do a bad job.

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Um, I really did not want to do a bad job.

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I was worried about that at first.

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Um, you know, the other thing that didn't

do me any favors because as many people

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who, as many people who were celebrating

that I'd got the part, there were other

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people saying, well, he's not an actor.

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Um, and the weird thing was that

when it came out that I was a DJ,

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the people who didn't know that said,

Oh, he's going to be a celebrity DJ.

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And I'm like, I can't win.

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I can't win.

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That was 20 years.

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You know, it wasn't just an idea I

had to bring them some extra money.

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I think that was my job.

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But um, there was definitely a heaviness

to me, for me, um, until I became

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more confident in what I was doing.

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Um, and the confidence

was the key, really.

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I'd also been collaborative.

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Marc Preston: Um, yeah, that had to be

something a little bit different for you

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because when you're DJing, you're, you're

in a room, you're home and you're, you got

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your setup and you're, you're building the

tracks here, but you're on a set, you're

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with other actors and you're reacting

and, and you know, vibing on their energy.

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That had to be a big kind of 180

for you, at least a little bit.

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Kristian Nairn: really being a good DJ,

I'll say, I was going to say being a

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DJ, but I will think being a good DJ,

you should be able to read a crowd.

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I need to talk to you about energy.

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It's all about energy, man.

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Really?

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It's all about energy.

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Um, isn't life all about energy,

but it's the same, it's, it's all

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about reading the energy correctly.

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I'm giving your energy back

correctly in a way that

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Marc Preston: makes sense artistically.

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When Game of Thrones was going on,

when you, when you were shooting it,

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rather, well, I'm first of all, where

did y'all shoot Game of Thrones?

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Within around Northern Ireland.

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All my scenes were filmed there.

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So it wasn't too, it wasn't

too big of a jump for you, so.

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Going back to your, your origin story

in Ireland, what did your folks do?

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Were they, were they at all on

the creative side of things or?

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Yeah, never met my father.

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So,

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Kristian Nairn: um, I believe he was

good at the theater, but I don't know.

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Um, mom's not particularly

creative, though.

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Um, I don't come from the

political positions or actors.

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Uh, no, uh, maybe it was the milkman.

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I'm not sure.

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I've got it from somewhere there.

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Uh, did you have any, did you have any

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Marc Preston: siblings coming up

or were you, were you an only kid?

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No, I'm an only child.

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Just me and my mom.

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All right.

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You, you and I are in the only kid club.

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You know, I always like people when they

say, oh, you must have been spoiled.

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I was like, spoiled.

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No, no.

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It's, it's, it's, no, no.

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Not, not at all.

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Not spoiled.

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But so you're in Ireland, kind of the arc

of your experience based on the, like what

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you said that doing the DJ thing, what you

did kind of helped you come out of your,

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um, you know, figuratively come out of

the closet, you know, come out, kind of

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come into who you were meant to be, if you

will, what was the arc of experience for

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you, like high school, when did it, when

did you start feeling like I'm going to

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do my thing, you know, The hell with it.

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I'm gonna, I'm gonna, you know, feel

kind of, kind of like you said, you, you,

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uh, your expression, you know, you're

finding the ways to express yourself.

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When did that kick in for you?

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Kristian Nairn: I think it was

just, I went to a college in, or a

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school in Belfast called Methody,

or Methodist College Belfast.

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It's a really, it's a great school.

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Mum really fought hard to put me in there.

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Is that a good?

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And I didn't swim at all.

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Uh, it was, uh, I didn't

enjoy any second of it.

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Any second.

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Um, because it was quite a

traditional school, like St.

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Aidan, or like, without all the slobs.

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Um, and Hogwarts, uh, everywhere.

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Like, just, the teachers wore

the mortarboards, the man,

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and the robe, the bat robe.

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Like, especially about corridor,

like we are or something.

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Um, that's the kind of school that

was, um, and I just did not vibe there.

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And I remember the last year I

wanted to go back to my A levels.

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That's, I don't know what the

equivalent is in America, but it's

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just before you go to university.

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I went to go back and I'd

grown my hair over the summer.

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Didn't seem important.

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And I got back in, I just got all this

hassle about how I looked and tucked

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my shirt in, you know, what happens if

you're sitting on a bus looking like this?

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I can't, you're not interested

in what we want to learn.

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You're not interested in, uh, in pushing

children towards things that they like.

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It sounds like more of a

conformity kind of a thing, you

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Marc Preston: know?

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Kristian Nairn: Yeah.

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At that stage, I'd had enough.

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I broke my mom's heart.

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I was able to see her really

fought hard to get me in there.

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And that was a pretentious moment.

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But I think she realized at the end that

I was starting to come out of Michelle

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and I needed, that was so important to

me that I, to know that little inch of,

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inch of her manicure color, that little

inch, that was so important to me.

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I would have, I would have, I

would have went to ground for that.

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Because it was just the first

statement, you know, it's the first

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thing I wouldn't back down about.

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Marc Preston: So you

decided to leave early.

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Yeah.

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What was the next step?

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You know, here you are, you

know, your mother's like, I

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don't know what you're doing.

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Did you already have a North Star?

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Did you say, this is something I want

to do, be it music or, or did you just

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like, you didn't know anything, you

had no idea what you wanted to do.

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Kristian Nairn: I knew music, but, um, my

mom sent me to that school because it had

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a legendary music department and she kind

of hoped that that would focus me on that.

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But all they were interested in with

me was getting me to play rugby.

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Oh, that I had.

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Absolutely zero, zero

interest in playing rugby.

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And that didn't go down well with

them, but I didn't have a no star, um,

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apart from the music I loved, I didn't

ever think I could make it a career.

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Uh, I didn't know if I'll be able to,

because I didn't think I lived right.

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You know, I didn't think I had the look.

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Just, I mean, it's a real thing, you know?

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Um, I don't believe it anymore, but.

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Back then I thought I would have had

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Marc Preston: to live a certain way.

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Yeah.

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So they looked at you, you know, you're

six 10, they're trying to capitalize

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on your stature, you know, it reminds

me, I remember a seventh grade.

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I got to junior high school and I remember

the vice principal became, I was already

440

00:19:53,225 --> 00:19:55,175

really, really tall for, for my age.

441

00:19:55,245 --> 00:19:56,165

I'm six two now.

442

00:19:56,165 --> 00:19:56,514

I don't know.

443

00:19:56,754 --> 00:19:59,615

I don't remember how tall I was then,

but I was one of the taller kids and

444

00:19:59,615 --> 00:20:02,274

he came up to me and he said, uh,

Hey, we really would love you to,

445

00:20:02,275 --> 00:20:05,215

you know, comes up to my locker, it's

like, You know, you play basketball.

446

00:20:05,215 --> 00:20:06,324

We want to see you at the tryouts.

447

00:20:06,324 --> 00:20:08,985

I'm like, I have zero interest

in playing basketball.

448

00:20:09,435 --> 00:20:12,715

And I just, it just was not a

sport that really grabbed me.

449

00:20:13,124 --> 00:20:16,885

And so I remember my, the rest

of my junior high experience.

450

00:20:16,885 --> 00:20:18,294

I think he was irritated at me.

451

00:20:18,334 --> 00:20:21,264

You know, I was not his favorite person

because I wouldn't play or something,

452

00:20:21,264 --> 00:20:22,594

you know, but I know that feeling.

453

00:20:22,970 --> 00:20:24,690

Kristian Nairn: I have the feeling

too, you had the coach that was

454

00:20:24,690 --> 00:20:25,830

a little bit disappointed in you.

455

00:20:25,940 --> 00:20:27,200

Yeah, yeah, that's, yeah.

456

00:20:27,350 --> 00:20:28,940

I'm not interested in this shit, dude.

457

00:20:29,140 --> 00:20:30,880

Honestly, don't interest him.

458

00:20:31,360 --> 00:20:34,420

Marc Preston: So when did the

DJing come into your life?

459

00:20:34,420 --> 00:20:36,599

When did you sit down and start mixing?

460

00:20:36,599 --> 00:20:39,609

Was it something that you had heard

and like, how do they do that?

461

00:20:39,609 --> 00:20:41,870

Or was it just, or did you

just kind of fall into it?

462

00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,620

Kristian Nairn: I was simply a club kid

and I was working, as I say, in drag.

463

00:20:46,300 --> 00:20:49,340

Someone, did he show up for a

shift one night and I learned

464

00:20:49,340 --> 00:20:50,690

how to do it in music college.

465

00:20:50,750 --> 00:20:51,830

I fell in for him.

466

00:20:52,530 --> 00:20:54,020

And the rest was history.

467

00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,300

Um, it just worked.

468

00:20:57,100 --> 00:20:58,080

It worked really well.

469

00:20:58,430 --> 00:21:03,679

I was the kid who, when I was in, I'd been

a big heavy metal fan all my life as well.

470

00:21:03,910 --> 00:21:06,960

And I would bring my friends to

my bedroom and I'd be listening

471

00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:11,050

to a guitar solo and I was so

keen to share things that I loved.

472

00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:12,870

I'd be like, look, let's

listen to this part.

473

00:21:12,870 --> 00:21:16,210

And I'd let out my friend, welcome

the musician, and they'd be going, uh.

474

00:21:17,205 --> 00:21:20,875

Uh, yeah, whatever, but I was

so excited for me being a DJ.

475

00:21:20,885 --> 00:21:21,635

That's the same thing.

476

00:21:21,645 --> 00:21:23,325

It was like sharing the

things I love with people.

477

00:21:24,764 --> 00:21:26,424

That's why I feel so good about it.

478

00:21:26,505 --> 00:21:28,314

Uh, I love the crowds going really well.

479

00:21:28,315 --> 00:21:29,225

You'll get that all back.

480

00:21:30,505 --> 00:21:31,875

Yeah, the energy gets returned to you.

481

00:21:31,875 --> 00:21:33,285

And I love, I love that.

482

00:21:34,484 --> 00:21:37,305

Um, actually I don't do as much

as I used to because things are

483

00:21:37,305 --> 00:21:38,915

slightly different now since COVID.

484

00:21:39,615 --> 00:21:41,655

Um, I used to be a DJ four times a week.

485

00:21:41,905 --> 00:21:42,595

Uh, really?

486

00:21:42,774 --> 00:21:43,155

Yeah.

487

00:21:43,195 --> 00:21:43,635

Yeah.

488

00:21:43,635 --> 00:21:46,955

All over the world, but

it's not coming back again,

489

00:21:47,085 --> 00:21:48,855

Marc Preston: but I really miss it.

490

00:21:49,459 --> 00:21:51,769

See, that to me seems like the

exciting thing, being able to

491

00:21:51,769 --> 00:21:53,970

travel to the different festivals.

492

00:21:53,970 --> 00:21:55,959

Like, I've always wanted

to go to, uh, like Ibiza in

493

00:21:55,959 --> 00:21:57,690

Spain, uh, and check that out.

494

00:21:57,690 --> 00:22:00,379

Like, there's, uh, cause I like

the ballet art trance stuff.

495

00:22:00,420 --> 00:22:03,959

I like, or like, uh, there's a guy

named DJ Shaw, or, uh, uh, oh God,

496

00:22:03,999 --> 00:22:05,869

uh, Roger Shaw, I think it's his name.

497

00:22:06,169 --> 00:22:08,899

But just kind of that vibe,

everybody's there to have a good

498

00:22:08,899 --> 00:22:10,729

time, they're all into that thing.

499

00:22:11,215 --> 00:22:12,825

And it's, you're just

kind of vibing on it.

500

00:22:12,825 --> 00:22:13,445

To me, that'd be kind of fun.

501

00:22:13,445 --> 00:22:14,105

I'm a little old.

502

00:22:14,105 --> 00:22:17,405

I get, well, I'm not old, but I'm kind

of at that point of going, fuck it.

503

00:22:17,485 --> 00:22:18,735

I'm just going to do

whatever I want to do.

504

00:22:18,765 --> 00:22:20,095

I'm like, I'm going to go check it out.

505

00:22:20,335 --> 00:22:21,205

You know, I'll bring them.

506

00:22:21,225 --> 00:22:23,064

I'm sure some of my kids

will go along with me.

507

00:22:23,064 --> 00:22:25,194

You're like, Oh yeah, the old

guy, you know, you just, he's

508

00:22:25,194 --> 00:22:26,354

got some issue apparently.

509

00:22:26,644 --> 00:22:29,404

But no, I think that'd be a blast

to, to travel around the world.

510

00:22:29,414 --> 00:22:29,914

DJ.

511

00:22:30,155 --> 00:22:32,915

Kristian Nairn: Basically is that people

who've gone there for years will tell

512

00:22:32,915 --> 00:22:34,175

you it's not as good as it used to be.

513

00:22:34,175 --> 00:22:35,425

I don't have that experience.

514

00:22:35,515 --> 00:22:36,265

I don't know that.

515

00:22:36,715 --> 00:22:38,455

But I've played there

two or three times now.

516

00:22:38,455 --> 00:22:38,485

And.

517

00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:44,010

They were memorable, memorable

nights, and there was a vibe in

518

00:22:44,010 --> 00:22:45,210

the air, you could almost smell it.

519

00:22:45,410 --> 00:22:47,110

Sure, something that you

could smell for sure, yeah.

520

00:22:47,590 --> 00:22:48,829

Let's see what those clubs involved.

521

00:22:48,940 --> 00:22:51,560

You can almost feel it in the

air in a bit, you have this

522

00:22:51,570 --> 00:22:53,600

vibe of partying and just low.

523

00:22:53,869 --> 00:22:55,009

It doesn't matter what age you are, man.

524

00:22:56,065 --> 00:22:58,825

Marc Preston: Yeah, that's kind of

like that movie that XOXO that Netflix

525

00:22:58,855 --> 00:23:02,915

put out that it just seemed like it

was trying to capture a little nugget

526

00:23:02,915 --> 00:23:06,375

of what that experience is like, you

know, people who are gonna, uh, fly

527

00:23:06,375 --> 00:23:09,044

in their own freak flag for lack of a

better way of putting it, you know, and

528

00:23:09,044 --> 00:23:10,945

do it proudly, which is pretty cool.

529

00:23:11,044 --> 00:23:11,974

Um, a great

530

00:23:11,974 --> 00:23:16,135

Kristian Nairn: few of us, the club

kids, club ornament as well, the door

531

00:23:16,135 --> 00:23:20,955

whores, you know, clubs were a haven for

that and that's what I love the most.

532

00:23:21,575 --> 00:23:21,995

I feel like I'm

533

00:23:21,995 --> 00:23:23,534

Marc Preston: getting an

education here at Door Whores.

534

00:23:23,625 --> 00:23:24,955

I have been licensed over the years.

535

00:23:25,675 --> 00:23:29,034

Going to the Game of Thrones and

then, you know, our, our flag means,

536

00:23:29,064 --> 00:23:30,495

I haven't seen our flag means death.

537

00:23:30,495 --> 00:23:33,184

It's, it is on the, it

is on the list as well.

538

00:23:33,564 --> 00:23:38,275

Is there a genre, is there a kind of, uh,

be it a project, be it actors or something

539

00:23:38,275 --> 00:23:41,804

now, uh, that you would like to get into,

that you would like to do, a movie, a

540

00:23:41,804 --> 00:23:46,314

show, you know, so there is something

that you would like to tap into creatively

541

00:23:46,314 --> 00:23:47,624

on camera that you haven't done yet.

542

00:23:48,090 --> 00:23:48,610

Kristian Nairn: Really?

543

00:23:48,909 --> 00:23:50,490

I just live for the next project.

544

00:23:50,750 --> 00:23:54,130

And I know it sounds like a bit of

a cop out, but I really do love the

545

00:23:54,130 --> 00:23:56,960

variation and my, and my career.

546

00:23:57,350 --> 00:23:59,639

So whatever's left is what

I'm looking forward to.

547

00:24:00,030 --> 00:24:01,989

Um, I have no doubts.

548

00:24:02,399 --> 00:24:04,939

Well, there'll be something

cool coming because I

549

00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:05,747

Marc Preston: Time to be a surfer.

550

00:24:05,747 --> 00:24:07,929

You're not really sure what waves

coming in, but you're ready to surf.

551

00:24:08,629 --> 00:24:10,290

Kristian Nairn: I can react to the waves.

552

00:24:10,360 --> 00:24:13,409

Um, you know, I know the

ocean, I know the sea.

553

00:24:13,775 --> 00:24:16,465

So I can, I think I can react

accordingly, but I don't have any plans.

554

00:24:16,505 --> 00:24:20,675

Uh, I've never planned as if you read

the book, you'll probably be very aware.

555

00:24:21,055 --> 00:24:22,785

Um, there were never any concrete plans.

556

00:24:22,855 --> 00:24:24,435

I don't really intend to make any.

557

00:24:24,855 --> 00:24:25,145

So,

558

00:24:25,805 --> 00:24:29,095

Marc Preston: I think there was something

to be said for improv, you know, that's

559

00:24:29,364 --> 00:24:30,744

just improv ing your way through it.

560

00:24:30,765 --> 00:24:33,935

Uh, and I'm trying to remember, even I

did a little bit of cursory, just kind of

561

00:24:33,935 --> 00:24:39,185

looking through that you did, uh, um, uh,

my kids is our like show we all watch.

562

00:24:39,195 --> 00:24:40,584

It's, uh, uh, the rookie.

563

00:24:40,775 --> 00:24:42,585

Uh, Okay.

564

00:24:42,585 --> 00:24:42,705

Yeah.

565

00:24:43,090 --> 00:24:43,390

Okay.

566

00:24:43,570 --> 00:24:44,500

I'm trying to remember the episode.

567

00:24:44,500 --> 00:24:49,450

Was that the episode where, uh, uh,

uh, Eric Winter had to fight you,

568

00:24:49,450 --> 00:24:50,920

I think, or something like that?

569

00:24:51,100 --> 00:24:52,780

Was, am I thinking of the right episode or

570

00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:57,140

Kristian Nairn: No, I was, uh, a guy who'd

been assaulted actually, uh, as a gay man.

571

00:24:57,710 --> 00:24:58,940

Um, he was having a shot.

572

00:24:59,564 --> 00:25:01,250

He, he didn't like the outside.

573

00:25:01,250 --> 00:25:02,209

He was terrified to white.

574

00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:04,890

Marc Preston: Oh, okay.

575

00:25:04,930 --> 00:25:05,200

Okay.

576

00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:05,480

Okay.

577

00:25:05,620 --> 00:25:05,760

Yeah.

578

00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:05,900

Yeah.

579

00:25:05,900 --> 00:25:06,070

Yeah.

580

00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:06,490

Okay.

581

00:25:06,490 --> 00:25:06,960

I gotcha.

582

00:25:07,210 --> 00:25:09,740

I was trying to remember, uh,

cause I know it was one episode.

583

00:25:09,740 --> 00:25:12,329

I was like, okay, I know the kids

and I've seen every episode and I

584

00:25:12,329 --> 00:25:15,180

was trying to think of what, uh,

I do, I do remember that episode.

585

00:25:15,300 --> 00:25:19,240

Now beyond the throne, did you have

any epiphanies writing the book that

586

00:25:19,250 --> 00:25:22,020

G ever write and go, Oh, I didn't

really kind of put this together

587

00:25:22,020 --> 00:25:25,220

until now, you know, sitting down,

put my life notes in front of me.

588

00:25:25,220 --> 00:25:28,760

Did some, was there an epiphany

about your, Growing up or

589

00:25:28,770 --> 00:25:30,030

anything, the whole book

590

00:25:30,030 --> 00:25:30,780

Kristian Nairn: was an epiphany.

591

00:25:31,139 --> 00:25:32,470

Everything's been an epiphany to me.

592

00:25:32,470 --> 00:25:35,810

I didn't ever expect to be

writing a book about my life.

593

00:25:35,899 --> 00:25:39,819

Um, that itself was an epiphany.

594

00:25:40,699 --> 00:25:44,320

But even during these interviews,

I've had some epiphanies.

595

00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,659

Cause what's your number?

596

00:25:47,210 --> 00:25:50,240

It's not, it's just, you know, obviously

you're reading off a page or whatever.

597

00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:54,870

It's whatever, but while I talk

about my life, I'm always breaking

598

00:25:54,870 --> 00:25:56,070

it down every time as well.

599

00:25:56,070 --> 00:26:01,040

So I'm literally having moments to

myself and every interview also.

600

00:26:01,370 --> 00:26:02,959

So there's hunger zoom in the book.

601

00:26:03,610 --> 00:26:07,955

Um, and that has been a process and

it really has, and I feel better now.

602

00:26:07,955 --> 00:26:11,600

I feel like it has cleansed me a little.

603

00:26:12,625 --> 00:26:12,995

Yeah,

604

00:26:12,995 --> 00:26:16,665

Marc Preston: you kind of, you got to

put it out there and then you look at

605

00:26:16,665 --> 00:26:19,855

it from different angles and you kind

of process it and you realize, you know,

606

00:26:19,955 --> 00:26:22,475

especially if you're kind of like of

that mentality, you know, you got to keep

607

00:26:22,485 --> 00:26:25,105

moving forward, you know, past is past.

608

00:26:25,725 --> 00:26:27,544

Sometimes you compartmentalize it.

609

00:26:27,544 --> 00:26:29,244

You don't really have a chance

to kind of work through it.

610

00:26:29,244 --> 00:26:34,095

And I imagine writing a book forces you

to kind of work through understanding

611

00:26:34,095 --> 00:26:35,784

more about yourself at the very assuming.

612

00:26:36,139 --> 00:26:38,120

Kristian Nairn: But yeah, also, I'm

not ashamed of people that know me.

613

00:26:38,620 --> 00:26:41,969

I haven't always made all the

best decisions, and I don't

614

00:26:41,969 --> 00:26:42,689

know if I would change them.

615

00:26:43,799 --> 00:26:44,719

I'm not ashamed of it.

616

00:26:45,250 --> 00:26:48,139

I'm not ashamed of anything I've

done, and anything I need to explain.

617

00:26:48,749 --> 00:26:55,070

Um, A, I don't do explaining, but if I

had to, I could split, um, even the wrong

618

00:26:55,070 --> 00:26:55,649

Marc Preston: decisions.

619

00:26:56,010 --> 00:26:58,740

Well, is there any takeaway that you

would like, you know, someone like

620

00:26:59,010 --> 00:27:03,270

yourself with your upbringing or with

your, your life experience, you know,

621

00:27:03,270 --> 00:27:06,660

if you could reach somebody with a

book, who would that be and kind of what

622

00:27:06,660 --> 00:27:08,340

would you want their takeaway to be?

623

00:27:08,340 --> 00:27:12,810

You know, if you could kind of influence

or, uh, motivator, whatever you wanna

624

00:27:12,810 --> 00:27:16,159

call it, or make somebody feel better

about a moment in life, you know, what

625

00:27:16,159 --> 00:27:19,929

would you like, who would you like to

talk to with, uh, uh, with this book?

626

00:27:20,170 --> 00:27:21,100

I wanna talk to the people

627

00:27:21,100 --> 00:27:22,960

Kristian Nairn: who like

me when I was younger.

628

00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,930

The life is full of people

telling you who you are.

629

00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,740

Um, and who they want you

to be and who you should be.

630

00:27:29,530 --> 00:27:32,879

Um, but there's only one,

there's only one person that

631

00:27:32,879 --> 00:27:34,740

matters and that's you, yourself.

632

00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:40,110

Um, as long as you're happy with yourself,

um, don't let anybody else influence

633

00:27:40,110 --> 00:27:41,629

you, who you are and what you love.

634

00:27:42,170 --> 00:27:45,800

Um, cause that is not a recipe

for success and happiness.

635

00:27:46,379 --> 00:27:50,450

Um, and it will come out in

horrible, negative ways in your life.

636

00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,670

Even if the person who, even if the

people who are trying to influence you are

637

00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:54,630

thinking they're doing it for the best.

638

00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,560

It's just toxic and unhealthy to

be anyone but who you truly are.

639

00:27:59,389 --> 00:28:02,629

If I can help someone get there

faster, uh, maybe through my own

640

00:28:02,629 --> 00:28:05,100

example, I'd be a happy, I'd be a happy

641

00:28:05,100 --> 00:28:05,310

Marc Preston: boy.

642

00:28:05,810 --> 00:28:06,500

That's awesome.

643

00:28:06,550 --> 00:28:07,149

I like that.

644

00:28:07,149 --> 00:28:11,310

And that's, uh, I heard something,

uh, a quote once I said, uh, they

645

00:28:11,310 --> 00:28:13,860

didn't really know necessarily the

secret to success, but they knew

646

00:28:13,860 --> 00:28:16,600

the secret to failure, trying to

make everybody happy all the time.

647

00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,919

Well, before we get going, I got

something I call my seven questions.

648

00:28:25,919 --> 00:28:29,220

I always like to throw it out at the kind

of the end of our little chats here, uh,

649

00:28:29,370 --> 00:28:30,560

cause a little extra get to know you.

650

00:28:31,210 --> 00:28:35,380

First question I got is what

is your favorite comfort food?

651

00:28:35,450 --> 00:28:38,780

That thing that just like, it just

makes you feel good at a bad day.

652

00:28:38,780 --> 00:28:40,090

You want it at a great day.

653

00:28:40,090 --> 00:28:41,680

You want it to, what

would that be for you?

654

00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:42,040

There's

655

00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,410

Kristian Nairn: a shameful answer to this.

656

00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,549

And, um, I wouldn't have to reach

my arm very far to prove it.

657

00:28:46,990 --> 00:28:47,669

Uh, probably

658

00:28:47,669 --> 00:28:48,449

Marc Preston: McDonald's.

659

00:28:48,749 --> 00:28:49,489

Uh, that's okay.

660

00:28:49,540 --> 00:28:51,210

My, my youngest daughter, Emma traveled.

661

00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,520

She's she over the summer or she, she

studied in Spain and she went back.

662

00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,120

She met a friend.

663

00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:55,980

She went back to Italy.

664

00:28:56,405 --> 00:28:59,675

She, she has a thing for trying McDonald's

in every country, you know, in Portugal.

665

00:29:00,034 --> 00:29:00,364

Why?

666

00:29:00,514 --> 00:29:03,534

Yeah, I, I, I tried McDonald's

in every goddamn country.

667

00:29:03,715 --> 00:29:06,495

Well, it's probably healthier if you can

say that in other countries besides the U.

668

00:29:06,495 --> 00:29:06,604

S.

669

00:29:06,635 --> 00:29:09,074

because they can't put all that,

all the same junk in it that,

670

00:29:09,074 --> 00:29:09,844

you know, that they do here.

671

00:29:09,844 --> 00:29:11,705

But, um, I got played

with death in that one.

672

00:29:11,854 --> 00:29:12,414

Well, there you go.

673

00:29:12,415 --> 00:29:13,814

So, hey, you know, McDonald's.

674

00:29:13,874 --> 00:29:14,915

Happy meals as a kid.

675

00:29:14,925 --> 00:29:15,655

That was my thing.

676

00:29:15,804 --> 00:29:18,874

Um, now, if you were to sit down with

three people and have a cup of coffee,

677

00:29:18,925 --> 00:29:23,415

uh, talk story for a few hours, living

or not, who would those three people be

678

00:29:23,415 --> 00:29:25,245

you would like to sit down and chat with?

679

00:29:26,055 --> 00:29:26,885

And that's a huge

680

00:29:26,895 --> 00:29:27,495

Kristian Nairn: question.

681

00:29:28,145 --> 00:29:30,465

I would like to sit down with Tina Turner.

682

00:29:31,395 --> 00:29:34,685

That's someone that I've always really

loved to have met and admired greatly.

683

00:29:34,805 --> 00:29:36,025

First concert I ever went to.

684

00:29:36,194 --> 00:29:39,046

Uh, well, yeah, Tina Turner is my hero.

685

00:29:39,046 --> 00:29:42,392

Um, maybe I'd like to meet Gary Oldman.

686

00:29:42,392 --> 00:29:43,228

Oh yeah.

687

00:29:43,228 --> 00:29:47,265

Just to thank him for being one of the

best actors in the world and bringing

688

00:29:47,265 --> 00:29:48,545

some of my favorite characters to life.

689

00:29:48,615 --> 00:29:49,205

Such a community.

690

00:29:50,165 --> 00:29:50,825

Oh yeah.

691

00:29:50,975 --> 00:29:51,255

Yeah.

692

00:29:51,255 --> 00:29:52,985

He's someone that I really look up to.

693

00:29:53,695 --> 00:29:54,245

Um,

694

00:29:55,165 --> 00:29:56,415

Marc Preston: I don't know if that's

your last name is Bill Murray.

695

00:29:56,565 --> 00:29:58,405

That's one of my favorite

tables to sit at.

696

00:29:58,405 --> 00:30:01,425

The one you just laid out here

is like, somehow that's perfect.

697

00:30:01,425 --> 00:30:01,865

I don't know.

698

00:30:01,875 --> 00:30:04,505

That's just like, I haven't heard

somebody put that combination together.

699

00:30:04,525 --> 00:30:05,415

I like that.

700

00:30:05,415 --> 00:30:06,155

Bill Murray is just.

701

00:30:06,295 --> 00:30:06,775

The role model for

702

00:30:06,935 --> 00:30:10,645

Kristian Nairn: Samuel reared me, but

the way you asked that question, it's

703

00:30:10,645 --> 00:30:13,925

weird that they're all males because

I, as I normally say, my heroes are

704

00:30:13,925 --> 00:30:16,995

all, they're all Samuel role models,

but that's interesting because that's a

705

00:30:16,995 --> 00:30:18,044

Marc Preston: slightly

different way to look at it.

706

00:30:18,265 --> 00:30:22,255

Next question, uh, when you were young,

who was your first celebrity crush?

707

00:30:22,615 --> 00:30:23,435

Luke Skywalker.

708

00:30:23,785 --> 00:30:24,845

You don't have to answer that.

709

00:30:25,005 --> 00:30:25,765

I'm loving this.

710

00:30:25,765 --> 00:30:27,245

You're giving me things

I haven't heard before.

711

00:30:27,245 --> 00:30:28,075

Luke Skywalker.

712

00:30:28,185 --> 00:30:28,915

That is awesome.

713

00:30:28,915 --> 00:30:29,895

I'm going to remember that forever.

714

00:30:29,945 --> 00:30:30,125

Number chips.

715

00:30:33,150 --> 00:30:35,145

Eric Estrada, or, oh, no, no, no.

716

00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,180

Or, or is it John?

717

00:30:37,175 --> 00:30:37,465

John?

718

00:30:37,605 --> 00:30:39,180

It was John, uh, the blonde guy.

719

00:30:39,180 --> 00:30:39,330

Yeah.

720

00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:39,900

Yep, yep, yep.

721

00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:40,770

Well, now we know your title.

722

00:30:41,130 --> 00:30:42,145

That was my childhood type.

723

00:30:42,175 --> 00:30:43,265

That was a childhood type.

724

00:30:43,530 --> 00:30:44,160

Very good for you.

725

00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,210

Well, now next question.

726

00:30:45,210 --> 00:30:47,990

Now, if you're gonna be living on an

exotic island, uh, you somewhere, it's

727

00:30:47,990 --> 00:30:51,110

like a resort somewhere you want to be,

but there's no internet, no streaming.

728

00:30:51,380 --> 00:30:52,550

You're gonna be there a year.

729

00:30:52,610 --> 00:30:54,350

You gotta bring one album with you.

730

00:30:54,975 --> 00:30:58,225

And one DVD or one movie that you

can, that you're comfortable just

731

00:30:58,225 --> 00:30:59,955

watching and listening to all year.

732

00:31:00,165 --> 00:31:01,435

What would that album be?

733

00:31:01,545 --> 00:31:03,775

What would that, uh, would that DVD be?

734

00:31:04,075 --> 00:31:06,415

Kristian Nairn: The album would

either be a little easier for me

735

00:31:06,455 --> 00:31:08,195

because music questions are easier.

736

00:31:08,465 --> 00:31:11,165

I would either be the Tron

soundtrack from Daft Punk.

737

00:31:11,835 --> 00:31:12,765

Oh yeah.

738

00:31:12,985 --> 00:31:13,895

Which is amazing.

739

00:31:14,255 --> 00:31:16,825

Or Sonic Temple by The Cult.

740

00:31:17,095 --> 00:31:20,045

That's been my favorite

rock album for many years.

741

00:31:20,265 --> 00:31:23,195

So those are the albums I know I

picked two, but yeah, whatever.

742

00:31:23,445 --> 00:31:23,875

Sue me.

743

00:31:24,355 --> 00:31:25,940

Um, And what was the other one?

744

00:31:26,180 --> 00:31:28,700

It was, uh, what would,

what would the movie be?

745

00:31:28,730 --> 00:31:29,030

Yeah.

746

00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,900

Well, my go to TV show is Frazier,

but where did my go to movies?

747

00:31:32,900 --> 00:31:34,550

Probably Tron to get me to sleep.

748

00:31:34,820 --> 00:31:36,050

Uh, that's why I go to Sleep movie.

749

00:31:36,050 --> 00:31:39,440

I mean, I, the, the soundtrack

really, it, it calms me, but, uh,

750

00:31:40,150 --> 00:31:41,740

lost in translation, possibly.

751

00:31:42,315 --> 00:31:44,565

Marc Preston: Oh, I just told

somebody about that the other day.

752

00:31:44,565 --> 00:31:47,575

That is one of my favorite all time,

but that's one of those movies.

753

00:31:47,645 --> 00:31:49,285

If I see it on TV, I'm watching it.

754

00:31:49,345 --> 00:31:51,025

You know, it's just such a great movie.

755

00:31:51,025 --> 00:31:51,665

So well done.

756

00:31:51,785 --> 00:31:51,925

And

757

00:31:51,965 --> 00:31:54,985

Kristian Nairn: to me, it really

represents being in a strange city,

758

00:31:55,185 --> 00:31:56,495

not really knowing where you are.

759

00:31:56,515 --> 00:32:00,065

Uh, it's just all that weird,

but you're in a privileged

760

00:32:00,065 --> 00:32:02,025

situation, you know, you have to,

761

00:32:02,305 --> 00:32:03,665

Marc Preston: you have

to do your work as well.

762

00:32:03,945 --> 00:32:07,995

And you find your people in the most

random ways sometimes, you know, if

763

00:32:07,995 --> 00:32:11,225

you were to define next question,

uh, your definition of a perfect day,

764

00:32:11,405 --> 00:32:14,395

you know, what would the component

parts be from the time you get up

765

00:32:14,585 --> 00:32:16,135

to tell the time you went to sleep?

766

00:32:16,465 --> 00:32:19,635

What would some of those component parts

be to say, this has been a good day?

767

00:32:20,025 --> 00:32:20,345

Kristian Nairn: Okay.

768

00:32:20,345 --> 00:32:21,715

I probably start off on the beach.

769

00:32:22,285 --> 00:32:23,255

I love the sea.

770

00:32:23,585 --> 00:32:24,555

I love the beach.

771

00:32:24,825 --> 00:32:26,365

That would be the last outdoor adventure.

772

00:32:26,790 --> 00:32:30,030

I'll probably go home and boot up World

of Warcraft for an hour, only because

773

00:32:30,030 --> 00:32:31,880

it's a special day, only for an hour.

774

00:32:32,190 --> 00:32:35,670

Getting to chill with my friends

and just hanging out and having a

775

00:32:35,670 --> 00:32:37,400

laugh and forgetting about work.

776

00:32:37,780 --> 00:32:38,790

That's a, that's a good day.

777

00:32:39,070 --> 00:32:40,490

I'm a little ADHD.

778

00:32:40,630 --> 00:32:42,570

I find it hard to focus sometimes.

779

00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,930

And so finding things

that just let me relax.

780

00:32:45,060 --> 00:32:46,220

I love to craft stuff.

781

00:32:46,260 --> 00:32:47,800

I've recently got into crafting a lot.

782

00:32:48,260 --> 00:32:51,240

So, uh, I'm customizing trailers.

783

00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:52,200

I don't know what's happening to me.

784

00:32:52,220 --> 00:32:53,720

I'm turning into like a, a one man Etsy.

785

00:32:54,235 --> 00:32:57,935

Uh, but I find that really helps me

at ESD, uh, it's just calms the mind.

786

00:32:58,785 --> 00:32:59,885

Uh, and that's what I do it for.

787

00:32:59,905 --> 00:33:04,485

I'm not looking to set up an empire

here, but, uh, yeah, some crafting, a

788

00:33:04,485 --> 00:33:06,885

beach, some Warcraft and my friends.

789

00:33:07,155 --> 00:33:07,845

That's perfect.

790

00:33:07,855 --> 00:33:08,065

That's

791

00:33:08,075 --> 00:33:08,375

Marc Preston: perfect.

792

00:33:08,395 --> 00:33:11,735

Now, last couple of questions is if you

weren't doing this for a living, what

793

00:33:11,735 --> 00:33:15,845

else could you be doing that would you

derive joy from that would be your jam?

794

00:33:15,995 --> 00:33:17,715

What else would you be doing besides this?

795

00:33:18,475 --> 00:33:20,815

Kristian Nairn: Well, I was training

to be a sign language interpreter

796

00:33:20,855 --> 00:33:22,575

before this, and I really loved it.

797

00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,940

Um, I was, I also was studying,

uh, as a counselor, so I was

798

00:33:27,210 --> 00:33:28,140

aiming myself to be that guy.

799

00:33:28,660 --> 00:33:31,200

I'm a therapist for, um,

hearing impaired people.

800

00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:32,510

I love that.

801

00:33:32,900 --> 00:33:35,720

I, I love, I love the

science of helping people.

802

00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:39,650

It's interesting to me and how, you

know, I'm willing to help other people.

803

00:33:39,650 --> 00:33:40,900

You usually end up

804

00:33:40,900 --> 00:33:42,430

Marc Preston: helping yourself as well.

805

00:33:42,650 --> 00:33:44,080

I always want to learn

sign language as well.

806

00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,640

The high school I went to was the,

in our district was the place a lot

807

00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:48,750

of the hearing impaired kids went to.

808

00:33:48,750 --> 00:33:50,330

So we had an interpreter

in front of class.

809

00:33:50,350 --> 00:33:53,530

And I was always trying to figure out if I

could like interpret what they were doing.

810

00:33:53,540 --> 00:33:57,615

But, uh, now the last question I got

for you, If you were to jump into that

811

00:33:57,615 --> 00:34:01,425

DeLorean and you're going to be going

back to have a moment with 16 year

812

00:34:01,425 --> 00:34:05,295

old you, you got a piece of advice to

pass along to make that moment, either

813

00:34:05,295 --> 00:34:07,975

that moment better or set yourself

on a little bit different path.

814

00:34:08,095 --> 00:34:10,335

What would your advice

to 16 year old you be?

815

00:34:10,870 --> 00:34:10,970

I

816

00:34:10,970 --> 00:34:13,700

Kristian Nairn: would, I would actually

grab myself by the face, I would, I

817

00:34:13,700 --> 00:34:18,500

would grab myself and stare into my eyes

and just go, trust yourself, just trust

818

00:34:18,500 --> 00:34:23,351

yourself, and don't let anyone else, don't

believe, or don't go for what anyone else

819

00:34:23,351 --> 00:34:25,574

wants you to do, just believe in yourself.

820

00:34:25,574 --> 00:34:26,963

It took me a very

821

00:34:26,963 --> 00:34:27,519

Marc Preston: long time.

822

00:34:27,519 --> 00:34:30,215

My friend, I appreciate you

taking time out to talk to me.

823

00:34:30,215 --> 00:34:31,435

This has been wonderful.

824

00:34:31,475 --> 00:34:32,785

Uh, I really appreciate it.

825

00:34:32,865 --> 00:34:36,525

And of course, uh, beyond the throne,

looking forward to checking that out.

826

00:34:36,605 --> 00:34:38,855

A great story just from

what you've told me.

827

00:34:38,855 --> 00:34:41,775

And, uh, I'm going to be, we

should check in at some point in

828

00:34:41,775 --> 00:34:44,675

time down the line after I've seen

all of games at game of thrones.

829

00:34:45,035 --> 00:34:50,215

And I'll compare some notes, but, uh, my

friend, have yourself a, uh, a wonderful

830

00:34:50,225 --> 00:34:53,545

rest of your week, and hopefully we'll

have a chance to check in down the line.

831

00:34:53,545 --> 00:34:54,635

My friend, I hope so.

832

00:34:54,695 --> 00:34:55,935

I have a really great day, my friend.

833

00:34:55,955 --> 00:34:57,075

I really appreciate this.

834

00:34:59,865 --> 00:35:00,485

Well, there you go.

835

00:35:00,605 --> 00:35:04,535

Kristian Nairn really enjoyed the

opportunity to sit down with him.

836

00:35:04,835 --> 00:35:06,615

Of course, the new memoir.

837

00:35:06,750 --> 00:35:07,690

It is out right now.

838

00:35:07,690 --> 00:35:12,270

It is called beyond the throne

recounting an intriguing journey.

839

00:35:12,530 --> 00:35:15,080

Cool guy, again, a game of thrones.

840

00:35:15,090 --> 00:35:15,940

You can check him out.

841

00:35:16,170 --> 00:35:21,160

HBO also, uh, our flag

means death HBO as well.

842

00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,280

And max, but really enjoyed the

opportunity to sit down with Kristian,

843

00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,590

grab the book, uh, and of course,

pop on over to story and craft.

844

00:35:28,730 --> 00:35:30,290

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845

00:35:30,730 --> 00:35:33,730

Uh, that's where you can find out

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846

00:35:33,790 --> 00:35:38,860

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847

00:35:38,890 --> 00:35:43,690

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848

00:35:43,690 --> 00:35:46,960

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849

00:35:46,990 --> 00:35:50,200

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850

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851

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852

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853

00:35:58,075 --> 00:36:00,285

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854

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855

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856

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857

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858

00:36:09,725 --> 00:36:14,025

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859

00:36:14,025 --> 00:36:17,605

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860

00:36:17,885 --> 00:36:18,595

Thank you so much.

861

00:36:18,635 --> 00:36:19,265

Appreciate it.

862

00:36:19,295 --> 00:36:22,065

Uh, I'm going to get on out of

here, get this, uh, Very well

863

00:36:22,065 --> 00:36:26,115

behaved golden retriever, uh, puppy

who, uh, I'm actually surprised.

864

00:36:26,115 --> 00:36:27,565

He's so chill right now under me.

865

00:36:27,565 --> 00:36:29,515

I'm going to get him

outside a little treat.

866

00:36:29,925 --> 00:36:30,375

Oh my God.

867

00:36:30,375 --> 00:36:31,225

I said the T word.

868

00:36:31,375 --> 00:36:32,255

I got his attention now.

869

00:36:32,635 --> 00:36:33,835

All right, let me get on out of here.

870

00:36:33,835 --> 00:36:37,575

I'm going to check you next time,

right here on story and craft.

871

00:36:37,875 --> 00:36:40,415

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872

00:36:40,415 --> 00:36:45,095

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873

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874

00:36:50,415 --> 00:36:52,755

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875

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Kristian Nairn

Actor | DJ | Author

Kristian Nairn is a Northern Irish Actor and Musician. He is a successful DJ, having performed alongside acts such as the Scissor Sisters. He has worked Worldwide. Game of Thrones marks Nairn's first major acting role. He plays the role of the enigmatic fan favorite character, Hodor.