March 13, 2025

Virginia Gardner | How to FMK to a 90's Soundtrack

Virginia Gardner | How to FMK to a 90's Soundtrack
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Virginia Gardner | How to FMK to a 90's Soundtrack

On this episode of The Story & Craft Podcast, we sit down with actor, Virginia Gardner from the #1 Network film “F Marry Kill”, as well as projects such as Halloween, Runaways and Beautiful Disaster & Beautiful Wedding with Dylan Sprouse.  Virginia shares her journey from Sacramento to Los Angeles at age 16, as she discusses her start in modeling to her success as an actor. She discusses her early career experiences, including her first major film “Project Almanac.”  We also touch on her childhood inspirations, as well as her abiding love for 90’s rock music.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS02:30 Virginia's Early Life and Career Beginnings05:19 First Acting Experiences and Moving to LA07:58 Transition to Acting and First Major Film Role19:46 Working with Dylan Sprouse and Lucy Hale22:38 Traveling for Work and Filming Challenges26:10 Wine Adventures and Personal Life30:09 True Crime Podcasts and Online Dating31:33 Gen Z and Traditional Dating32:21 The Trad Wife Trend33:51 Life with a Touring Musician36:57 Nineties Music Nostalgia39:59 The Seven Questions50:58 Perfect Day and Career Reflections55:53 Upcoming Projects and Final ThoughtsListen and subscribe on your favorite podcast app.  Also, check out the show and sign up for the newsletter at  www.storyandcraftpod.com...#podcast #VirginiaGardner #FMarryKill #Halloween #BeautifulDisaster #Runaways #Lionsgate #LucyHale #DylanSprouse #Actor #Acting #storyandcraft #TheStruts #90sMusic #Matchbox20

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Virginia Gardner:

It was about something awful.

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I think it was a warning about children's

hair getting stuck in pool drains and

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horrible accidents happening that I

think they used me as an example of

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a kid, like swimming along and her

hair getting caught in a pool drain.

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Announcer: Welcome to Story and Craft.

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Now, here's your host, Marc Preston.

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Marc Preston: All right, here we go.

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Back again, another

episode of Story and Craft.

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Thank you so much for coming back by.

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Uh, if this is your first

episode, my name is Marc.

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Good to meet you.

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Good to have you along today, sitting down

with Virginia Gardner, talented actor.

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She, of course, was in Halloween.

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She was in Beautiful Disaster

and Beautiful Wedding with Dylan

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Sprouse, the show Runaways.

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The new film she's in

is called F. Mary Kill.

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If that sounds familiar, of

course, we spoke with Laura Murphy

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the other day, the director.

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She is starring alongside Lucy

Hale in this new film, uh, F.

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Mary kill in theaters right now.

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Of course, with Laura early this week

and with Virginia today, it's officially

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F Mary kill week on story and craft.

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Never thought I would say that, but.

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Uh, funny film, kind of a cool

mix of a horror and comedy.

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Uh, okay.

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So let's jump into it.

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Today is Virginia or Jenny Gardner

day right here on story and craft.

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We're going to call you

Jenny, not Virginia.

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I keep calling you a Virginia.

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I'm like, well, wait a minute.

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You're Jenny.

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It seems like everyone else.

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Virginia Gardner: Either one is just fine.

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Friends call me Jenny.

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You're more than welcome to call me Jenny.

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Marc Preston: Oh, we're friends already.

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That's awesome.

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That's awesome.

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So, uh, so where are you at?

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Uh, are you in, uh, California?

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Virginia Gardner: I'm in Los

Angeles, by the way, can you hear the

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gardening happening, happening, um,

outside of, if so, I can move rooms.

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Oh,

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Marc Preston: you're good.

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No, no, no, no, don't worry.

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Don't worry.

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I got a golden retriever upstairs.

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Who's bouncing around.

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Scratching and frustration.

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He wants to be down here to hang out, but

he'll literally be up on top of me looking

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at the screen if he was here right now.

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Um, no.

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Are you from, uh, are you from

there originally or did you get

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out to LA from somewhere else?

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Virginia Gardner: I'm from

Sacramento originally.

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Yeah.

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So just Northern South

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Marc Preston: a little bit,

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Virginia Gardner: came South.

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Um, yeah, I moved here when I

was 16 from Northern California

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and knew nothing about LA.

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And so I was under the impression that

downtown LA, like most downtowns of cities

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is sort of the hub of where everything is.

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And downtown LA is not that at all.

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Certainly not 12 years

ago when I moved here.

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Uh, but I had a little loft in

downtown LA and that's where

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I started here when I was 16.

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Marc Preston: Your folks did move there.

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You actually came to start working at 16.

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Virginia Gardner: I came to start

working at 16 I had been doing some

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sort of modeling stuff when I was

younger and I had been traveling a

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lot doing some print modeling for

like Kohl's and Abercrombie and that

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kind of stuff when I was 13, 14, 15.

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And the goal was to act.

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And so, you know, what I eventually wanted

to do was to just move to LA and pursue

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this full time, which is what I ended up

doing at 16, which in hindsight is insane

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that I was living here as a 16 year old.

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I don't know if I would have,

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Marc Preston: it was,

well, you came by yourself.

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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Marc Preston: Wow.

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Okay.

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We need, we need to get into this.

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Okay.

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So you came by yourself.

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So your folks, uh, you know, tell me

that were they down with it or because

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the work was there it was available

So they were they cool with it or were

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they like what the hell are you doing?

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You know,

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Virginia Gardner: they were so funny.

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They my dad is such like an academic

in my whole life He wanted me to go to

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Harvard and go to business school and

do that route And I took a hard left

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and I dropped out of high school So I,

I really was not, uh, on the same page

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with him when it came to all that stuff.

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I just knew from a very early age

that this is what I wanted to do and

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was very one track minded about it.

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And when I was 13, you know, I, I started,

uh, submitting myself to acting agencies,

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um, via email and would CC my mom and

she had no idea that I was doing this.

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So I was submitting myself to all these

agencies and my mom started getting some

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responses from some agencies here and

there, that there was some interest.

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And she was like, you know, if

this is something you want to

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pursue, we don't want this for you.

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We love you, but this is.

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This is you're on your own here.

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You gotta, you gotta figure this out.

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We, we want you to go a very

different path with your life.

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And

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Marc Preston: 13, you were 13

is when you started doing this.

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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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So slowly I started doing some

modeling out of San Francisco,

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which was close to Sacramento.

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And, um, You know, it was flying all

over the world, uh, at least all over

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the United States for my modeling

stuff at an early age and kind of was

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able to start making enough money or

my parents said, okay, maybe there's a

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little bit of a real job here for you.

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And at 16, they were supportive

of me picking up and moving to LA

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and dropping out of high school.

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And my dad's thinking, which I understand

now is he's, he was hopeful that if I

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moved at 16 started acting, it didn't

work out, I could then go to college at

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a normal age versus going to college.

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Graduating at 22, still wanting to act

and then just being that much older and

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sort of behind in, in an acting career.

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So that was like, he's like, okay,

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Marc Preston: she'll get

it out of her system.

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Other kids.

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Yeah,

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Virginia Gardner: exactly.

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Yeah.

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Marc Preston: Yeah.

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Here's the thing.

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I know I wanted to work

in radio when I was seven.

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I knew that's what I want to do.

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So I think there's a Zen to not knowing

what's stacked against you or what

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possibly, you know, and you're just

boldly, just tenaciously going after it.

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Um, and so I could see that.

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So I think when I got to college,

that's kind of when that hit with me.

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It's like, I've already done

the thing that I want to do.

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Why am I. You know, it just

kind of felt like I was, um, I

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don't want to say wasting time.

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I was not being efficient.

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I was not dedicating myself to the

efforts that are going to get me there.

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But 16 is a bold age to do it though.

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You know, I think I started the radio

when I was 17, but I was still going

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to school, doing my thing and you know,

I didn't need to travel for that and

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I don't have the face for modeling

or anything else for that matter.

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How old were you when you

started traveling for modeling?

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Virginia Gardner: I was traveling for

modeling by myself when I was like.

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14 so I would go

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Marc Preston: by yourself.

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Oh, wow.

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Virginia Gardner: I've spoken with

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Marc Preston: one other model before and

she was telling me just all the places

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she would go and there would be people

there that kind of kept an eye on you.

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But did you find you had that

or were you really on your own?

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Virginia Gardner: The first couple

of times I left and went for

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jobs, my mom would come with me.

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So we kind of established where she,

it was repeat clients that I had.

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So she kind of knew where I was going,

the people I was going to be working with.

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And so that's when I transitioned

to being able to go by myself, but

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also with modeling, unlike acting,

at least at the time, I don't.

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No, how it is today, but there

was no unions, there was no rules.

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It was just kind of a free for all.

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You didn't need to go to onset school.

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Like they weren't going to pay to

fly you first class and pay to have a

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parent there, you know, it was a little

bit of a free for all when it came

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to the modeling world, at least then

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Marc Preston: you already knew you

were wanting to go into acting,

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you know, that was your jam.

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When did you start making that move?

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Did you start taking classes?

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Did you start, you know, just

kind of going to auditions?

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Did your age, did you tell your agent,

Hey, you know, get the people over in the

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theatrical department to start submitting

me, how did that come together for you?

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Virginia Gardner: I always

knew that I wanted to act.

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I don't know if, sorry, my dog is

barking at something on the TV.

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Marc Preston: Oh, it's cool.

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It's cool.

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I'm a dog lover.

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They can talk also.

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It's totally fine.

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Virginia Gardner: Sorry.

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Um, I knew from a really

early age I wanted to act.

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I mean, there was a

movie that, that really.

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Kind of made that clear

to me called I am Sam.

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It was Sean Penn and Dakota Fanning.

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Yeah, I have a brother with autism.

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And so at that age, I was sort of figuring

out what that dynamic looks like in, in

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hadn't seen or met, you know, anyone else

with autism and in that was so confusing

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thing for a younger sister to watch her

older brother go through and I remember

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that movie Having such a strong impact

on me and in feeling so seen and like I

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could understand more of the world and

someone I loved through this film and,

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um, Dakota Fanning kind of was blonde

and around my age and I felt like I could

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relate so deeply to her in that film.

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And that's kind of what ignited this

spark in me and to just to want to

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be able to understand more of the

world and myself through acting and

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through creative expression like that.

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So it just kind of went from there and.

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I did a lot of local theater

when I was younger and, um, would

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make my parents sit in the living

room and watch me as I performed.

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Like I always just kind of felt like

I was a bit of a performer, um, and

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then it just kind of went from there

and eventually talked to my modeling

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agency into letting me, um, get a

theatrical agent and, and, and then they.

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It snowballed.

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Marc Preston: You said

your dad was an academic.

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Was he like a college professor or?

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Virginia Gardner: He's just academically.

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Or he just

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Marc Preston: put a lot

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Virginia Gardner: lot

of value in academics.

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Marc Preston: What kind of gig

did he have or does he have?

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Virginia Gardner: He is in

construction management.

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Which I know little to nothing about

to me anyone with a normal job like a a

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normal person job I'm, just so it's so

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have any understanding at all of how it

works But he's in construction management.

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And now he also has um a school for

people with autism and he opened A

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research facility for people with autism.

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Marc Preston: Very cool.

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So did your mother work or does

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kind of focus on the family?

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Virginia Gardner: My mother was

a newscaster and she was a radio

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disc jockey for a long time.

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So she was in really?

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Marc Preston: Did she ever do any TV?

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Virginia Gardner: She did.

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She was on a channel called KCRA 3

which was the local Sacramento news

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for many many years and She did some

other News programs that funny enough

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over Thanksgiving recently, she had

never thought to look herself up on

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YouTube and see if there's any old

clips of her as a news reporter.

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And so over Thanksgiving, we went

and I found some amazing clips

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of her from the eighties when she

was around my age, uh, reporting.

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And it's just so much fun.

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She was at the opening of Disney World.

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Oh, so this was like a

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Marc Preston: long term career.

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This was, she would have been

doing this for a while, huh?

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Virginia Gardner: Yeah,

she did it for a long time.

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Marc Preston: So do you have any

memories of going to the radio station

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or TV station when you were young?

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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.

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She would do the nightly news.

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So I would come after school and

bring my homework and sit in the

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corner of the news station and watch

her as she was, uh, doing the news.

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Marc Preston: Did they ever

use you in any segments?

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Virginia Gardner: They did.

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Well, especially when I knew that I

wanted to start getting into acting, my

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mom, there was one segment that I got to

be a part of that I was just so, I think

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it was, it was about something awful.

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I think it was about a warning

about children's hair getting stuck

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in pool drains and, and, um, and

horrible accidents happening that I

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think they used me as an example of

a kid like swimming along and her

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hair getting caught in a pool drain.

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But, uh, but yeah, I got

to be a part of a segment.

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And I remember I had my birthday party

there one year where me and all my friends

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got to like sit at the news desk and

pretend that we had our own newscast.

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It was lots of fun.

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Marc Preston: Just curious, were

you ever accused of being a, like

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do an air quotes here, a precocious

kid, you know, you were like a ham.

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Virginia Gardner: No, I, I was

like, so shy and there was, there

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was few people that I would sort of

be myself with and, and like want

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to perform in front of my parents.

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But when it came to anyone but

them, I was incredibly shy.

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Marc Preston: Well, I think a lot of

people, uh, who do this for a living

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were This was a interesting outlet.

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Like I would be mortified in high school

doing any kind of stage, anything.

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I'm like, I always marveled at people's

like, Oh dude, that's a lot of attention.

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I don't want that much attention.

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Um, so when did you kind of find

that you were starting to book stuff?

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Uh, about how old were you?

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Virginia Gardner: I started

doing local theater and working

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in local plays, probably.

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It was around the same time I sort of

began to model as well, but that's when

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I was doing some fun local theater.

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Uh, yeah, I, I miss theater.

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That's really where I got my start.

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Marc Preston: Did you develop a set

of friends in the theater setting

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that were different than, let's say

they're your friends in school or,

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you know, how did that work out for

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Virginia Gardner: you?

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Yeah, I had friends that were my theater

friends and then I would also do some

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productions through my school as well.

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Just, I went to a very small school.

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So a lot of the kids would just.

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Be in theater class cause it was, it

was one of very few options for people.

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So a lot of my good friends in school

would also be in theater class with me.

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Marc Preston: Oh, so, okay.

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So there was some crossover.

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You were at this odd kid.

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It's like, what is she doing?

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You know,

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Virginia Gardner: gee,

I remember leaving to go

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Marc Preston: do an audition for a cookie

commercial or just something like that.

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And like, I was, See, I was an elementary,

I had to be fifth or sixth grade.

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I remember coming back and I didn't

want to make a deal with, I didn't

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want anybody knowing, you know, but

apparently the teacher had told the

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class where I went, I came back to like,

Oh my God, you're like a celebrity.

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And I was like, I'm going for

like a cookie commercial audition.

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And I was like, I don't

like all this attention.

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You know, when you were like,

okay, acting's my jam, it

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started, you know, in theater.

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So your parents already had a

few years of you doing this thing

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and they're like, all right, you

know, this is where you're going.

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Your dad being the academic.

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The, he is, you know,

or put weight on that.

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What was it like when you dropped out,

decided to drop out of high school or

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were they like really not happy or is

like, okay, let her go through this.

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And like you were saying before,

let her work it out or, you

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know, how was that for you?

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Virginia Gardner: Well, to

give the full picture, I had,

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I had been auditioning for.

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film and television while

I was living in Sacramento.

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And, uh, you know, my mom would

very kindly drive me to LA.

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We do, it was before self tapes really.

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So we'd audition, we'd

drive back to Sacramento.

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This was before sort of, I

was allowed to make that final

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commitment to just moving to LA.

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And I had booked my first guest star

on 16th birthday, I booked this job.

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And it was a guest star on some

Nickelodeon show way back in the day.

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And it was a sitcom show where you

rehearsed all week and then you filmed

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on your, your Friday or Thursday.

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And I had been in rehearsals

all week and I was so nervous.

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I, you know, I didn't do a, it

was, it was my first job ever.

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It was my first time

I'd ever been on a set.

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I was just a total ball of nerves

come the end of the rehearsal.

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But you were

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Marc Preston: around other kids though.

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So you weren't like, you know, showing up.

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with a bunch of adults.

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You were you had other kids with you.

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Virginia Gardner: It was all other

kids, but I was such a socially

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awkward kid that that was the social

aspect was very intimidating for me,

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even though they were other kids.

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So I was so intimidated by

these, these other child actors.

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So anyway, we're in rehearsals

and I can just tell that they're

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not happy with what I'm doing.

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And I told my mom, we were driving home

one night from rehearsal and I said,

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I just have a, I have a gut feeling.

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I'm going to get fired.

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I just, I think I'm going to get fired.

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And my mom was like, no,

you're not going to get fired.

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They would never do that.

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Blah, blah, blah.

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Sure enough.

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We get the call three hours

later that I had been fired.

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So my first acting job ever, I

promptly got fired from because I

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just could not handle the nerves.

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And I was.

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Devastated.

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It was so earth shattering

for me at the time.

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And it was after that experience, my

parents were like, the way we see it,

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you could either walk away from this

now, which we would totally understand.

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You've had your heart broken.

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You can, you know, commit to

school, find a different path

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in life, or you can double down.

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We'll support you moving to LA

and giving this a hundred percent

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and just doubling down on this.

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And I said, I want to double down.

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So that's what.

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leaving high school and just sort

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of giving it everything I had.

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Again, I think my dad kind of

with the hopes of, well, she'll

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do this till she's 18 and then

she'll just go to college anyway.

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Marc Preston: Well, did you

get into acting classes?

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I mean, did you kind of do a

little bit more formal training?

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Uh, was that something your dad maybe

said, Hey, maybe you should do that

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and then get the nerves worked out?

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Virginia Gardner: Exactly.

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So I was in a bunch of like, I moved

here at 16 and was living by myself

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here, but was in four classes a week.

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It's not like I was off doing whatever.

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I took it very seriously as,

as a student of this craft.

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Marc Preston: And plus you'd

already done some traveling around.

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So you probably saw some of the pitfalls

and some of the things to look out

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for and kind of had your, you had kind

of had your own back in a way, I'm

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assuming, you know, you kind of knew.

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To stay focused on the work.

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Oh, did you buy any chance to live?

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It was, it was called the Oakwood.

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It was that where did you

have a chance to live there?

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Virginia Gardner: I never

lived at the Oakwood.

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I lived it.

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Oh my gosh.

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What was it called?

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The Palazzo, I think, which was, it was

like the Oakwood and the Palazzo were

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the two that people either lived at.

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And I was at the Palazzo, but I know the

Oakwood, I watched the documentary on

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the child actors at the Oakwood, which

is phenomenal if you haven't seen it.

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Marc Preston: There's

a documentary on that.

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Oh, I didn't know there's a documentary.

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Virginia Gardner: It's a really, it's

very sad, but a great documentary on just.

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Kids coming out for what used

to be pilot season and living at

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the Oakwood with their parents.

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And it's, it's great.

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Marc Preston: I always thought

that was just kind of bad ass.

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It's like, come down there with

a bunch of other kid actors,

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you're going to the pool.

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That may be overly romanticized version

as a kid of what that would be like to,

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well, to go to LA and connect at my age.

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I don't even know if the Oakwood was

around as that kind of a thing when

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I was growing up, but I knew kid

actors were out there and you know,

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that was, I always thought it'd be

kind of cool to be around other.

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Kids and do the thing,

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Virginia Gardner (2): um,

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Marc Preston: project

almanac first film role.

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You're doing the thing.

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Just what was it like for you?

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You know, here's your very first film.

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This is the thing you want to do.

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What was that like?

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Virginia Gardner: It was insane.

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I mean, for your first film

to be a Michael Bay produced

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studio movie was wild.

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And, and I don't think at the time.

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It occurred to me that that is extremely

rare to have something like that happen.

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At the time I was so green that I just

kind of felt like, Oh, surely this

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is like what everyone's first film

looks like when it's so not the case.

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But it was, it was a

wild first experience.

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It was a found footage film.

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And so my character was behind

the camera, operating the camera.

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So I, I was one of the main characters of

this movie, but had a little, small amount

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of screen time because my character was

filming everything, but I was so grateful

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because I was so nervous to be playing

this character that was behind cameras

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so often because I also just got to

learn how everything operated from a very

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different perspective of like the camera

operator because I was often working

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so closely next to the camera operator.

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putting my hand in front of the camera

so it looked like I was operating.

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So I really got to have a different

understanding of the way that things

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work, but I remember my co star

Sophia Black D'Elia at the time

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teaching me how to read a call sheet.

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I had no idea how to read a call

sheet or, you know, understand a one

452

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liner or what scene numbers meant.

453

00:19:22,404 --> 00:19:24,604

Like I really had a, such an intense.

454

00:19:25,100 --> 00:19:28,970

education and it was something

where they could not find my

455

00:19:28,970 --> 00:19:30,760

character for a really long time.

456

00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:35,460

They did a long search of actors and I

was one of the last people they read and

457

00:19:35,470 --> 00:19:37,489

I booked the job and left the next day.

458

00:19:37,499 --> 00:19:39,090

So it was within 24 hours.

459

00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,990

I auditioned, booked this job

and then left for Atlanta.

460

00:19:42,389 --> 00:19:46,010

So it was just such a whirlwind

of, of a crazy experience.

461

00:19:46,149 --> 00:19:46,820

Marc Preston: Oh yeah, that's right.

462

00:19:46,860 --> 00:19:48,879

Cause that's really when all the

things started kind of kicking

463

00:19:48,879 --> 00:19:52,049

off shooting in Atlanta right

about It's funny cause I talked to

464

00:19:52,050 --> 00:19:53,830

Dylan Sprouse a little while back.

465

00:19:53,879 --> 00:19:54,399

Now you did.

466

00:19:54,725 --> 00:19:56,425

Two films with him, right?

467

00:19:56,465 --> 00:19:57,175

Virginia Gardner: Yes, yeah.

468

00:19:57,375 --> 00:20:00,245

Marc Preston: Like beautiful, it was a

beautiful disaster, beautiful wedding.

469

00:20:00,245 --> 00:20:01,175

I still haven't seen them.

470

00:20:01,175 --> 00:20:01,785

I want to.

471

00:20:02,105 --> 00:20:04,685

In fact, that was something

I wanted to watch, uh, when I

472

00:20:04,685 --> 00:20:05,975

was, before I talked to him.

473

00:20:05,985 --> 00:20:09,085

But he was a guy who had

that kind of kid actor thing.

474

00:20:09,124 --> 00:20:11,734

Did y'all compare notes ever,

you know, you came up at a,

475

00:20:11,754 --> 00:20:13,625

at a time like as a kid actor.

476

00:20:13,625 --> 00:20:15,145

And so, so he had as well.

477

00:20:15,145 --> 00:20:16,705

Was that a little easier?

478

00:20:17,010 --> 00:20:20,510

Working with somebody who had been

doing this since they were young or I'm

479

00:20:20,510 --> 00:20:23,600

just kind of curious what it was like

Connecting with somebody like that.

480

00:20:24,090 --> 00:20:26,020

Virginia Gardner: Well, it's

such a different experience what

481

00:20:26,020 --> 00:20:27,820

Dylan had versus what I have.

482

00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:33,999

I was working as a kid Modeling and in

local theater when I booked almanac, I

483

00:20:34,009 --> 00:20:39,169

was 17 So I wouldn't say I was so much

of like a kid Working actor where Dylan

484

00:20:39,179 --> 00:20:43,279

obviously had been doing this since he was

a child and had so much fame at such an

485

00:20:43,279 --> 00:20:49,044

early age that's such a Unique experience

and in such a different childhood than

486

00:20:49,055 --> 00:20:54,625

what I had Um, but it's it's so amazing

working with someone like dylan and I had

487

00:20:54,625 --> 00:21:00,105

this recently with lucy hale on on fuck

mary kill where they've been doing it for

488

00:21:00,105 --> 00:21:04,315

so long, they're just Absolute pros and

you ask them to hit a Marc and they can

489

00:21:04,315 --> 00:21:09,075

do it with their eyes closed while doing

seven other things And it's just so In

490

00:21:09,075 --> 00:21:13,555

their blood in a different way with this

just sense memory of doing it for so long.

491

00:21:13,555 --> 00:21:16,325

It's, it's really amazing working

with people like that, that just

492

00:21:16,325 --> 00:21:18,505

are absolute pros at what they do.

493

00:21:18,754 --> 00:21:21,784

Marc Preston: It's gotta be one heck

of a training ground, you know, was

494

00:21:21,785 --> 00:21:23,815

there any desire, is there one now?

495

00:21:23,815 --> 00:21:26,564

I mean, do you have a preference

doing film or, or is it

496

00:21:26,585 --> 00:21:28,624

doing, uh, uh, like a series?

497

00:21:28,655 --> 00:21:29,655

Cause you know, you've done that.

498

00:21:29,655 --> 00:21:32,355

I mean, do you have a preference

either way or is it just kind

499

00:21:32,355 --> 00:21:34,065

of wherever the work is cool?

500

00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,980

Virginia Gardner: I think over the last

few years between COVID and strikes

501

00:21:37,990 --> 00:21:43,770

and this sort of, um, big Marcet

correction with streaming and peak TV

502

00:21:43,770 --> 00:21:48,800

being over, it's, it's been a lot, I

think for, for most actors, I know of

503

00:21:49,250 --> 00:21:53,555

find Find whatever you can right now,

whether that's a series or a film or

504

00:21:53,555 --> 00:21:55,215

whatever, just go where the work is.

505

00:21:55,235 --> 00:21:58,885

So I definitely am someone that

I also like to stay working.

506

00:21:58,895 --> 00:22:00,154

I hate downtime.

507

00:22:00,185 --> 00:22:03,394

If I had it my way, I would be

on a set every day of my life.

508

00:22:03,664 --> 00:22:07,225

I really am my best

self when I'm on a set.

509

00:22:07,295 --> 00:22:12,084

Um, so I, I go where the work is, but

having worked in television and been

510

00:22:12,085 --> 00:22:16,994

on a Marvel show for three years and

having done some stints on other shows

511

00:22:16,995 --> 00:22:18,624

here and there, they're both amazing.

512

00:22:18,625 --> 00:22:19,195

I love.

513

00:22:19,669 --> 00:22:22,459

When you're working in television

and you have this family that you're

514

00:22:22,459 --> 00:22:25,819

with for years and the stability is

so lovely and I love being with the

515

00:22:25,819 --> 00:22:29,299

character that long that it becomes

second nature and you get to explore

516

00:22:29,299 --> 00:22:33,259

one character for years and years, but

with film the last several years I've

517

00:22:33,289 --> 00:22:38,225

just been doing film and I have had so

much fun working all over the world.

518

00:22:38,225 --> 00:22:44,104

I've been to Bulgaria and Spain and

Dominican Republic and Guatemala in

519

00:22:44,104 --> 00:22:48,914

Australia, and I'm going to Thailand

on Friday and I love being, really.

520

00:22:49,215 --> 00:22:49,735

Oh man,

521

00:22:49,735 --> 00:22:50,854

Marc Preston: I'm envious.

522

00:22:59,105 --> 00:23:01,235

No, when I was talking to you, I

wanted to, I was okay, let me go

523

00:23:01,235 --> 00:23:02,854

check out a couple things you've done.

524

00:23:03,314 --> 00:23:07,824

And I wanted to see the movie fall,

but I was like, no, no, no, no, no.

525

00:23:07,904 --> 00:23:08,794

I can fly an airplane.

526

00:23:08,794 --> 00:23:12,684

But man, that whole, I think climbing the

tower, I'd be cringing the entire time.

527

00:23:12,794 --> 00:23:14,254

Heights are not my jam.

528

00:23:14,524 --> 00:23:18,184

I will say that they're almost a

kryptonite at some level, but um, did

529

00:23:18,184 --> 00:23:19,764

they really have you up on a high?

530

00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,840

Thing where did you have to

do any real climbing or was it

531

00:23:22,850 --> 00:23:24,459

green screen for a lot of that?

532

00:23:24,510 --> 00:23:25,760

Virginia Gardner: It was not green screen.

533

00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:26,959

We did it practically.

534

00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,879

It was a hundred feet off the ground.

535

00:23:28,889 --> 00:23:32,389

So they built this tower that

was a hundred feet tall on a

536

00:23:32,389 --> 00:23:34,310

cliff that was 2000 feet tall.

537

00:23:34,310 --> 00:23:37,580

So for all of their wide shots,

we were actually 2, 100 feet

538

00:23:37,580 --> 00:23:40,179

up, which was supposed to be

the height of the real tower.

539

00:23:40,580 --> 00:23:41,280

So.

540

00:23:41,570 --> 00:23:43,959

At the beginning of the film,

we climb up and then a ladder

541

00:23:43,959 --> 00:23:45,360

breaks and we're stuck up there.

542

00:23:45,360 --> 00:23:49,779

So the first couple weeks of filming,

we would climb every single day.

543

00:23:49,779 --> 00:23:52,999

And then eventually, once the ladder

broke and our characters were just stuck

544

00:23:52,999 --> 00:23:56,580

up there, they had a cherry picker and

they would put us in the cherry picker.

545

00:23:56,580 --> 00:24:00,315

They'd Bring us up a hundred feet and we'd

have to, they'd harness us in, but we'd

546

00:24:00,315 --> 00:24:04,675

have to jump from the cherry picker to the

tower and, and just be up there all day.

547

00:24:05,335 --> 00:24:05,545

Yeah.

548

00:24:09,014 --> 00:24:12,244

Marc Preston: I could not focus

on acting or creating story.

549

00:24:12,244 --> 00:24:14,825

And I'd be like, maybe that would work.

550

00:24:15,114 --> 00:24:16,525

I'm too freaked out being up there.

551

00:24:16,595 --> 00:24:18,495

Virginia Gardner: I found that

it made it so much easier.

552

00:24:18,495 --> 00:24:22,675

I, we were actually interacting

with real environment and winds.

553

00:24:22,715 --> 00:24:24,264

And actually, if you.

554

00:24:24,455 --> 00:24:27,814

Stepped a little too far, you would

be looking over as such a high height.

555

00:24:27,889 --> 00:24:30,935

I, I loved doing it practically

and I think it makes your job

556

00:24:30,935 --> 00:24:32,524

as an actor so much easier.

557

00:24:32,585 --> 00:24:34,774

Marc Preston: Well, I think there is

then to, to that when you're really

558

00:24:34,774 --> 00:24:37,955

experiencing the thing that the

character is experiencing, you know?

559

00:24:37,955 --> 00:24:40,115

But I, like I said, I wanted to watch it.

560

00:24:40,115 --> 00:24:42,335

I keep seeing a little

icon show up on my screen.

561

00:24:42,335 --> 00:24:43,024

I wanna watch that.

562

00:24:43,024 --> 00:24:44,335

I'm like, but they're how far up?

563

00:24:44,335 --> 00:24:44,635

Nope.

564

00:24:44,665 --> 00:24:47,875

No, I, I just knew it would be an

uncomfortable watch for me because

565

00:24:47,875 --> 00:24:51,355

I dunno what it's like I say fly an

airplane, but being up that high.

566

00:24:52,110 --> 00:24:52,820

Virginia Gardner (2): No, uh,

567

00:24:54,030 --> 00:24:58,399

Marc Preston: but, uh, now the, the, the,

the F Mary fuck Marigold, what it, and

568

00:24:58,399 --> 00:25:02,810

it's just so funny seeing it as it shows

up as F asterisk asterisk, you know,

569

00:25:03,299 --> 00:25:05,480

um, how did, how did that come to you?

570

00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:06,709

How did that project come along?

571

00:25:06,879 --> 00:25:10,700

Virginia Gardner: That came to me funny

enough through, uh, one of my best friends

572

00:25:10,710 --> 00:25:17,390

who's been my friend since we were six

years old was at her gym in LA and was

573

00:25:17,410 --> 00:25:20,150

talking to a personal trainer at the gym.

574

00:25:20,729 --> 00:25:25,310

And he goes, Hey, I think my wife's about

to do a movie with your friend, Jenny.

575

00:25:25,729 --> 00:25:28,669

And she came home from the gym

and she called me and she was

576

00:25:28,669 --> 00:25:29,889

like, are you doing this movie?

577

00:25:30,059 --> 00:25:30,899

Fuck, marry, kill.

578

00:25:30,899 --> 00:25:34,469

My, my friend says he's his wife

is about to be working with you.

579

00:25:34,470 --> 00:25:37,099

And I was like, no, I've never heard of.

580

00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,040

This movie, I have no idea

what you're talking about.

581

00:25:39,420 --> 00:25:41,460

And, uh, called my agent later that day.

582

00:25:41,460 --> 00:25:43,130

And sure enough, my agent had heard of it.

583

00:25:43,130 --> 00:25:47,169

And, uh, and anyway, we, we

tracked it down and made it happen.

584

00:25:47,169 --> 00:25:50,860

And I read the script and immediately

was so excited about it and excited

585

00:25:50,860 --> 00:25:55,029

about the opportunity to work with

Lucy Hale, who, like I said, is just

586

00:25:55,039 --> 00:25:57,100

brilliant and so much fun to work with.

587

00:25:57,100 --> 00:25:59,830

And yeah, that's kind of

how it all came together.

588

00:25:59,830 --> 00:26:01,460

And within a few weeks I was in Canada.

589

00:26:01,765 --> 00:26:02,905

Marc Preston: Like Vancouver or?

590

00:26:02,965 --> 00:26:05,705

Virginia Gardner: Kelowna, Canada,

which is a beautiful place.

591

00:26:05,705 --> 00:26:08,805

I'm, I'm, it's wine country

of Canada and I love wine.

592

00:26:08,825 --> 00:26:09,864

So I was just in heaven.

593

00:26:10,455 --> 00:26:11,654

Marc Preston: I got to

ask you, you said it.

594

00:26:11,665 --> 00:26:15,144

So what kind of wine is

your favorite varietal?

595

00:26:15,334 --> 00:26:17,094

Virginia Gardner: Oh,

I love Italian wines.

596

00:26:17,134 --> 00:26:18,725

I love Tempranillo.

597

00:26:19,195 --> 00:26:21,915

I love, uh, I'm going to butcher

the pronunciation, but like

598

00:26:21,915 --> 00:26:23,715

a Borrello or a Barbadesco.

599

00:26:24,155 --> 00:26:28,394

Um, but the Kelowna wine scene is really

fun because they don't have the climate

600

00:26:28,394 --> 00:26:33,014

there to really grow the same kind

of varietals that you see elsewhere.

601

00:26:33,074 --> 00:26:36,574

So they're kind of like the rule breakers

in the wine industry where they're doing

602

00:26:36,574 --> 00:26:40,594

these really funky varietals that only

they can grow and sort of making the

603

00:26:40,955 --> 00:26:42,885

best out of what their climate allows.

604

00:26:42,935 --> 00:26:45,715

So they have all of these

really like funky, cool wines.

605

00:26:45,884 --> 00:26:48,685

But you just, I had never

seen or tried anywhere else.

606

00:26:48,735 --> 00:26:49,945

It's a really fun wine.

607

00:26:49,945 --> 00:26:50,304

I'm kind of

608

00:26:50,304 --> 00:26:51,254

Marc Preston: a basic guy.

609

00:26:51,854 --> 00:26:53,524

I'm very basic when it comes to wine.

610

00:26:53,524 --> 00:26:56,214

Like I'm a, I like a chilled white wine.

611

00:26:56,214 --> 00:27:00,364

If I'm just, just sitting down chatting,

I'm like a Pinot Grigio or whatever,

612

00:27:00,815 --> 00:27:02,785

but my son and not my son was in town.

613

00:27:02,794 --> 00:27:04,865

We only have one really good

Italian restaurant on the Island.

614

00:27:04,874 --> 00:27:06,585

They have other ones, but

I think it's only one.

615

00:27:06,805 --> 00:27:07,504

Really good one.

616

00:27:07,955 --> 00:27:09,705

And they make their own

pasta and everything.

617

00:27:09,705 --> 00:27:14,155

And I said, so we go there and, um, I

want to send you a Vasey, which is kind

618

00:27:14,155 --> 00:27:17,945

of my, I only drink red wine when I have

Italian food and they didn't have that.

619

00:27:17,945 --> 00:27:19,024

I was like, well, I got to do Chianti.

620

00:27:19,044 --> 00:27:19,334

I got to go.

621

00:27:19,485 --> 00:27:22,764

Oh, gee, you know, just kind

of a, your basic red wine.

622

00:27:23,030 --> 00:27:26,220

Have you ever done that whole,

uh, wine country tour thing?

623

00:27:26,379 --> 00:27:28,770

You know, have you ever done

that since you're not that far?

624

00:27:28,810 --> 00:27:32,539

Virginia Gardner: Oh, we would, when

I was living in Sacramento and when

625

00:27:32,539 --> 00:27:35,610

I would come back to visit family

in Sacramento, we would go to Napa.

626

00:27:36,159 --> 00:27:37,980

My husband and I got married in Napa.

627

00:27:37,999 --> 00:27:39,960

We honeymooned in Tuscany.

628

00:27:40,260 --> 00:27:44,209

So we've done all the, all the

wine tours and yeah, yeah, yeah.

629

00:27:44,210 --> 00:27:45,220

I'm a big wino.

630

00:27:45,540 --> 00:27:47,129

Marc Preston: Well, I have to

ask, what was the best thing

631

00:27:47,129 --> 00:27:48,230

you had to eat in Tuscany?

632

00:27:48,370 --> 00:27:50,510

Virginia Gardner: Oh, oh my gosh.

633

00:27:50,539 --> 00:27:52,630

We went to this incredible restaurant.

634

00:27:53,165 --> 00:27:56,755

I am the worst for not being

able to remember the name,

635

00:27:56,755 --> 00:27:58,525

but it was on chef's table.

636

00:27:58,525 --> 00:28:02,965

And it's this incredible chef that

specializes in meats and he doesn't

637

00:28:02,965 --> 00:28:05,355

like to waste any of the animals.

638

00:28:05,365 --> 00:28:11,015

So he serves you all of these

incredible cuts of meat that

639

00:28:11,015 --> 00:28:12,125

ordinarily would go to waste.

640

00:28:12,125 --> 00:28:15,635

And it's all sort of a communal table

where he stands in the middle and he just.

641

00:28:15,735 --> 00:28:18,585

Grills up these meats for you

and just throw some salt on them.

642

00:28:18,585 --> 00:28:19,515

It's so simple.

643

00:28:19,515 --> 00:28:19,635

Oh man.

644

00:28:19,635 --> 00:28:19,725

That

645

00:28:19,725 --> 00:28:20,715

Marc Preston: sounds amazing.

646

00:28:20,715 --> 00:28:21,945

It was fantastic.

647

00:28:21,945 --> 00:28:22,785

Virginia Gardner: It was so great.

648

00:28:22,935 --> 00:28:25,905

Marc Preston: Did you see, um,

you know, I, I'm really bad

649

00:28:25,905 --> 00:28:27,915

about remembering people's names.

650

00:28:27,915 --> 00:28:28,035

Me too.

651

00:28:28,125 --> 00:28:29,985

, you know, uh, once, oh no.

652

00:28:29,985 --> 00:28:32,385

Stanley Tucci, he has a new, a new book.

653

00:28:32,735 --> 00:28:35,005

You know, they sent this to me

and I got to, I was gonna check

654

00:28:35,005 --> 00:28:38,345

it out, but he, it was, uh, what I

ate in one year is the name of it.

655

00:28:38,385 --> 00:28:38,605

Yeah.

656

00:28:39,535 --> 00:28:40,185

Press for him there.

657

00:28:40,185 --> 00:28:43,515

But, um, but no, he did that show

where he did traveled around Italy.

658

00:28:43,525 --> 00:28:44,145

Have you seen that?

659

00:28:44,175 --> 00:28:46,895

Virginia Gardner: Yeah, we watched it

before we went to honeymoon in Italy.

660

00:28:47,425 --> 00:28:49,625

Marc Preston: My Anthony

Bourdain was on a spirit animal.

661

00:28:49,785 --> 00:28:53,265

I was like, that is the ultimate, not

that I don't love talking to you and

662

00:28:53,265 --> 00:28:56,815

the folks that talk to you, but I'm

like, that's the gig for me is travel

663

00:28:56,865 --> 00:29:00,165

and eat and don't do the tourist thing,

but do the thing where you get like,

664

00:29:00,165 --> 00:29:01,385

you know, what are the locals do?

665

00:29:01,455 --> 00:29:01,645

Yeah.

666

00:29:02,265 --> 00:29:03,235

Virginia Gardner: I would love to do that.

667

00:29:03,235 --> 00:29:04,765

I've been trying to sell myself.

668

00:29:04,815 --> 00:29:08,705

I've been trying to sell some version

of me doing a travel show for so long

669

00:29:08,705 --> 00:29:14,245

because I just want an excuse to go and

eat and travel and try local wines and,

670

00:29:14,245 --> 00:29:16,295

and just kind of experience all of it.

671

00:29:16,345 --> 00:29:18,935

Uh, and I love, have you

seen somebody feeds Phil?

672

00:29:19,375 --> 00:29:22,855

Marc Preston: I saw an episode where

he just kind of puts himself like

673

00:29:22,855 --> 00:29:24,665

fish out of water in situations.

674

00:29:24,675 --> 00:29:25,715

Is that kind of the.

675

00:29:25,810 --> 00:29:27,640

Prim, I think I saw part of an episode.

676

00:29:27,650 --> 00:29:27,960

Yeah.

677

00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:29,070

He travels all over

678

00:29:29,070 --> 00:29:31,230

Virginia Gardner: the world and

tries really great restaurants.

679

00:29:31,230 --> 00:29:34,520

And whenever I travel, just cause

I love his recommendations, I'll

680

00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,610

watch his episode and try to hit

wherever he went on his show.

681

00:29:37,610 --> 00:29:39,940

And I was just watching his

Bangkok episode last night,

682

00:29:39,940 --> 00:29:41,440

since I'm going on Friday and,

683

00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:42,750

Marc Preston: and try

684

00:29:42,750 --> 00:29:44,120

Virginia Gardner: to follow his itinerary,

685

00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,710

Marc Preston: Anthony Bourdain

had a great, uh, both with, uh,

686

00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,970

parts unknown and no reservations.

687

00:29:50,010 --> 00:29:52,070

He has two, uh, great.

688

00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,320

And there's a fellow, I can't

remember the chef's name, but.

689

00:29:54,430 --> 00:29:57,920

He travels to Thailand all the

time, gets recipes, come back.

690

00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,690

He's got a Thai restaurant,

but I think it's on HBO max.

691

00:30:01,710 --> 00:30:03,230

I think you find both of them.

692

00:30:03,230 --> 00:30:05,620

But I saw that as like, Holy cow.

693

00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,860

That just, it just everything about

Thailand is just seems amazing.

694

00:30:08,870 --> 00:30:09,250

Yeah.

695

00:30:09,250 --> 00:30:09,680

Virginia Gardner (2): And

696

00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,500

Marc Preston: so, sorry, we

were talking about your film and

697

00:30:11,980 --> 00:30:13,280

food came up and I went like,

698

00:30:15,370 --> 00:30:19,560

so the general premise is online

dating, just the whole dating

699

00:30:19,590 --> 00:30:21,100

thing and just kind of like.

700

00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,990

How does that hit for, you

know, for, for your generation?

701

00:30:23,990 --> 00:30:26,760

What, how would you define

what the film is about?

702

00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,810

Virginia Gardner: I mean, it's

really about, I mean, you, I think

703

00:30:30,810 --> 00:30:31,720

you hit the nail on the head.

704

00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:36,450

It's really about online dating and

sort of the fears of online dating.

705

00:30:36,450 --> 00:30:39,620

And we're also looping it into

with, I think something that's

706

00:30:39,620 --> 00:30:42,340

really topical right now, which

are these true crime podcasts.

707

00:30:42,510 --> 00:30:44,090

That people become so obsessed over.

708

00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,300

I love true crime podcasts and series

and all those things, but it's about

709

00:30:48,300 --> 00:30:51,560

how that can really get a little bit

of a chokehold on you and you become so

710

00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,040

obsessed and paranoid in your own life.

711

00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:58,220

Like I know for me, my husband is a

musician and travels a lot for work

712

00:30:58,230 --> 00:31:01,940

as do I, but if I'm at the house

alone, I can't watch true crime.

713

00:31:01,980 --> 00:31:04,260

I can't listen to true crime

podcasts because I get.

714

00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,990

It's so paranoid and we're sort of, we're

sort of doing a little bit of a social

715

00:31:08,990 --> 00:31:15,040

commentary on that as well as some of the

risks of online dating and dating apps.

716

00:31:15,060 --> 00:31:19,800

And yeah, it's sort of a fun blend

of comedy horror that we're doing.

717

00:31:19,950 --> 00:31:23,100

Marc Preston: You kind of came up in an

era where online dating was just there.

718

00:31:23,100 --> 00:31:25,870

It's like how people a lot of

met, but the question is, how

719

00:31:25,900 --> 00:31:26,870

did you meet your husband though?

720

00:31:27,450 --> 00:31:28,210

Virginia Gardner: On a dating app.

721

00:31:28,900 --> 00:31:29,480

Marc Preston: Really?

722

00:31:29,500 --> 00:31:29,530

Okay.

723

00:31:30,750 --> 00:31:31,900

Virginia Gardner: I'm

a fan of dating apps.

724

00:31:31,900 --> 00:31:32,610

It works for me.

725

00:31:33,165 --> 00:31:36,435

Marc Preston: I heard somewhere, I saw,

uh, something, uh, an article or a,

726

00:31:36,445 --> 00:31:41,355

I saw a newscast, something or other

that Gen Z is kind of raging against

727

00:31:41,365 --> 00:31:44,385

the whole online dating thing that

they're kind of what's old is new.

728

00:31:44,385 --> 00:31:46,625

Again, they like meeting

people more traditionally.

729

00:31:46,625 --> 00:31:47,205

I don't know.

730

00:31:47,245 --> 00:31:49,725

You know, I don't really talk to

my kids about their dating life.

731

00:31:49,725 --> 00:31:52,285

I mean, hell, my youngest

is dating somebody still.

732

00:31:52,315 --> 00:31:53,695

I still haven't met yet.

733

00:31:53,965 --> 00:31:55,475

For those listening to this

show, they were like, Oh yeah,

734

00:31:55,475 --> 00:31:57,715

I remember he talked about this

weeks ago, still haven't met this.

735

00:31:58,775 --> 00:32:02,445

Anyway, but the idea is there's

somebody out there who is.

736

00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:07,510

Killing people in the film, uh, that

there is killing somebody, but he's

737

00:32:07,590 --> 00:32:09,590

who he's meeting and online dating.

738

00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:10,500

Is that kind of the idea?

739

00:32:10,500 --> 00:32:10,800

Okay.

740

00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:11,140

Virginia Gardner (2): Yes.

741

00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:15,560

Marc Preston: And, um, uh, you're

the friend of the, the lady who's

742

00:32:15,570 --> 00:32:18,270

had going through this experience,

uh, for the most part, right.

743

00:32:18,270 --> 00:32:20,984

Or, or did you, were you

kind of dating as well?

744

00:32:21,275 --> 00:32:26,205

Virginia Gardner: Well, it's, it, it's

a very, um, spoiler heavy movie, so I'm

745

00:32:26,215 --> 00:32:31,285

trying to explain what I can without

giving away too many spoilers, but I

746

00:32:31,285 --> 00:32:38,475

play Lucy's best friend and my character

is, is very, it's funny, we filmed this

747

00:32:38,495 --> 00:32:43,125

movie before the trad wife trend sort

of took off on Instagram and TikTok.

748

00:32:43,125 --> 00:32:44,195

Do you know the trad wife?

749

00:32:44,235 --> 00:32:47,645

Marc Preston: The trad wife, you're gonna,

I feel like I'm learning things today.

750

00:32:47,780 --> 00:32:48,090

So

751

00:32:48,870 --> 00:32:51,590

Virginia Gardner: it's, um, that

kind of like the traditional wife,

752

00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:57,070

like you see these women on Instagram

that they'll be like, my husband was

753

00:32:57,070 --> 00:33:01,740

craving a diet Coke today, but I didn't

want to go out and buy him diet Coke.

754

00:33:01,740 --> 00:33:03,140

So, or diet Coke's a bad example.

755

00:33:03,150 --> 00:33:07,440

It'd be like Coca Cola probably where

she'd be like, so I took the sugar cane

756

00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,790

and I stripped the sugar cane and I

boiled it down to make the sugar and then

757

00:33:12,790 --> 00:33:14,839

I carbonated it with blah, blah, blah.

758

00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:19,020

These wives that really dedicate

their lives to their husbands.

759

00:33:19,050 --> 00:33:20,580

And that's Kelly.

760

00:33:20,590 --> 00:33:25,220

My character is, is very much a track

wife where she really upholds the sanctity

761

00:33:25,220 --> 00:33:27,940

of marriage, she's married and she's.

762

00:33:28,455 --> 00:33:32,535

Her POV is, it's all about being a

good wife, having a good husband,

763

00:33:32,925 --> 00:33:37,675

having, you know, like that very,

um, perfect on the outside lifestyle.

764

00:33:40,415 --> 00:33:42,885

Marc Preston: Very much the kind

of thing you're hearing on TV.

765

00:33:42,885 --> 00:33:43,175

Now.

766

00:33:43,225 --> 00:33:46,005

It's like, you know, uh,

stay home, have kids.

767

00:33:46,025 --> 00:33:46,065

Okay.

768

00:33:46,645 --> 00:33:49,015

So that's, that's kind of more

where your character is leaning.

769

00:33:49,035 --> 00:33:49,785

Virginia Gardner: Absolutely.

770

00:33:50,065 --> 00:33:51,205

She's, she's very much like that.

771

00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,880

Marc Preston: So going back to your

husband, so you met him on a dating

772

00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,550

app, but he said he's a musician.

773

00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,840

First of all, I guess what

instrument does he play?

774

00:33:58,970 --> 00:34:01,900

Virginia Gardner: He is the bass

player in a band called the struts.

775

00:34:01,900 --> 00:34:07,740

They are an English rock band and

they travel all over the world.

776

00:34:07,890 --> 00:34:11,860

He's probably, he used to be gone about

11 months out of the year touring and now

777

00:34:11,860 --> 00:34:17,080

he's gone about nine months out of the

year touring, but he's gone all the time.

778

00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,670

Their work takes them all over the world.

779

00:34:18,985 --> 00:34:20,385

Marc Preston: For him,

probably the online dating.

780

00:34:20,385 --> 00:34:22,475

That's a very efficient thing,

you know, for him because, you

781

00:34:22,475 --> 00:34:23,905

know, he's only in town so long.

782

00:34:23,925 --> 00:34:27,155

He probably, you know, doesn't have

that long to kind of date around.

783

00:34:27,155 --> 00:34:29,055

So that, that worked out well for you.

784

00:34:29,245 --> 00:34:32,445

Um, so how long, uh, how

long y'all been married?

785

00:34:32,815 --> 00:34:36,645

Virginia Gardner: We've

been married two years.

786

00:34:36,645 --> 00:34:37,715

When did we get married?

787

00:34:38,835 --> 00:34:40,385

2022, right?

788

00:34:40,895 --> 00:34:42,175

No, 2023.

789

00:34:42,875 --> 00:34:46,245

My memory is garbage, but

a little two ish years.

790

00:34:46,625 --> 00:34:49,825

Marc Preston: I will say

anything past 2019 2020.

791

00:34:49,825 --> 00:34:50,595

It's a gray area.

792

00:34:50,715 --> 00:34:50,965

It's all

793

00:34:50,965 --> 00:34:51,565

Virginia Gardner: the same.

794

00:34:51,565 --> 00:34:53,535

I don't know how it's gone so fast.

795

00:34:53,535 --> 00:34:53,795

Yeah

796

00:34:54,495 --> 00:34:56,195

Marc Preston: At least it's

not just me dealing with that.

797

00:34:56,455 --> 00:34:58,375

Have you had a chance to go

on tour with them at all?

798

00:34:58,955 --> 00:35:01,995

Virginia Gardner: Um, I go on tour

occasionally when i'm sort of selfish

799

00:35:01,995 --> 00:35:05,815

I pick the fun cities that I want to go

to and i'll fly out for the fun runs,

800

00:35:05,845 --> 00:35:09,815

but being on tour is, is so tough.

801

00:35:09,855 --> 00:35:12,295

Um, you know, they're on a tour bus.

802

00:35:12,345 --> 00:35:18,505

The bunks are, gosh, I'm looking

at my table and I'm trying

803

00:35:18,505 --> 00:35:20,345

to, I would say two feet wide.

804

00:35:20,385 --> 00:35:24,905

So you're fitting two people and

these two foot wide bunks and

805

00:35:25,845 --> 00:35:28,225

it's, you're on a moving vehicle.

806

00:35:28,225 --> 00:35:30,895

I'm usually the only woman out

cause they're, they're Cruz

807

00:35:30,895 --> 00:35:32,345

Lovely, but it's all guys.

808

00:35:32,345 --> 00:35:38,255

And You're showering in the venue

showers that everyone is sharing and

809

00:35:38,265 --> 00:35:42,695

it's, it's, it's very rock and roll

lifestyle that I can do for a couple

810

00:35:42,695 --> 00:35:46,205

of days and it's fun for a couple of

days, but I, I don't know how to get

811

00:35:46,215 --> 00:35:48,095

Marc Preston: back to your,

your, your adjustable bed.

812

00:35:48,115 --> 00:35:49,585

It's a big guy.

813

00:35:50,265 --> 00:35:50,405

Yeah.

814

00:35:50,825 --> 00:35:53,015

Um, but yeah, I remember working in radio.

815

00:35:53,535 --> 00:35:56,665

The big thing is you give

away the backstage passes.

816

00:35:57,005 --> 00:36:01,150

There's all this romance behind quote

unquote backstage, Backstage really is

817

00:36:01,150 --> 00:36:05,040

the most boring, you know, it's sweaty and

818

00:36:05,050 --> 00:36:07,530

Virginia Gardner: stinky

and it's not cute backstage.

819

00:36:08,530 --> 00:36:11,020

Marc Preston: So where do you like

to be while the concert's going on?

820

00:36:11,030 --> 00:36:12,430

Do you like to kind of

be out in the audience?

821

00:36:12,430 --> 00:36:15,240

Do you like to be side stage

or are you kind of like, okay,

822

00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:16,410

this is my chance to be alone.

823

00:36:16,410 --> 00:36:19,500

I always want to be backstage somewhere.

824

00:36:19,910 --> 00:36:21,280

Virginia Gardner: No, I love side stage.

825

00:36:21,310 --> 00:36:23,090

I always end up watching from side stage.

826

00:36:23,100 --> 00:36:23,920

My husband.

827

00:36:24,295 --> 00:36:26,515

Is always like, no, you

got to go out in the crowd.

828

00:36:26,525 --> 00:36:28,345

The acoustics are better in the crowd.

829

00:36:28,345 --> 00:36:30,225

I sound so much better in the crowd.

830

00:36:30,225 --> 00:36:34,415

And I'm like, no, first of all, side

stage is still a novelty for me.

831

00:36:34,425 --> 00:36:38,715

I still feel very cool, you know, side

stage when I get to watch my husband

832

00:36:38,715 --> 00:36:42,855

from the sidebinds and I'm, I kind of

like being away from the crowds as well.

833

00:36:42,855 --> 00:36:46,145

But it's really fun to be able to

watch from side stage and bring all our

834

00:36:46,145 --> 00:36:48,335

friends that haven't had that experience.

835

00:36:48,335 --> 00:36:52,745

And my grandma got to come out to a show

and see a little bit from side stage.

836

00:36:52,745 --> 00:36:53,475

It's very fun.

837

00:36:53,850 --> 00:36:56,120

Marc Preston: He's sort of right

because all the acoustics, everything

838

00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:57,630

is designed for the audience.

839

00:36:57,740 --> 00:36:59,820

Like musically, what is your jam?

840

00:36:59,830 --> 00:37:01,930

Like, what, what kind

of things do you dig?

841

00:37:01,940 --> 00:37:05,280

Is his genre of music kind of

something you already like?

842

00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,180

Or is, are you kind of like

more into other genres?

843

00:37:09,605 --> 00:37:13,475

Virginia Gardner: I love rock music and

I am genuinely a fan of their music,

844

00:37:13,485 --> 00:37:15,125

which I've told him so many times.

845

00:37:15,145 --> 00:37:18,465

I think I would have gotten the

ick and not been that into him

846

00:37:18,465 --> 00:37:19,795

if I wasn't into their music.

847

00:37:19,795 --> 00:37:21,495

And I genuinely love their music.

848

00:37:21,495 --> 00:37:24,695

So I'm thrilled to be able to

say that they make great music.

849

00:37:24,695 --> 00:37:25,775

That's so much fun.

850

00:37:25,895 --> 00:37:28,635

Um, But I, I'm so stuck in the nineties.

851

00:37:28,635 --> 00:37:30,785

I love like nineties alt rock matchbox.

852

00:37:30,795 --> 00:37:32,115

20 is my favorite band.

853

00:37:32,115 --> 00:37:33,355

I'm obsessed with matchbox

854

00:37:33,375 --> 00:37:34,315

Marc Preston: 20.

855

00:37:35,055 --> 00:37:37,965

Well, you know, that's actually the

heyday of when I worked in music radio.

856

00:37:37,965 --> 00:37:41,985

That was all of, I think

that's the last definitive.

857

00:37:42,295 --> 00:37:43,135

Era of music.

858

00:37:43,185 --> 00:37:45,195

Like you can look at the 80s.

859

00:37:45,195 --> 00:37:46,305

You can hear music.

860

00:37:46,305 --> 00:37:46,675

Yeah.

861

00:37:46,675 --> 00:37:46,805

Okay.

862

00:37:46,835 --> 00:37:48,945

That sounds like this era nineties.

863

00:37:48,945 --> 00:37:51,175

It was kind of the last one.

864

00:37:51,205 --> 00:37:56,915

And I think nineties was, was a real

great air, like Google dolls, a dishwalla,

865

00:37:56,965 --> 00:37:58,775

you know, I'm just kind of rattling off.

866

00:37:58,795 --> 00:37:59,075

Yeah.

867

00:37:59,075 --> 00:38:01,845

I love sister Hazel.

868

00:38:01,885 --> 00:38:02,445

That was another one.

869

00:38:02,445 --> 00:38:02,625

Yeah.

870

00:38:03,380 --> 00:38:07,650

You had a lot of bands who are touring

where live shows were a lot of fun to go

871

00:38:07,650 --> 00:38:11,470

watch, you know, like which bands from

the era or some of your favorites besides

872

00:38:11,470 --> 00:38:14,940

like Goo Goo Dolls, Matchbox 20 and you

know, which got to work on the radio.

873

00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,380

Matchbox 20 had at least

one song every hour.

874

00:38:17,380 --> 00:38:17,860

I think

875

00:38:18,730 --> 00:38:20,240

Virginia Gardner: you kind

of hit all my favorites.

876

00:38:20,250 --> 00:38:23,040

Matchbox 20 to me is

I, I, they're my go to.

877

00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,640

I work out to Matchbox 20 and Rob Thomas.

878

00:38:25,660 --> 00:38:26,330

Like I am.

879

00:38:26,735 --> 00:38:28,835

Probably their biggest

and maybe youngest fan.

880

00:38:28,835 --> 00:38:30,285

I love them so much.

881

00:38:30,615 --> 00:38:34,115

Um, but I also have a really big

soft spot for some singer songwriter.

882

00:38:34,115 --> 00:38:35,075

He kind of stuff too.

883

00:38:35,075 --> 00:38:38,685

I just got into Zach Brian and I

know I'm not unique in saying that,

884

00:38:38,685 --> 00:38:40,515

but I really love Zach Brian stuff.

885

00:38:40,655 --> 00:38:41,875

Marc Preston: That's my daughters.

886

00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:48,450

Guy, Zach Brian, she gets ahold of

Spotify in the car and so when I get

887

00:38:48,450 --> 00:38:51,800

my end of year, you know, Spotify

says, here's your favorite bands as

888

00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,840

Morgan Wallen was like, he's great.

889

00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:54,500

Don't get me wrong.

890

00:38:54,500 --> 00:38:58,030

I, you know, we all love, I'm

in Texas, you know, my country

891

00:38:58,040 --> 00:38:59,100

and my daughter loves country.

892

00:38:59,240 --> 00:39:00,540

But I was like, oh shit.

893

00:39:00,580 --> 00:39:00,800

Okay.

894

00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:01,670

He's my number one.

895

00:39:01,670 --> 00:39:03,960

I sent her a message with a screenshot.

896

00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,820

I'm like, this is what

you did to my playlist.

897

00:39:06,510 --> 00:39:09,240

Every time we're in the car,

she takes over my, uh, my phone.

898

00:39:09,700 --> 00:39:11,450

But Zach Brian.

899

00:39:11,515 --> 00:39:14,605

Was, uh, or is, you know,

he's just interesting guy.

900

00:39:14,725 --> 00:39:15,805

Uh, have you ever seen him live?

901

00:39:16,135 --> 00:39:16,525

Virginia Gardner: No.

902

00:39:16,525 --> 00:39:17,905

I'm dying to see him live.

903

00:39:17,905 --> 00:39:21,115

I've seen Matchbox 20 many times,

but I am dying to see Zach.

904

00:39:21,115 --> 00:39:22,525

Bryan, he's on my list for sure.

905

00:39:22,525 --> 00:39:22,645

He's a

906

00:39:22,645 --> 00:39:23,545

Marc Preston: great songwriter.

907

00:39:23,695 --> 00:39:25,645

Yeah, I think his stuff is spot on.

908

00:39:26,065 --> 00:39:30,595

Uh, there was got, I interviewed, um,

have you seen the video for Nine Ball?

909

00:39:30,775 --> 00:39:32,820

Virginia Gardner (2): No, I

actually McConaughey seen No.

910

00:39:33,205 --> 00:39:34,105

Marc Preston: Tyler Sheridan.

911

00:39:34,105 --> 00:39:35,395

Tyler, uh, Ty Sheridan.

912

00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:36,340

Sheridan, yes, yes, yes, yes.

913

00:39:36,805 --> 00:39:38,605

He plays Matthew McConaughey's son.

914

00:39:38,605 --> 00:39:40,735

And the whole idea about Nine Ball is.

915

00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,740

Uh, a father who's kind of a,

kind of a hot mess and his son is

916

00:39:44,750 --> 00:39:46,270

kind of, but go watch the video.

917

00:39:46,270 --> 00:39:47,460

It's just really cool.

918

00:39:47,540 --> 00:39:52,360

Um, I am jazzed about it because my

daughter, it's like she would marry

919

00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:53,710

him in an, in an instant, I think.

920

00:39:53,710 --> 00:39:53,910

Yeah.

921

00:39:54,610 --> 00:39:57,300

The, um, like any time

Oklahoma smoke show comes

922

00:39:57,300 --> 00:39:59,160

Virginia Gardner: on radio.

923

00:39:59,755 --> 00:40:01,945

Marc Preston: Now, when you were a

kid, what movies were you watching?

924

00:40:01,955 --> 00:40:04,775

Like what was, cause of course

you were, this was something that

925

00:40:04,775 --> 00:40:06,575

was a thing you wanted to do.

926

00:40:06,585 --> 00:40:10,505

What was there an inspiration early

on where there were films like, uh,

927

00:40:10,525 --> 00:40:13,455

of course you mentioned, you know,

I am Sam, but was there anything

928

00:40:13,455 --> 00:40:14,265

else that you were watching?

929

00:40:14,415 --> 00:40:17,779

What was, what were your jams

movie wise when you were a kid?

930

00:40:17,780 --> 00:40:19,150

Virginia Gardner: You know, I had even

931

00:40:19,150 --> 00:40:19,700

Marc Preston: TV.

932

00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:20,230

Virginia Gardner: Yeah.

933

00:40:20,230 --> 00:40:24,830

I had a couple of VHS tapes

that I would just watch on

934

00:40:24,870 --> 00:40:27,290

repeat cause we would go away.

935

00:40:27,300 --> 00:40:31,110

My, my parents had a little boat that

they would take us out on on the weekends.

936

00:40:31,110 --> 00:40:34,910

And so, um, I would just sit in my

little bedroom and I would just watch

937

00:40:34,910 --> 00:40:36,820

the same VHS tapes over and over again.

938

00:40:36,850 --> 00:40:38,310

So there's like six movies that I,

939

00:40:38,340 --> 00:40:39,670

Marc Preston: wait,

what is it a boat with?

940

00:40:39,670 --> 00:40:40,990

Is it a boat with cabins?

941

00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:42,100

It was a

942

00:40:42,100 --> 00:40:43,690

Virginia Gardner: little

boat with like two cabins.

943

00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:45,130

And so

944

00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:45,790

Marc Preston: how cool is

945

00:40:45,790 --> 00:40:46,879

Virginia Gardner: that?

946

00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,500

So in my little cabin, I would say, and

I would watch my VHS tapes that I had,

947

00:40:50,500 --> 00:40:52,080

and there was only a handful of them.

948

00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,760

So I would end up watching the

same films over and over again,

949

00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:59,680

but it was eternal sunshine of the

spotless mind was one of them, um,

950

00:40:59,910 --> 00:41:01,270

Marc Preston: for a little kid.

951

00:41:01,420 --> 00:41:05,630

That's a deep end of a pool when it

comes to a subject matter, if you

952

00:41:05,630 --> 00:41:07,444

will, or like concepts, you know,

953

00:41:07,535 --> 00:41:11,265

Virginia Gardner: Well, and I can't say,

I'm sure that I wasn't fully understanding

954

00:41:11,265 --> 00:41:14,705

the film, but there was something that

I, it was Focus Features at the time

955

00:41:14,705 --> 00:41:17,595

was making a lot of those movies, and I

believe Focus Features made that movie,

956

00:41:17,595 --> 00:41:23,045

I could be wrong, but I, I had this weird

sense of what I felt was like a good film

957

00:41:23,045 --> 00:41:24,459

and something that felt like a good movie.

958

00:41:24,700 --> 00:41:27,860

kind of artistically

elevated in some ways.

959

00:41:27,860 --> 00:41:30,640

And those were the movies that I really

found myself gravitating towards.

960

00:41:30,650 --> 00:41:34,420

So I had seen that movie a million times.

961

00:41:34,500 --> 00:41:37,770

Uh, on the other end of the spectrum,

like Mr. Deeds was another one

962

00:41:37,770 --> 00:41:40,780

that I had on VHS and I would

watch Mr. Deeds all the time.

963

00:41:41,290 --> 00:41:43,120

Um, those are two of my favorites.

964

00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,820

I'm trying to think of other things

that I was watching at the time.

965

00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:47,575

Um, Yeah.

966

00:41:47,575 --> 00:41:50,285

I mean, those two, those are the two

ones that are, that are coming up.

967

00:41:50,325 --> 00:41:51,745

Oh, like, you know, Jurassic Park.

968

00:41:51,815 --> 00:41:55,475

I grew up with Jurassic Park as

it was coming out and ET and all

969

00:41:55,475 --> 00:41:56,985

those amazing movies as well.

970

00:41:57,195 --> 00:41:59,215

Marc Preston: Well, going back to music,

how did you get into the nineties thing?

971

00:41:59,225 --> 00:42:01,225

How did that even land

as a thing you were into?

972

00:42:01,225 --> 00:42:03,135

Because you were, uh, that's a long time.

973

00:42:03,695 --> 00:42:05,905

I'm like thinking how

long the nineties were.

974

00:42:05,905 --> 00:42:08,155

And I really don't want

to think about how long

975

00:42:08,155 --> 00:42:08,545

Virginia Gardner: it is.

976

00:42:09,365 --> 00:42:12,015

Marc Preston: But how did, how did that,

there was somebody else, God, who would.

977

00:42:12,380 --> 00:42:12,650

Okay.

978

00:42:12,650 --> 00:42:13,910

It was somebody I spoke with not longer.

979

00:42:13,910 --> 00:42:16,580

They said they, uh, their mother,

you know, they just got ahold of

980

00:42:16,580 --> 00:42:19,220

their mother's playlist and, um,

981

00:42:21,310 --> 00:42:22,920

God, I got to work on the memory thing.

982

00:42:23,010 --> 00:42:24,370

I'm even as ridiculous.

983

00:42:24,370 --> 00:42:25,080

I'm taking that thing.

984

00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,770

Somebody said that lion's mane

mushroom stuff, you know, it's

985

00:42:28,770 --> 00:42:30,320

like, yeah, it's supposed to help.

986

00:42:30,550 --> 00:42:31,810

Uh, it hasn't so far.

987

00:42:31,950 --> 00:42:33,760

Uh, but I've only been on for a few weeks.

988

00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:34,450

We'll see how it goes.

989

00:42:34,510 --> 00:42:34,840

Virginia Gardner (2): Yeah.

990

00:42:34,860 --> 00:42:38,090

Marc Preston: But like, how did, how did

the nineties, how did the, that genre?

991

00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:39,550

How'd you lock into that?

992

00:42:39,590 --> 00:42:42,220

Was that something your parents were

listening to and you kind of dialed in?

993

00:42:42,300 --> 00:42:43,240

Virginia Gardner: It was my parents.

994

00:42:43,240 --> 00:42:46,850

I mean, I was born in 95, so I was,

you know, I missed the first five

995

00:42:46,850 --> 00:42:49,440

years of the nineties and was so

young for the last half of them.

996

00:42:49,470 --> 00:42:54,570

Um, but it was what my parents listened to

when I was younger, especially, you know,

997

00:42:54,660 --> 00:42:58,680

a lot of my formative sort of childhood

memories were on this boat and the amount

998

00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,030

of time we would spend on this boat.

999

00:43:00,030 --> 00:43:02,320

And so we would be cruising

around the Sacramento river.

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00:43:03,405 --> 00:43:07,785

Matchbox 20 would be on all the time and

the background and these other nineties

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00:43:07,785 --> 00:43:13,595

bands and that kind of alt rock boat rock

sort of vibe that my parents had going.

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00:43:13,595 --> 00:43:14,675

So it just kind of, well,

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00:43:14,675 --> 00:43:16,815

Marc Preston: I got to know what

was your favorite matchbox 20.

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00:43:16,835 --> 00:43:20,305

So I'll tell, I'll tell

you mine is long day,

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00:43:20,975 --> 00:43:21,325

Virginia Gardner: long day.

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00:43:21,325 --> 00:43:22,645

Mine might be mad season.

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00:43:22,645 --> 00:43:23,895

I love mad season.

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00:43:24,210 --> 00:43:26,810

Marc Preston: My youngest loved

any, anything she can sing

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00:43:26,810 --> 00:43:27,960

along to had a bad word in it.

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00:43:28,210 --> 00:43:30,700

So, you know, she liked long

day cause she could do that.

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00:43:30,790 --> 00:43:33,710

But anyway, but, um, now she

doesn't need a song to do that.

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00:43:34,110 --> 00:43:37,150

But, um, it's just such a

pleasure for me to meet somebody

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00:43:37,150 --> 00:43:38,720

that loves that era of music.

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00:43:39,110 --> 00:43:41,090

Uh, it's doesn't get talked

about that much, but there was

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00:43:41,090 --> 00:43:42,360

some great music coming out.

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00:43:42,410 --> 00:43:43,350

It's so good.

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00:43:43,350 --> 00:43:43,880

I mean,

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00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,670

Virginia Gardner: yeah, and

it was very, just feel good.

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00:43:46,670 --> 00:43:47,680

It was catchy.

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00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,280

It had real instruments.

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00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,230

It wasn't the computerized

drums and computerized.

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00:43:52,620 --> 00:43:53,100

Everything.

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00:43:53,100 --> 00:43:56,940

It was this real music and so fun,

live and had this great energy to it.

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00:43:56,940 --> 00:44:01,590

And I felt a lot of the lyrics were

really saying something and, uh, yeah.

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00:44:01,590 --> 00:44:05,580

You know, I, I could go on and on, but to

me, that's just such a fun era of music.

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00:44:05,580 --> 00:44:08,970

My workout playlist to this day is

like exclusively nineties songs,

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00:44:09,590 --> 00:44:10,160

Marc Preston: tonic.

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00:44:10,730 --> 00:44:13,610

Uh, I remember talking the lead

singer of that, of, uh, Tony.

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00:44:14,150 --> 00:44:14,181

Oh, fun.

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00:44:14,186 --> 00:44:15,620

And, um, if you can, yeah.

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00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,470

Uh, you know, if you can

only s if you can only sing.

Speaker:

00:44:18,470 --> 00:44:18,560

Yeah.

Speaker:

00:44:18,710 --> 00:44:18,890

Yeah.

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00:44:18,890 --> 00:44:19,370

Great song.

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00:44:19,375 --> 00:44:19,545

Yeah.

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00:44:19,790 --> 00:44:22,070

And I asked him, I said, where

that, where did that song.

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00:44:22,335 --> 00:44:25,445

Come from, cause you know, you're

married to a musician and I love

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00:44:25,455 --> 00:44:27,015

the idea of how did the song come?

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00:44:27,065 --> 00:44:28,395

How did the songs come together?

Speaker:

00:44:28,395 --> 00:44:31,705

Like talk to Richard Marcs, his song

he did called Angelia, which I liked.

Speaker:

00:44:31,735 --> 00:44:35,895

And he was like, he was on an American

airlines flight and the flight

Speaker:

00:44:35,895 --> 00:44:37,865

attendant had a name text at Angelia.

Speaker:

00:44:37,955 --> 00:44:38,935

So it wasn't a real story.

Speaker:

00:44:38,985 --> 00:44:40,415

It's just, he built it

out of that, you know?

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00:44:41,135 --> 00:44:45,195

But the guy for, for, uh, Tonic, he was

like, uh, yeah, you know, there was this.

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00:44:45,465 --> 00:44:48,775

There's a, somebody I was dating,

uh, everybody in my family said

Speaker:

00:44:48,775 --> 00:44:50,625

that, uh, don't, don't be with them.

Speaker:

00:44:50,625 --> 00:44:53,815

They're bad news, but you're, but there's

like, but if you could only see that,

Speaker:

00:44:53,825 --> 00:44:56,865

you know, you don't think when you're in

that relationship, you're making excuses.

Speaker:

00:44:57,475 --> 00:45:01,605

I walked right into that kind of a

relationship immediately thereafter.

Speaker:

00:45:01,605 --> 00:45:05,005

And it was so funny as it was kind

of on the back end and family,

Speaker:

00:45:05,015 --> 00:45:07,485

friends like, yeah, she's really

not, you know, ended up marrying her.

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00:45:08,045 --> 00:45:11,675

Um, because you look at music

and the lyrics is like it.

Speaker:

00:45:12,110 --> 00:45:16,050

It's so good when you can see

it comes from a place, a story.

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00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,180

Does your husband write music?

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00:45:19,210 --> 00:45:21,740

Does he, is that kind of, or

does he kind of stick to the

Speaker:

00:45:21,750 --> 00:45:23,810

instrumental aspect of things?

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00:45:24,070 --> 00:45:26,910

Virginia Gardner: He writes some of his

own stuff, but when it comes to his work

Speaker:

00:45:26,910 --> 00:45:30,000

in the band, they all write together

sometimes, but it's, it's often there.

Speaker:

00:45:30,240 --> 00:45:33,940

Singer and their lead guitarists that

sort of take the, take the lead on

Speaker:

00:45:33,940 --> 00:45:35,550

the songwriting stuff for their band.

Speaker:

00:45:35,570 --> 00:45:39,290

But I, you know, as a big music fan,

it's so fun to me to hear about how

Speaker:

00:45:39,290 --> 00:45:43,130

their sessions go and how they create

these songs and how sometimes it's a

Speaker:

00:45:43,150 --> 00:45:46,940

beat first and then it's lyrics, or

sometimes it's someone that's going.

Speaker:

00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:47,820

It's a

Speaker:

00:45:47,820 --> 00:45:51,850

Marc Preston: lyric or if it's the music

and you know, somebody hears something

Speaker:

00:45:51,850 --> 00:45:55,780

there maybe is a word or phrase or like,

you know, something that just sets it off.

Speaker:

00:45:56,150 --> 00:45:59,490

I've never been a music writer

person, uh, but I, I'm, I'm

Speaker:

00:45:59,500 --> 00:46:01,890

fascinated by how songs come together.

Speaker:

00:46:02,810 --> 00:46:04,500

Does he have a studio space

at home where he record?

Speaker:

00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:05,700

Beautiful poetry.

Speaker:

00:46:05,700 --> 00:46:06,140

Yes.

Speaker:

00:46:07,170 --> 00:46:10,730

But does he have a recording space

at home that he kind of works out?

Speaker:

00:46:12,240 --> 00:46:14,910

Virginia Gardner: We have a guest

bedroom, but it's now mostly his

Speaker:

00:46:14,910 --> 00:46:16,720

studio and there's a bed in it.

Speaker:

00:46:16,730 --> 00:46:20,060

So he's, he's taken over the guest

bedroom with his little makeshift.

Speaker:

00:46:20,060 --> 00:46:24,350

Hopefully one day we'll have a space where

he can have a full, you know, full studio.

Speaker:

00:46:24,350 --> 00:46:26,170

That's not also a

bedroom, but for now it's

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00:46:33,650 --> 00:46:35,480

Marc Preston: Before we get going,

I always like to do something

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00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:36,900

I call my seven questions.

Speaker:

00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,390

Uh, it's always kind of the way

I like to get a couple things out

Speaker:

00:46:41,390 --> 00:46:43,910

there I think are fun and I always

talk about food as I mentioned.

Speaker:

00:46:43,910 --> 00:46:49,270

So I got to know what is your favorite,

uh, if you say comfort food, what

Speaker:

00:46:49,270 --> 00:46:50,760

immediately comes to mind for you?

Speaker:

00:46:50,930 --> 00:46:51,810

Virginia Gardner: Indian food.

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00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:53,020

Love Indian food.

Speaker:

00:46:53,020 --> 00:46:53,590

Love a curry.

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00:46:53,740 --> 00:46:57,100

Marc Preston: I live on an Island

in South Texas now, uh, right on

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00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,370

the tip of Texas, South Padre.

Speaker:

00:46:59,370 --> 00:47:00,930

And we don't, we don't have.

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00:47:01,250 --> 00:47:03,050

Any of that kind of ethics stuff here.

Speaker:

00:47:03,050 --> 00:47:05,390

I'm like, I need Indian and I need tie.

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00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,750

And I said that the other day, I was

like, I've not had that in a while.

Speaker:

00:47:07,750 --> 00:47:08,540

I'm going through withdrawal.

Speaker:

00:47:08,570 --> 00:47:09,980

Virginia Gardner: Oh, I would be so sad.

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00:47:09,980 --> 00:47:10,400

I love it.

Speaker:

00:47:10,610 --> 00:47:13,970

Once a week I usually have

like a, either a tie or, or an

Speaker:

00:47:13,970 --> 00:47:15,400

Indian food, curry, something.

Speaker:

00:47:15,810 --> 00:47:17,190

Marc Preston: Guys had

turkey sandwich for lunch.

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00:47:17,610 --> 00:47:19,570

Now, if you're going to say you had

three people you're going to sit down

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00:47:19,570 --> 00:47:22,380

with and you're going to talk story

for a few hours now living or not,

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00:47:23,060 --> 00:47:24,470

who would you like to sit down with?

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00:47:24,490 --> 00:47:28,270

And who do you, who would be fun to

have coffee with for a few hours?

Speaker:

00:47:28,540 --> 00:47:31,510

Virginia Gardner: I mean, we've talked

so much about Matchbox 20 today.

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00:47:31,510 --> 00:47:32,910

I gotta go rob Thomas.

Speaker:

00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,070

I would love to sit down.

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00:47:34,090 --> 00:47:35,090

I've met him once.

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00:47:35,170 --> 00:47:36,720

He, um, Really?

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00:47:36,720 --> 00:47:37,100

I did.

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00:47:37,110 --> 00:47:40,730

He, he thought my name was Jenny, not

Ginny, but I was like, that's okay.

Speaker:

00:47:40,730 --> 00:47:42,550

Whatever you want to call me, it's okay.

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00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:44,720

Marc Preston: Wait, wait, he thought,

he thought your name was Jenny,

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00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,930

Virginia Gardner: like J E N N Y. When

we were, uh, when we were introduced, he

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00:47:48,930 --> 00:47:50,160

was like, Oh, nice to meet you, Jenny.

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00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:51,840

And I was like, I'm not

even going to correct him.

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00:47:51,860 --> 00:47:53,940

He can call me whatever

he wants to call me.

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00:47:53,940 --> 00:47:54,410

It's okay.

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00:47:54,810 --> 00:47:57,210

Um, so I would love to

have Rob Thomas there.

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00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,840

I would love to chat with, oh my gosh.

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00:48:01,910 --> 00:48:06,670

Um, I would love, oh my gosh, whenever

I'm on the spot with these kinds of

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00:48:06,670 --> 00:48:08,180

questions, I can't think of anybody.

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00:48:08,540 --> 00:48:10,700

Um, Kate Winslet, I'm a huge fan of hers.

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00:48:10,720 --> 00:48:12,750

I think she's a fantastic performer.

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00:48:12,750 --> 00:48:15,270

I would love to be able to chat

with her about what she does.

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00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:16,420

And.

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00:48:17,130 --> 00:48:20,700

Let me go like a filmmaker that I

would be excited to sit and chat with.

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00:48:22,020 --> 00:48:28,310

I would love to talk to,

um, let's go John Malkovich.

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00:48:28,310 --> 00:48:29,600

I love John Malkovich.

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00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,420

I'd love to chat with John Malkovich.

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00:48:32,050 --> 00:48:34,330

Marc Preston: You know, no, but I don't

think anybody said that, but that would be

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00:48:35,180 --> 00:48:35,990

Virginia Gardner: kind of a nut rash

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00:48:36,010 --> 00:48:36,640

Marc Preston: more guys.

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00:48:37,210 --> 00:48:38,820

I would love to sit down with him.

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00:48:38,870 --> 00:48:39,250

Virginia Gardner (2): Yeah.

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Marc Preston: He just seems kind of

not out there, but, uh, just enough

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like I would like to have him and, um,

uh, uh, uh, God, he's in slow horses.

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Virginia Gardner: Between the two of

us, we'll never know anyone's name ever.

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Marc Preston: But I've

been watching slow horses

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Virginia Gardner: recently.

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I know what you're talking about.

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Marc Preston: You know, of course I have

to do this for the sake of, uh, God,

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this is, this is really Gary Oldman.

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Gary Oldman.

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Gary Oldman.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Like, like Everything he's

in, it was like, uh, like the

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professional all the way on.

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It's like, God, the guy just like,

he could literally do everything.

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So getting a couple of people together

like that is just like, what would

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they talk about to get that to me?

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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.

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Marc Preston: Um, now if, if

we're going next question, going

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back when you were a young Jenny.

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Who was your first celebrity crush?

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Virginia Gardner: Johnny

Depp, which maybe, I don't

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know, not to be controversial.

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I know he's not, um, everyone's

favorite person at the moment, but, but

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at the time, Johnny Depp and Pirates

of the Caribbean was my total crush.

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Probably my first, yeah, my

first like crush ever was.

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probably Johnny Depp Pirates of the

Caribbean as a pirate specifically.

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Though,

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Marc Preston: if you're, let's say

your next question, you're going to

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be living on an Island, uh, an exotic

Island, something beautiful, a resort,

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uh, somewhere you want to be, but

you got to be there an entire year.

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There's no streaming,

no internet, no nothing.

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You got it.

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So you can bring one movie.

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And like on DVD, and you can

bring one CD with you, uh, you

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can listen to over and over again.

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So you can watch over and over again.

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What would that DVD be?

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And what would that CD be?

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Virginia Gardner: I don't think

I'm going to say anything new.

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I'm going to go back to

Matchbox 20 probably.

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I think the album is Exile on Mainstream.

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So I would go Exile on Mainstream

and then I would go Eternal

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Sunshine of the Spotless Minds.

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Those are such comforting,

uh, pieces of art for me.

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I would, I would happily watch.

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And listen to both of those forever.

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Love them.

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Marc Preston: Yeah.

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The Jim Carrey is somebody

I would love to sit down.

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Yeah.

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He's, he's

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Virginia Gardner: fascinating.

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Yeah.

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Marc Preston: We did kind of

answer that question previously.

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I was like, if you chose something

besides matchbox 20, I would be like,

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really, from the time you get up to

the time, next question, uh, time

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you get up to the time you go to bed.

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For you would be the definition

of a perfect day, the component

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parts, the things that would

comprise that perfect day for you.

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Virginia Gardner: For me, a perfect day.

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I love exercising.

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Starting my day with exercise is something

that to me is like a luxury that, that

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I, I look forward to every single day.

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So it would have to be a gym session.

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Um, I love an ice bath, a little

bit of a three minute ice bath.

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Uh, and then.

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I would,

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Marc Preston: Oh gosh, I don't know if

you're, you're climbing these towers

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and in the ice bath, you're choosing two

things I think are the most unpleasant

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Virginia Gardner: wild behavior.

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Um,

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Marc Preston: but what, what do

you get out of the, well, I'm

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curious, the ice bath, what is it?

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Does it, does it make

you feel invigorated?

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What exactly does that do?

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Because I know people who like to do that.

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There's even these nitrogen things

you, Oh, I used to do that like

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Virginia Gardner: three times a week.

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I love those.

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Marc Preston: What is it you get?

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I'm curious.

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And I don't mean to sound reductive at

all, but what do you get out of that?

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Virginia Gardner: It's a little

bit of an adrenaline rush.

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I also, for me, my, I feel clear.

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I feel, uh, like my, any brain fog

or anything sort of dissipates.

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And it's, I don't know, your,

your body just feels a little

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bit like tighter and, and good.

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And it's great for recovery.

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If you're a little bit sore or

something, or, or, or if you're a

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little hung over, honestly, it's

like a great hangover cure as well.

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So it just kind of is a good reset to

me, a little body reset that I love.

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Marc Preston: I saw an

episode of Anthony Bourdain.

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I think it was, uh, I think

it was no reservations.

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He did that and they explain

what it does physiologically.

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It makes your body, I hear like friends up

north talking about how cold it's getting.

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I'm like, yeah, you can keep

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Virginia Gardner (2): that.

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You're

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Marc Preston: 54 degrees right now.

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And to me, this is freezing.

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Um, but You know, I

resisted a lot of times.

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If you think something's not

going to be cool, you go do it.

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Like, okay, you might actually

might like, yeah, yeah.

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Well, we'll, we'll, we'll think

I'll contemplate that actually.

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That sounds, but now

I'm thinking about it.

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Maybe that'll be a good, now, if you,

if you were looking, uh, you know, this

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is what you're doing for a living now.

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If this was not an option for you, where

do you think you'd find joy as another

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vocation besides doing this thing?

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Virginia Gardner: My answer has

always previously been therapy.

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I, like being a therapist, I'm

so fascinated by people and the

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study of people and, and having

conversations that I think that would

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just be a really fascinating career.

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So I, I would have to say that, or

also I've, I've really recently gotten

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into sort of home design and DIY and.

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Painting and constructing stuff and,

and sort of, um, trying to get a lot

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of housework stuff done by myself.

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And I'm really enjoying that process.

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So maybe something like that now.

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Marc Preston: I say the idea

of you doing the traveling

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cooking kind of like food thing.

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Yeah.

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That would be, I would love it.

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And by the way, I, you know, his travel

channel doesn't play those things anymore.

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It's all like haunted stuff.

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I'm like, I miss those shows.

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Like, you know, the travel type

stuff, because I'm like thinking

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that would be a great gig to have.

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Virginia Gardner (2): Yeah.

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Marc Preston: Um, I'll

keep my fingers crossed.

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Thanks.

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Do that one day.

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Uh, now the last question I got for you

is if you were to jump on that Delorean,

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go back in time to 16 year old you, what

piece of advice would you have for you?

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Uh, either to make that moment somehow

better or put yourself on a track, a

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path You know, a better path if you

will, but just what would that piece

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of advice be to 16 year old you?

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Virginia Gardner: I just think the advice

would be just trust in yourself and

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trust that, that what's meant to work

out will work out in that will, you know,

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whenever people come to me and say, do

you have any advice for young actors?

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I always hesitate to give this

advice, but, but it's truly.

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I think that the only reason that I've

really been able to sustain the career

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that I have is I've never had a plan B

and I never had a high school diploma.

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I didn't have a college degree.

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There was never anything that

I felt I could fall back on.

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And so many times.

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And when you're in this industry

in this line of work, you have

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your heart broken again and again.

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And I would have walked away

so many times if I had anything

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I could have fallen back on.

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But I had nothing other than

you have to make this work.

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And that's been a really valuable

thing for me as is not having

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anything to fall back on, but just

sticking with this and making it work.

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I think it helps with focus.

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Yes.

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Marc Preston: Don't don't that like,

you know, I've talked to so many

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people that said this is, I just.

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There are other things they're

passionate, they can see being a

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teacher or something like that.

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But as far as practically, they can't

see themselves doing anything else.

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And so some people may interpret

that as being hard headed.

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I just think it's just like, you

know, you're following your heart.

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You know, I think that's, I think

there's a wonderful Zen to that.

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Me too.

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I really just enjoyed,

uh, sitting down with you.

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I really appreciate you taking time out.

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I love, I love the, uh, little

like, you know, sun behind you

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makes you look almost holy.

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I'm backlit.

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I'm also sweating.

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Virginia Gardner: It's so

hot in this corner now.

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Marc Preston: It's great to meet

somebody else who has such a

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love of the, uh, nineties music.

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Nineties music and food.

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Yes, indeed.

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Well, do you have anything else

in the, uh, in the queue that's

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coming out anytime soon as well?

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Virginia Gardner: I do.

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I have a movie called the breed

apart, which is coming out.

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I think maybe in the next couple

of months, maybe like May, April

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of this year, um, which is a sequel

to a movie called The Breed that

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was released about 20 years ago.

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So it's a fun kind of re

imagining of that movie.

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And then I made a movie called

Killer Whale in Australia a few

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months ago, which is really fun and

that'll be out sometime this year.

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Marc Preston: Fantastic.

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Well, thank you.

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Thank you.

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Thank you.

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Uh, it's been a pleasure and I'm going to

go look up your, uh, the struts going to

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Virginia Gardner: check them out.

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Marc Preston: I wish you nothing but

the best and hopefully you'll have

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a chance to catch up down the line.

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Virginia Gardner: Awesome.

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Thank you, Marc.

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I appreciate it.

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Thanks for having me.

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Marc Preston: All right.

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There you go.

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Virginia or Jenny Gardner really

enjoyed the conversation again.

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The new movie is called F Mary kill.

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It is in theaters right now.

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She stars alongside Lucy Hale.

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Uh, and of course it was directed by

Laura Murphy, who was just on the show.

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A few days ago.

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Again, this is F Mary kill week

here on story and craft, apparently.

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So check it out.

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I really enjoy the movie.

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It's a great mix.

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Horror, comedy, good time.

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I think you'll enjoy it

in theaters right now.

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So check it out.

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Uh, I'm going to jump on out of here.

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It is Friday.

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That means the weekend is upon us.

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Uh, I got a puppy laying on the

floor right here who is, uh, been

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waiting for me to take him outside.

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So that's what we're up to right now.

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Uh, you go have a great weekend and

I want to thank you as always for

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Part of what you've got going on.

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For you.

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So we'll talk to you soon,

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