March 6, 2025

Ash Avildsen | Wrestling The Story

Ash Avildsen | Wrestling The Story
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Ash Avildsen | Wrestling The Story

On this episode of The Story & Craft Podcast, we sit down with director, Ash Avildsen who directed the new film “Queen of The Ring!”  We discuss the film’s thematic roots in pro wrestling history, particularly the story of Mildred Burke, an influential female wrestler from the 1930s to the 1950s. Ash shares his filmmaking process, including the challenges of casting and the collaborative nature of movie production. The discussion covers aspects of music in film and the evolution of the music industry.  Ash also reflects on his relationship with his father, director John Avildsen, and how it influences his work. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS01:31 The Making of 'Queen of the Ring'02:34 Ash's Love for Wrestling07:05 Challenges in Casting08:04 The Evolution of the Music Industry14:27 Growing Up with Famous Parents16:51 Transitioning from Music to Film19:45 The Collaborative Art of Filmmaking21:05 The Importance of Music in Film26:02 Cinema vs. Television28:14 The Theater Experience29:59 Convenience of Watching Movies on Phones30:52 Childhood Movie and TV Influences32:40 Directing Style and Influences34:06 Challenges of Filming Wrestling Scenes42:38 Personal Life and Hobbies45:04 The Seven QuestionsListen and subscribe on your favorite podcast app.  Also, check out the show and sign up for the newsletter at  www.storyandcraftpod.com...#podcast #AshAvildsen #QueenOfTheRing #EmilyBettRickards #JoshLucas #Director #Directing #storyandcraft #Wrestling #ProWrestling #MildredBurke #SumerianRecords #SumerianRecords #JohnAvildsen #KarateKid

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Ash Avildsen:

I find myself calling the front desk.

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Can you bring me the real remote?

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I try to explain to them

why I need the real remote.

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The maintenance guy comes

other times, no one's working.

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So I'm just like, I'm just going to

play it on my computer or my phone.

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Announcer: Welcome to story and craft.

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Now here's your host, Marc Preston.

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Marc Preston: All right, here we go.

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Another episode of story and craft.

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Welcome back.

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Good to have you.

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I'm Marc Preston.

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If this is your first episode,

welcome, glad to have you along.

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Uh, today sitting down with director

Ash Avildsen, uh, now he's not only

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a director, he has a record label.

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He's a kind of a Renaissance

guy doing a lot of different

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things, but a new film out.

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His first big one.

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It is called queen of the ring.

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Uh, it is out today, Friday, March 7th.

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It's with Emily Bette Rickards.

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Also Josh Lucas, Martin Cove,

who is in Cobra Kai, as well as

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the original Karate Kid movies.

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Which is kind of cool because Ash's

father, John Avildsen, who was also a very

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well known director, directed the Karate

Kid movies as well as the Rocky movies.

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Lean on me and a whole lot more.

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Great conversation.

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Enjoyed sitting down with Ash.

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All right.

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So, uh, tell you what, let's

jump right into it today.

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Ash Avildsen day right

here on story and craft.

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So, uh, where are you

joining me from today?

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Ash Avildsen: I am at the

Santa Monica Proper Hotel.

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Marc Preston: How did you

fare during the fires?

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Ash Avildsen: I was out of town.

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Uh, my home here is for sale.

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So I didn't really, uh, very fortunate.

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It didn't really affect me at all.

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Um, I wasn't here for any of it.

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Marc Preston: But yeah,

that's good to hear.

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You're okay though.

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So glad we had a chance to connect it.

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You know, I was checking out your

stuff and kind of seeing your,

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your sort of a, I don't want to say

renaissance guy, but you've kind of,

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you've, you've, you've done more than

just dabble in a few things here.

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Is this the first big kind of release,

uh, you know, queen of the ring, is

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this the kind of the first big one?

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No, you've done some other

projects, but is this kind of,

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Ash Avildsen: This is

the first big one for

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Marc Preston: sure.

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You got a great cast and I've seen the

previews, it all looks just fantastic.

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But I got to know how this even got

to you, this project, uh, was this

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something that, you know, you'd kind

of been tied in with, let's say,

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the writer or did they come to you?

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How did this come together for you?

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Ash Avildsen: Oh, I've always been a

big fan of pro wrestling and I wanted

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to make a fictional Story that was

kind of like a love letter to all my

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favorite, um, stories from the eighties.

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And I felt that there wasn't really

a, um, I felt like at the time there

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wasn't that movie that took place in

the world of pro wrestling that had a

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great, you know, inspirational ending.

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Uh, I loved the wrestler by Aronofsky,

but that's obviously about, Oh yeah.

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So I called Jim Ross, who, uh, is

a legendary WWE executive and hall

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of famer and commentator and asked

if he'd, he'd work on developing

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it with me because he's lived it.

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I want it to be as, um,

as authentic as possible.

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And he said, sure.

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By the way, have you ever

heard of Mildred Burke?

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And I said, no, who's that?

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He said, you should check out

this book, Queen of the Ring.

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So that weekend I read the

Queen of the Ring book.

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I found out all about Mildred Burke.

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I got, I became completely enchanted.

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with her story and I called him back

Monday morning and I said, forget

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about the eighties fictional thing.

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We have to tell this woman's story.

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This is incredible.

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And uh, and I was, you know, I was,

I was both upset and sad that, um,

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I didn't know who Mildred Burke

was, nor did any of my friends who

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were also big pro wrestling fans.

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We just had never heard.

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Her story or heard of her at all.

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So, uh, like what,

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Marc Preston: what era was

she wrestling in though?

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Because, uh, looking at the previews,

this is going back sixties, fifties ish.

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Is that about right?

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Ash Avildsen: Thirties to fifties, yeah.

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Marc Preston: Oh, okay.

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Ash Avildsen: Mid thirties to mid fifties.

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Marc Preston: Yeah.

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'cause the, you know, when I was

growing up, I, I wasn't really big into

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wrestling, but wrestling was sort of kind.

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omnipresent growing up in

Dallas and the von eric family.

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And that was, you know, it was, you

know, because there wasn't time and

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they were, they were doing like pizza

hut commercials, you know, they were

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like, it was, it was mainstream enough.

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And so everybody knew who they were,

you know, just even if you weren't

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necessarily into it, but what kind

of grabbed you about wrestling?

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Ash Avildsen: I, I was just so entertained

by it, you know, uh, as a little kid,

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I got into it at a very young age and

I just found it wildly entertaining

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the characters and the personas

and all of the drama and theatrics.

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And I just fell in love with the world.

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I found it very, very entertaining,

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Marc Preston: you know, even

watching the, uh, uh, What was it?

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I iron claw was at the movie with about

about the von Erichs and you look at it,

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it was, it was, it felt like a little

bit, it just kind of felt different.

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It felt kind of like a little bit

of the wild West, a little bit,

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you know, like I said, being in

Dallas, it was kind of mainstream.

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We, I mean, we knew what it was all about,

but, and then you kind of came into the

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WWE and there's a big spectacles and,

uh, you know, it just seemed like it

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really grew and just kind of ballooned.

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Was wrestling a big thing back in the day

or was it if you knew about it, you knew

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about it You know going back to when you

know the era that the movie takes place in

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Ash Avildsen: uh, it became

a big deal for women.

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Um, Mainly because mildred burke

broke through and became a superstar

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The men's side didn't really explode

into big pop culture until a gorgeous

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georgian age of television Gorgeous

George is actually credited with

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selling a massive amount of TVs.

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They were even calling him Georgie

boxes because back in the fifties,

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people were just so entertained by him.

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Um, and he does play a part in in

the film and in Mildred story and was

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in the book, The Queen of the Ring.

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Um, but the men were definitely drawing

tickets and they were drawing more

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tickets up until Uh, when Mildred broke

and once Mildred really broke through,

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she started headlining over men.

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She was, uh, you know, the

first woman to do that in this

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world of sports entertainment,

to actually headline over men.

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Um, but it was definitely bad.

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I mean, they were selling out arenas.

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Uh, she was, we didn't go into

so much of her international.

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Um, impact in, in, in the film, but yeah,

she became an international superstar.

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And at the time she was the highest

paid female athlete in the world.

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And I believe the first ever female

athlete to make a million dollars.

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And it was really the first to

do combat sports and become, you

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know, a household name at the time.

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But because The peak of her career was

prior to the television era of wrestling.

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She's been very forgotten about.

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Um, I grew up knowing Mae Young and the

fabulous Moolah cause they were still

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in WWE and in their older years, but

Mildred was, was never part of that.

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So she's, she was really

forgotten about by most.

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Marc Preston: The casting, like with,

uh, Emily, but, uh, uh, Rickards

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and, um, Josh Lucas was casting, did

you kind of know where you wanted

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to go with it or now you've got this

story, you've got a screenplay like.

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Was it a challenge to find just

the right folks or did you kind

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of land on them pretty quick?

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Ash Avildsen: It was a challenge.

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I mean, first and foremost, it was

a challenge just because it's an

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ambitious film for an independent

production and I'm not a name director.

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So, you know, getting, getting name

actors in roles, uh, is very hard.

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Um, but we were fortunate to get Emily

and Josh and they, they were terrific.

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We're really fortunate to get

Walton, uh, God, this is Jack.

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But, uh, yeah, it was definitely,

it was definitely a challenge.

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I mean, it's just hard.

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Indie film, unless you have a really

big studio or a big, you know,

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named director on a project like

this, um, you know, getting very

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recognizable actors who are having

good, you know, runs in their career.

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It's tough.

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It's not easy.

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Marc Preston: you know, just kind of

hit rewind a little bit of, uh, uh, you

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know, your musician, you have the record

label, which I'm kind of fascinated by,

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you know, the whole record label thing,

because I came up, uh, in radio, uh,

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for many years and I was in my thirties,

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Ash Avildsen: you got the radio voice.

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Marc Preston: Yeah.

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I've been accused of that once or twice.

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Um, it's been kind of a tectonic

shift in the way things are done.

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Like I look at my kids, you

know, they're, you know, 19.

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How old are my kids?

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19, 20, 21, and how they

discover music is different now.

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They got Spotify at well, primarily,

but I guess like when we were coming

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up, you discovered music on the radio.

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You know, some people just hung out like

a, you know, what we have it like growing

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up in sound warehouse, you know, and all

the different music stores just go hang

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out there and, you know, see what's up.

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How do you define, uh, right now,

how the music industry is shifting?

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Because I wonder how record

labels pull it together.

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Ash Avildsen: Yeah.

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Well, it's never been easier to discover

new music because there's no longer

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really like gatekeepers of distribution.

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Anyone can, you know, uh, record a

song and get it on Spotify and Apple.

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Uh, And all of those places, but

there's also so much music that comes

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out every week that it's, it's an

incredible amount of new music weekly.

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So, uh, there's more competition

and more, you know, noise, if

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you will, to break through.

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So that's kind of like the double edged

sword of the digital era, but, uh,

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yeah, you know, there's no, there's no.

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There's no magic formula, you know,

um, everything plays a part, uh, uh,

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whether, you know, you, you tour music

videos, social media, radio, word of

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mouth, if, if the internet just kind of

embraces you, if you, if you just kind of.

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Click into what's happening

week to week with culture, but

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there's no, there's no magic wand.

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Um, and you know, most of the artists

that end up having real careers that

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sustain it's a combination of all of it.

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You know, it's playing live.

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It's touring.

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It's press.

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It's music videos.

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It is play listing, which is

kind of a new form of radio.

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Um, yeah.

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Uh, it's all of it.

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You know, there's no, no, when you say

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Marc Preston: playlist thing, is that

like notable folks put out, Hey, this

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is my playlist to what I'm listening to.

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Uh, is that kind of what

you mean by playlisting?

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There are like, you know, human.

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Ash Avildsen: Well, there, there,

there's like, I don't want to call it

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an influencer, but there are playlists

that have like a face to them, like a,

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like a, like a human, like an ambassador.

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Um, but a lot of the big playlists

on Spotify, you don't really

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know who's running it, but,

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Marc Preston: Oh, Oh, I

see what you're saying.

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Yeah.

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You're like, if you're looking for

like EDM, like a specific genre

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or something like that, somebody

is curating that to some degree.

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Ash Avildsen: Fridays and things that are

very like week to week, but yeah, there's

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a lot, you know, Um, depending on the

genre or sub genre that you're listening

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to, you're looking for the playlists help,

but, um, playlists don't break artists.

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You know, the only thing that really

breaks an artist is that people

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just falling in love with them.

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Marc Preston: Yeah, that's

what happened with my daughter.

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And, uh, I'm forgetting the country

artist name, but he, you know, there's

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some folks who just like, especially

during COVID, we're just cranking out

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videos, YouTube or, uh, like Instagram.

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And the next thing, you know, they've got

a bazillion downloads and a record deal.

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You know, coming up in radio, it was,

it was kind of, in a way, kind of fun.

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It was a little different because you

always have the, the, the folks coming

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from record label, Hey, let's take you

out to a really expensive dinner and

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let's, you know, it was always them

schmoozing the DJs, which the DJs rarely

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had any input on it was really music

director and program director, you know.

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But there was always this kind of

relationship and everybody knew

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who the record label folks were.

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And is it still, do you still

have to work radio kind of the

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same way you did back in the day?

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Or is it just a small piece

of what you're doing now?

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Ash Avildsen: I wasn't around, you know,

I started my label in 2006 and I, I was in

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a band that was signed to a label in 2004.

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So I was, I was all on this side

of the two thousands prior to that.

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There was a lot of like payola, um, which,

you know, they made illegal, which is

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basically, you know, the labels were like

buying their way onto the radio stations

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and bribing people and all of that.

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So that I've never experienced

that I've been a part of that.

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Um, thankfully it's changed and

it's more based on, on merit now,

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but there's still a lot of, um, you

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a lot of it's just how a song does

once it comes out and how people are

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Marc Preston: reacting to it.

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And if my kids don't buy albums, I'm just,

it's the whole, like, even how you make

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money in the music business seems to be.

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The whole different dynamic because

they'll just kick on Spotify when

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you were coming up as a young guy.

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What were you listening to?

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What was, uh, what was your jam?

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Ash Avildsen: I always gravitated towards

rock and alternative music at a young age.

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So, um, it was, I mean, I loved a

lot of the classic rock, even when

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I was a kid, Zeppelin and the doors.

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I was born in 81.

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So really I was like, as a young

kid, like even before puberty, it was

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guns at roses and metallic skid row.

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I loved, um, the first sandwich

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Marc Preston: right in there.

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You're right on the cusp.

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You're like right in between

Gen X and kind of millennial.

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Bureau, what they call

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Ash Avildsen: I mean, I feel like I'm very

grateful to have experienced the eighties

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and the nineties prior to everything

becoming cell phones and like the early,

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early days of the internet with internet

relay chat, IRC and BBS and all that.

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And that even like growing up without

a remote control for a television to

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now like, you know, having an iPhone.

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And so I, I, I'm fortunate,

um, in, in the time.

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That I've lived in the different decades.

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Um, and then, and you know, it

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I loved alternative rock.

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Uh, man, the eighties and nineties

were just, there was just so much

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great music, but I really just found,

and I just got into it going to

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like Tower Records and Sam Goody and

reading the magazines, watching MTV.

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Marc Preston: Oh

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Ash Avildsen: yeah.

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Marc Preston: Yeah.

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Did you grow up in the LA area?

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Ash Avildsen: No, I grew up.

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I was born here.

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I lived here.

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So I was about.

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I grew up in D. C. Maryland in Virginia.

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Marc Preston: You know, your

dad, of course, director.

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But what did your mom, what was she up to?

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Ash Avildsen: My mom was a model.

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She was part of the Art Deco kind

of, you know, this, uh, specific

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gypsy look her and her sister did.

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So she was, uh, quite a successful model.

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1969 London, that

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Marc Preston: whole scene.

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So.

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She was doing that, but you, how

was that growing up with a mother?

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Who was a model?

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It was like 35 when

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Ash Avildsen: she had me.

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So she wasn't actively still modeling, you

know, he was already into her forties, but

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she was like running, um, modeling agent.

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She had like a modeling business.

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I vaguely remember.

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And she was still doing like.

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So like, you know, things that models

at that age would, would do like some

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wedding books and things, but it wasn't

like when she was in her twenties, you

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know, going around with her sister and all

the big, you know, events and all that.

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Marc Preston: as far as.

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Your dad directing, how aware of his

work were you when you were younger?

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Ash Avildsen: It was, uh, you

know, it's, it was a challenging,

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uh, situation because I knew who

he was and I had his last name.

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He was not in my life,

but I did love his movies.

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Um, and karate kid, you know, when I

was in elementary school, it was like

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one of the biggest things in America.

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So it was constantly around

and I loved lean on me as well.

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Um, so I, I loved his work,

but I didn't know him.

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So it was, it was a head fuck, you know?

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Um, yeah, no, no easy way to describe.

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Marc Preston: So you kind of made a

connection a little bit later on, but

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how old were you when you kind of, kind

of dialed into in your thirties, which

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you've got a lot of miles into your wheels

by the time you get into your thirties,

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what was, um, what were you curious about?

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What were you, you know, as you're

developing, I don't mean necessarily the

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relationship as much, but maybe were, were

you looking at things like professionally,

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were you curious about what he had done?

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You had that bug that maybe it was

taking you in the direction that.

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That he had gone.

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Ash Avildsen: I always loved storytelling.

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I mean, I loved film and I loved music.

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I just decided to focus on music

first because, uh, well, one, I

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was growing up on the East Coast.

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So it's not like, uh, at the time, at

least not in DC, Virginia, there was,

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there was a movie business, but I just

had music and I started playing in a

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band in high school with my best friends.

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And then I just really, um, you know,

fully, fully committed to, to, you know,

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Music in general, um, and I didn't I

didn't focus on film until I was older

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and I had established myself at a certain

level on the music business and had

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a level of success and freedom that I

could then diversify into film without.

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Kind of risking my whole,

uh, everything to try.

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Cause it's obviously very,

very difficult business.

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Um, a lot of people in it and not a

lot of seats at the table, so to speak.

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So, uh, and I also didn't want people

to think that I was in any way trying

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to like cash in on my last name or

emulating my father or misconstrue.

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type of nepotism or something, because

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obviously that was not the case at all.

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I didn't even know him.

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Um, but yeah, I just naturally

gravitated towards music and then,

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um, crossed over into the movie world.

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And there's definitely a lot of

similarities between the two businesses.

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That's for sure.

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Marc Preston: I think by the time you

get into your thirties, you've kind

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of built a foundation for like who it

is you are, you know, more or less.

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And so that, that point it's,

you know, whatever creatively

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that's already flowing.

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You know, were you big into picking your

dad's brain on on directing and style

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and technique and all that kind of stuff?

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Or were you just kind of osmotically

just picking up on things?

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Ash Avildsen: Once we became,

you know, great friends.

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I loved, I loved learning from him

and talking to him and hearing stories

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and getting his perspective and his,

you know, taste and, um, yeah, it

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was, it was really beautiful that the

time we got to share together and I

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definitely learned a lot from him and,

uh, I'm, I'm very grateful for that.

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Marc Preston: Have you had an opportunity

to work with, uh, any of the, let's

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say, cinematographers, sound, any of the

people that maybe had a chance to work

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with him on sets, have you been able

to kind of tap into that for, uh, this

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project or anything else you've worked on?

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Ash Avildsen: Just with an actor,

uh, Marty Kove, who's in Queen of the

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Ring, who was, you know Okay, yeah.

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for his role in the Karate

Kid and now in Cobra Kai.

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actor to my knowledge that has

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worked with both me and my dad.

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Um, but Marty's been fantastic.

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He's, he's a really great guy.

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I, I, uh, puts me in the best mood

when I'm hanging out with him.

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Just totally lovely.

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I can't say enough good

things about Marty Kove.

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Marc Preston: Yeah, it's kind of cool

to see him show back up in Cobra Kai.

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Uh, it's something I usually

was watching with the kids,

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but now they're off at college.

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So I guess, you know, whenever

they get back into town and we kind

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of catch up on all of his shows.

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Just looking at the preview of the movie,

did you come in with an idea of kind of

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how you wanted the, the, the, the tone,

the feeling, the vibe of the movie?

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Did you already know where you wanted to

go with, uh, with it when you started off?

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Or was this more of a, just kind

of feel your way through it?

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Ash Avildsen: You, you should always have

some type of idea of, of what you want

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to create before you start creating it.

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You've obviously learned so much

on the day and all that, but, uh,

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you know, a big part of it also

is like all my department heads.

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that were brilliant in, in, in

the worlds that they were in, the

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production designer, cinematographer,

of course, I'm very grateful to work

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with Andy Stran, um, you know, hair

and makeup, costume and all, they all

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are just build the world together.

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I mean, it's such a, it's one

thing I really, I just love so

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much about, uh, filmmaking is

that it's such a collaborative

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team sport, you know, that's just.

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Everyone is doing their part music,

you know, you have the producer

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and then you have the band members.

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It's it's a much smaller Um, creative

process, which is still a lot of fun

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as well, but, um, the filmmaking, it's

just so wonderful where there's so

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many different departments and so many

moving pieces and everyone is just

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collaborating, working towards this common

goal to, uh, you know, to tell a story.

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through pictures.

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Uh, and uh, it's, it's really

just a very gratifying experience.

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Marc Preston: Given that you had the music

background, did you get involved at all

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in the, uh, in the scoring of the movie

or just kind of leave that up to your guy?

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Ash Avildsen: Very, very deeply.

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Aaron, who's brilliant, he's

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written the original score.

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I give course feedback and notes and

You know, um, direction on, on where

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we wanted to go and how we wanted to

feel, uh, and then for the original

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mute or for the, like the songs in it.

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All the needle drops.

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That's all me.

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That's all my, you know, just kind of

taste and, um, what I think is going to

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be best for each scene and each character.

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Um, but the original score is,

uh, Aaron Gilhouse, who's just,

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uh, he's been, um, so wonderful.

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He's really a gem.

432

00:21:41,340 --> 00:21:42,760

I think he's gonna have a

big career ahead of him.

433

00:21:43,740 --> 00:21:46,340

Marc Preston: So given it takes place

in the thirties, were you staying

434

00:21:46,340 --> 00:21:47,860

true to kind of the era of music?

435

00:21:47,890 --> 00:21:50,290

Or did you kind of play with music at all?

436

00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:54,030

Maybe put some contemporary

side tracks in there.

437

00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:55,650

Ash Avildsen: Yeah, to a degree.

438

00:21:55,700 --> 00:22:00,740

Um, you know, the nice thing about

doing a story that not everyone knows

439

00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:05,120

so specifically, because most people

don't know this story is that you can

440

00:22:05,120 --> 00:22:07,879

take a lot more creative liberties

with how you tell it, you know,

441

00:22:07,879 --> 00:22:13,445

combining characters Um, just, you know,

creative license on certain moments,

442

00:22:13,445 --> 00:22:16,035

but on musically, I didn't want to.

443

00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,400

I didn't want it to be like,

okay, right now we're in 1952.

444

00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:25,050

So we have to play a song

that's between 50 and 52.

445

00:22:25,100 --> 00:22:29,760

I definitely just, I stuck to the decade

for a lot of it, not for all of it.

446

00:22:29,790 --> 00:22:33,399

There is some modern artists in

it that still have a vintage.

447

00:22:34,315 --> 00:22:38,665

Feel to their sound, but it's modern

production and, and modern recordings.

448

00:22:38,695 --> 00:22:42,325

Um, but there's a lot of period music in

it as well from the forties and fifties.

449

00:22:42,715 --> 00:22:46,645

But I didn't do it, um,

very specific to the year.

450

00:22:46,645 --> 00:22:50,185

I just did it more for the feeling I,

there was too many, frankly, there's

451

00:22:50,185 --> 00:22:52,575

just a lot of great music that came out.

452

00:22:53,195 --> 00:22:57,198

you know, slightly after the movie ends.

453

00:22:57,198 --> 00:23:07,144

So I defi the timeline a bit, but un

uh, forties and fifties m I don't think

454

00:23:07,144 --> 00:23:13,540

most people You know, it's not like

you're, you're watching a, a 1960s,

455

00:23:13,620 --> 00:23:18,410

uh, period and all of a sudden Nirvana

starts playing like, what is that?

456

00:23:18,410 --> 00:23:19,450

You know, there's nothing like that.

457

00:23:19,459 --> 00:23:21,120

That's not polarizing at all.

458

00:23:21,170 --> 00:23:25,039

At least in my opinion, in my opinion,

it, all the music and it blends

459

00:23:25,039 --> 00:23:26,660

well with the scene that it plays.

460

00:23:27,230 --> 00:23:29,650

Marc Preston: For your record label,

what kind of music or genre do you

461

00:23:29,660 --> 00:23:33,120

have a specific focus or do you

kind of play with different genres?

462

00:23:33,470 --> 00:23:35,230

in terms of who you'd

like to have on the label.

463

00:23:35,300 --> 00:23:37,629

Ash Avildsen: I mean, the core of

it is, I call it, you know, all the

464

00:23:37,629 --> 00:23:41,270

different colors of the rock and roll

rainbow, but it's, it's rock music,

465

00:23:41,270 --> 00:23:47,859

it's alternative, it's metal, it's

emo, hardcore, prog, um, but it's

466

00:23:47,870 --> 00:23:50,629

predominantly, yeah, all these different

kind of flavors of rock and roll.

467

00:23:51,649 --> 00:23:53,960

Marc Preston: Yeah, one of the,

the, you know, the people that I

468

00:23:54,060 --> 00:23:56,700

kind of came up with in the 90s

working in radio, a lot of them, uh,

469

00:23:56,899 --> 00:23:58,050

for those who don't work in radio.

470

00:23:58,380 --> 00:24:01,500

Even some who still are, they're

like, Oh yeah, rock and roll's dead.

471

00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:02,390

Oh man, it's dying.

472

00:24:02,390 --> 00:24:04,680

And there's the sounding that alarm.

473

00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,170

It seems like every few years always has a

way of coming back, you know, traditional,

474

00:24:08,180 --> 00:24:10,760

like rock and roll the way we perceive it.

475

00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,760

But as a music guy, what

do you think is kind of.

476

00:24:14,095 --> 00:24:17,365

Emerging now, is it like a, uh, a

genre or something that you think

477

00:24:17,365 --> 00:24:20,995

is going to be as far as genre

goes or style or whatever have you

478

00:24:21,545 --> 00:24:24,785

Ash Avildsen: People really like,

um, hybrids and, and juxtaposition.

479

00:24:24,785 --> 00:24:28,025

Mm-hmm . For the combination

of different genres being put

480

00:24:28,025 --> 00:24:32,030

together, I think is still very

popular and that's always evolving.

481

00:24:33,690 --> 00:24:34,030

I think that's

482

00:24:34,030 --> 00:24:35,170

Marc Preston: happening in country music

483

00:24:35,210 --> 00:24:37,210

Ash Avildsen: a bit

where it's, it's, yeah,

484

00:24:37,250 --> 00:24:37,620

Marc Preston: yeah.

485

00:24:38,460 --> 00:24:41,530

Ash Avildsen: There's a lot of fusion

and crossover happening in country.

486

00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:42,479

Uh, yeah.

487

00:24:42,479 --> 00:24:45,430

Modern countries really just

popped into pop culture.

488

00:24:45,430 --> 00:24:46,819

Like it's never has before.

489

00:24:46,820 --> 00:24:50,499

In my opinion, I never found myself

listening to much, much country,

490

00:24:50,500 --> 00:24:54,359

but nowadays it's become so much

more just inventive and fresh.

491

00:24:54,935 --> 00:24:58,335

that, uh, that I actually

do really enjoy a lot of it.

492

00:24:58,365 --> 00:25:01,774

And then it makes me go back and

listen to some of the classic era

493

00:25:01,784 --> 00:25:05,324

stuff and like outlaw country and

things that I didn't really know.

494

00:25:05,324 --> 00:25:09,524

Actually, I'm liking a lot of this

classic, you know, the classic rock of

495

00:25:09,524 --> 00:25:13,555

country, but, uh, the modern stuff is

what kind of, you know, was the gateway

496

00:25:13,555 --> 00:25:17,185

drug into it, but yeah, that's definitely

a genre that's really reinvented itself.

497

00:25:17,655 --> 00:25:18,155

Marc Preston: Yeah, it's funny.

498

00:25:18,155 --> 00:25:21,854

I know a guy who runs a radio network

out of Nashville and he was telling

499

00:25:21,854 --> 00:25:26,474

me that what's popular right now with

my kids age, you know, Gen Z kids,

500

00:25:26,475 --> 00:25:29,445

there's a lot of the 90s country, you

know, the Brooks and Dunn and all that.

501

00:25:29,445 --> 00:25:32,975

And it is crazy because I

remember my daughter, I think

502

00:25:33,004 --> 00:25:34,754

Neon Moon was on in the car.

503

00:25:35,175 --> 00:25:36,534

And so she just starts singing.

504

00:25:36,534 --> 00:25:37,945

I'm like, how the hell

do you know this song?

505

00:25:37,985 --> 00:25:38,835

She's like TikTok.

506

00:25:38,935 --> 00:25:41,254

So the discovery of music, we

were talking about that before.

507

00:25:42,055 --> 00:25:45,125

The things you never would have

thought like, okay, there's this whole

508

00:25:45,135 --> 00:25:48,725

genre that these kids are discovering

through some random channel, you

509

00:25:48,725 --> 00:25:52,545

know, going back to the film of

the filmmaking is you're coming in.

510

00:25:52,545 --> 00:25:57,275

Did you say I want to do film like

theatrical release or were you like a TV

511

00:25:57,275 --> 00:26:01,285

school or did you have or do you have any

preference on what you like to work on?

512

00:26:02,024 --> 00:26:06,004

Ash Avildsen: You know, I mean, the

one thing it's the thing that's great

513

00:26:06,004 --> 00:26:07,695

about TV is that you get to keep it.

514

00:26:07,695 --> 00:26:07,704

Yeah.

515

00:26:08,524 --> 00:26:10,845

expanding the story and the characters.

516

00:26:11,245 --> 00:26:18,155

Um, and TV is, is, you know, you're

essentially asking questions to create

517

00:26:18,155 --> 00:26:19,955

more and more episodes and seasons.

518

00:26:20,345 --> 00:26:24,104

And then with film, you're supposed to

answer all the questions by the end.

519

00:26:24,195 --> 00:26:26,464

Um, so it really.

520

00:26:27,020 --> 00:26:31,310

You know, it's kind of two different

directions of current flowing of, of

521

00:26:31,650 --> 00:26:34,950

storytelling, but they're both great.

522

00:26:34,950 --> 00:26:36,740

I mean, it's like apple pie,

cherry pie or something.

523

00:26:36,750 --> 00:26:41,929

They're, they're both great, but, um,

film obviously is exciting because

524

00:26:42,050 --> 00:26:46,880

it plays in movie theaters and it,

uh, you know, you have to tell.

525

00:26:47,295 --> 00:26:51,425

For most movies anyway, like within

two hours ish, give or take, you

526

00:26:51,425 --> 00:26:54,415

need to like have a beginning,

middle, and end to the story.

527

00:26:54,865 --> 00:27:00,674

Um, television, you have, you know,

the creative liberty to just keep

528

00:27:00,675 --> 00:27:02,714

going and going if people like it.

529

00:27:03,384 --> 00:27:10,885

So, I love them both, um, but making

an independent film is a bit more, um,

530

00:27:11,655 --> 00:27:17,915

psychologically like, you know, easier

because you're like, okay, it's done.

531

00:27:18,490 --> 00:27:24,670

Towards television, uh, you got, you

know, you, it's just a lot more, but

532

00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,510

at the same time, you can bring on

different directors and writers, of

533

00:27:27,510 --> 00:27:32,259

course, and it becomes more of a, you

know, a writing team, showrunners, all

534

00:27:32,259 --> 00:27:36,879

that, um, but I love them both, but I

think right now, and this is thanks to

535

00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:42,135

things like Letterboxd, there is, I think

like a resurgence happening with young

536

00:27:42,135 --> 00:27:46,865

people being excited about cinema and

going to the movies and watching a lot

537

00:27:46,865 --> 00:27:51,694

of movies, you know, writing reviews,

critiquing, having a conversation with

538

00:27:51,694 --> 00:27:55,844

people online and offline and, and just,

you know, going into a dark room for two

539

00:27:55,844 --> 00:27:59,974

hours and escaping, you know, our daily

lives, um, which was kind of lost for

540

00:27:59,975 --> 00:28:04,715

for a while between the Netflix era, then

COVID and everyone being on the couch.

541

00:28:04,715 --> 00:28:07,065

I think now there's this kind

of renewed sense of excitement

542

00:28:07,065 --> 00:28:07,695

to go out to the movie.

543

00:28:09,195 --> 00:28:10,785

Marc Preston: But I think there

is something kind of cool.

544

00:28:10,785 --> 00:28:13,265

Like if you want to see the movie

now, you got to get to a theater,

545

00:28:13,335 --> 00:28:14,885

you know, you got to go see it.

546

00:28:14,915 --> 00:28:19,814

Um, and I imagine that this, you know,

especially the fight sequence or the

547

00:28:19,815 --> 00:28:23,165

wrestling sequences, those probably

are just meant for a bigger screen.

548

00:28:23,275 --> 00:28:23,865

Ash Avildsen: They are.

549

00:28:23,895 --> 00:28:24,585

I mean, it's a much

550

00:28:24,585 --> 00:28:25,455

Marc Preston: different experience.

551

00:28:25,455 --> 00:28:28,935

Ash Avildsen: I don't, for, for

most, I mean, for any film, I think

552

00:28:28,935 --> 00:28:30,065

it's a much different experience.

553

00:28:30,955 --> 00:28:36,814

And it really is for films that

were specifically put together to be

554

00:28:36,814 --> 00:28:38,604

played in a theater, which this is.

555

00:28:38,604 --> 00:28:42,394

I mean, there's no comparison

seeing it on a screen like that.

556

00:28:42,425 --> 00:28:44,784

Then, you know, watching

it on your laptop or.

557

00:28:45,274 --> 00:28:47,415

You know, on a normal television.

558

00:28:47,465 --> 00:28:51,955

Um, there's just, you can't, you

know, you can't really compare it.

559

00:28:51,985 --> 00:28:53,825

It's just not really comparable

560

00:28:53,855 --> 00:28:55,435

Marc Preston: because you

know, one's a movie theater.

561

00:28:55,515 --> 00:28:56,475

The other one's a living room.

562

00:28:56,925 --> 00:28:57,084

Yeah.

563

00:28:57,084 --> 00:28:59,595

My kid, well, my kids generation, some

of them watch movies on their phone.

564

00:28:59,615 --> 00:29:00,905

I'm like, I can't do that.

565

00:29:01,595 --> 00:29:03,644

Some kids will sit there and just

watch a whole movie on their phone.

566

00:29:03,644 --> 00:29:06,655

And I got to, I don't know, maybe,

uh, I mean, I don't know if this is

567

00:29:06,655 --> 00:29:09,125

a sign of age or, so I don't know.

568

00:29:09,125 --> 00:29:10,074

I just can't do that.

569

00:29:10,514 --> 00:29:12,875

Ash Avildsen: There's certain

movies that if I'm like.

570

00:29:13,219 --> 00:29:20,100

you know, actually funny movies on

my phone someti because the hotel

571

00:29:20,460 --> 00:29:23,670

televis on my laptop, the hotel T

572

00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,500

remote to it.

573

00:29:26,510 --> 00:29:28,310

So you can't turn off these settings.

574

00:29:28,310 --> 00:29:29,840

It's called the soap opera effect.

575

00:29:30,050 --> 00:29:31,040

It drives me insane.

576

00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:36,499

But most of these new TVs have a factory

setting that's good for like reality

577

00:29:36,499 --> 00:29:40,769

tv or live sports or news, but it's

terrible for scripted entertainment

578

00:29:40,770 --> 00:29:42,289

because of the interpolation.

579

00:29:42,300 --> 00:29:46,640

So it essentially makes everything

look like it was, it's a soap opera.

580

00:29:47,185 --> 00:29:47,725

Marc Preston: Oh, yeah.

581

00:29:47,725 --> 00:29:47,965

Yeah.

582

00:29:47,965 --> 00:29:48,744

Yeah.

583

00:29:48,745 --> 00:29:51,345

Ash Avildsen: Well, he's the

look of a movie or a script.

584

00:29:51,925 --> 00:29:52,075

Exactly

585

00:29:52,075 --> 00:29:52,485

Marc Preston: what you mean.

586

00:29:52,485 --> 00:29:52,865

Yeah.

587

00:29:53,075 --> 00:29:55,895

Ash Avildsen: And I find

myself calling the front desk.

588

00:29:55,925 --> 00:29:57,255

Can you bring me the real remote?

589

00:29:57,255 --> 00:29:59,255

I try to explain to them

why I need the real remote.

590

00:29:59,305 --> 00:30:01,244

The maintenance guy comes other times.

591

00:30:01,244 --> 00:30:01,954

No one's working.

592

00:30:01,954 --> 00:30:02,704

So I'm just like, fuck it.

593

00:30:02,704 --> 00:30:04,485

I'm just going to play it

on my computer or my phone.

594

00:30:05,045 --> 00:30:06,065

For that reason.

595

00:30:06,125 --> 00:30:10,335

Um, but I think a lot, I think

a lot of young people or just

596

00:30:10,335 --> 00:30:12,465

people in general that, that do

watch movies on their phones.

597

00:30:12,465 --> 00:30:14,355

I think it's just out of convenience.

598

00:30:14,355 --> 00:30:15,465

If they don't, if they're

laying Yeah, I think so.

599

00:30:15,705 --> 00:30:20,655

In bed and, you know, um, but with that

said, and look, so I, I never really

600

00:30:20,655 --> 00:30:22,215

got into watching movies on the plane.

601

00:30:22,215 --> 00:30:24,375

I'd rather like, kind of

like work on my computer.

602

00:30:24,435 --> 00:30:24,735

Um.

603

00:30:25,455 --> 00:30:29,415

But I get it because it helps pass

the time and sometimes you're like,

604

00:30:29,415 --> 00:30:31,225

Oh, I'm not going to be distracted.

605

00:30:31,475 --> 00:30:32,695

I'm just going to watch it on the plane.

606

00:30:32,695 --> 00:30:37,225

But you know, anytime you can go

into a world and, and, and see a

607

00:30:37,225 --> 00:30:41,084

story, like just do it with phone

plane, it's better than not at all.

608

00:30:42,615 --> 00:30:42,885

Yeah,

609

00:30:43,205 --> 00:30:46,975

Marc Preston: whatever I travel, I always,

uh, we bring our Roku stick, you know,

610

00:30:46,975 --> 00:30:49,905

and just plop that into the TV so we

can watch whatever, you know, without,

611

00:30:50,314 --> 00:30:51,974

and pause it and whatever have you.

612

00:30:52,035 --> 00:30:54,824

Um, well, when you were coming up, what

were you watching when you were a kid?

613

00:30:54,894 --> 00:30:58,025

Uh, movie wise, TV, what was grabbing you?

614

00:30:59,035 --> 00:31:06,345

Ash Avildsen: I mean, as I, when I was

a kid, kid TV, you know, TV prior to

615

00:31:06,345 --> 00:31:12,354

like the Sopranos and HBO really kind

of reinventing what television was TV.

616

00:31:12,355 --> 00:31:14,304

This was not nearly as compelling.

617

00:31:14,305 --> 00:31:17,325

In my opinion, like, when I was a

kid, there were still cool shows,

618

00:31:17,334 --> 00:31:18,465

but it wasn't like it is now.

619

00:31:18,465 --> 00:31:24,345

So I watched, I mean, I, I loved all

of these, you know, all the stuff when

620

00:31:24,345 --> 00:31:28,375

I stand by me, the goonies, all the

coming of age stuff when I was a kid.

621

00:31:28,835 --> 00:31:29,505

Um, yeah.

622

00:31:29,565 --> 00:31:34,445

to, as I got older, you know, the people

versus Larry Flynn, a time to kill casino.

623

00:31:34,805 --> 00:31:42,765

Um, you know, just, uh, I do have,

I do, I do love, uh, true stories.

624

00:31:43,095 --> 00:31:46,175

I've always been drawn to them, especially

ones that aren't very well known.

625

00:31:46,685 --> 00:31:51,705

Um, cause it's, I feel like it's easier

to watch it without being like as.

626

00:31:52,930 --> 00:31:59,890

you already have, like in it should

or shouldn't be nice when you know

627

00:31:59,890 --> 00:32:06,309

that i not that familiar with it

to kind of just ride the the moon.

628

00:32:06,990 --> 00:32:09,869

Marc Preston: Uh, we like kill moon.

629

00:32:09,870 --> 00:32:11,670

I was like, I didn existed.

630

00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:17,425

But yeah, that's their directors

that you Whose style you dug?

631

00:32:17,485 --> 00:32:19,045

I loved Oliver Stone,

632

00:32:19,285 --> 00:32:22,795

Ash Avildsen: um, who actually I recently

met and he watched Queen of the Ring and

633

00:32:22,795 --> 00:32:29,395

wrote me a really wonderful, uh, email,

uh, review, which, uh, was pretty awesome.

634

00:32:29,455 --> 00:32:32,125

Uh, that was a very full circle

moment for me 'cause he's been

635

00:32:32,185 --> 00:32:33,985

one of the, my biggest influences.

636

00:32:34,045 --> 00:32:36,845

Um, but yeah, Oliver Stone's definitely

637

00:32:36,845 --> 00:32:37,625

Marc Preston: a top, uh,

638

00:32:37,655 --> 00:32:38,645

Ash Avildsen: top five for me.

639

00:32:38,705 --> 00:32:39,605

Top three even.

640

00:32:40,270 --> 00:32:41,980

Marc Preston: How would you

define your directing style?

641

00:32:41,980 --> 00:32:45,400

Is it kind of, do you like to have a lot

of intensity or are you kind of laid back?

642

00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,040

It depends what the scene is.

643

00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:51,279

Ash Avildsen: I always think the

energy on the set should be conducive

644

00:32:51,279 --> 00:32:57,570

to what the emotion is of the scene.

645

00:32:57,700 --> 00:33:04,540

Um, so, you know, it's a very

intimate, dramatic, two person, you

646

00:33:04,540 --> 00:33:08,040

know, just a one on one, small room.

647

00:33:08,690 --> 00:33:13,760

Soft spoken, you want that energy

around you to help the actors give

648

00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,650

that performance and go to the

place that their characters are in.

649

00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,890

Um, but you know, if you're like

when we shot the finale, which is 360

650

00:33:21,890 --> 00:33:26,329

people everywhere in this auditorium

and they're doing moves and the actors

651

00:33:26,329 --> 00:33:29,470

are putting their bodies through,

you know, these stunts and this

652

00:33:29,790 --> 00:33:33,100

intensity, we want the crowd to go.

653

00:33:33,100 --> 00:33:35,760

So we want everyone kind of rallying them.

654

00:33:35,770 --> 00:33:41,490

So I always just try and Take the approach

of like, what are we trying to accomplish

655

00:33:41,490 --> 00:33:42,710

in the scene that we're shooting?

656

00:33:42,710 --> 00:33:46,740

What, what do we want the characters

to be feeling and what the

657

00:33:47,555 --> 00:33:48,675

Emotions that we're expressing.

658

00:33:48,675 --> 00:33:51,265

And what do we want the audience

that's watching to take from it?

659

00:33:51,275 --> 00:33:57,175

And so, um, it's very specific to

whatever is being shot of like the style

660

00:33:57,545 --> 00:34:02,575

of, as far as like the energy on the

set and, and how we're interacting with

661

00:34:03,605 --> 00:34:06,315

Marc Preston: the actors, um,

I mean, this is a big one.

662

00:34:06,395 --> 00:34:08,345

I mean, looking at, you know,

all the wrestling and stuff,

663

00:34:08,355 --> 00:34:09,635

there's choreography involved.

664

00:34:09,805 --> 00:34:13,725

Did you get a case of, uh, I need

a case of nerves or, or like.

665

00:34:14,045 --> 00:34:18,035

That it kind of bringing extra anxiety,

like, okay, it's not just actors acting.

666

00:34:18,335 --> 00:34:20,625

You've got choreography, you've

got camera movements and all

667

00:34:20,625 --> 00:34:21,555

kinds of stuff happening.

668

00:34:21,555 --> 00:34:23,335

Was that intimidating at all?

669

00:34:23,335 --> 00:34:25,805

I mean, it was just kind of the first

time you've encountered that kind of

670

00:34:25,805 --> 00:34:27,264

a, or approach this kind of a shoot.

671

00:34:27,785 --> 00:34:28,884

Uh, it's definitely the most

672

00:34:28,884 --> 00:34:30,064

Ash Avildsen: on like the stunt side.

673

00:34:30,065 --> 00:34:30,315

Yeah.

674

00:34:30,315 --> 00:34:34,605

And I've, yeah, I've never done

a wrestling, you know, this was

675

00:34:34,645 --> 00:34:39,205

the first time I've done pro

wrestling, uh, on, on camera.

676

00:34:39,225 --> 00:34:39,795

So.

677

00:34:40,540 --> 00:34:45,420

It's one of the reasons we stunt casted

two real wrestlers for the two roles

678

00:34:45,420 --> 00:34:51,430

that have the most in ring action because

I just wanted, um, actors to be able

679

00:34:51,430 --> 00:34:56,329

to do their own stunts repeatedly and

get all the coverage we need, uh, and

680

00:34:56,329 --> 00:35:00,400

that was going to be on our timeline

much harder to do without people that

681

00:35:00,460 --> 00:35:02,030

do it professionally for a living.

682

00:35:02,470 --> 00:35:08,070

And so I'm very grateful that the two

women we got were so great, uh, in the

683

00:35:08,070 --> 00:35:13,890

roles, both as pro wrestlers, but also

as, uh, actors, I thought, um, Kaylee

684

00:35:13,890 --> 00:35:18,239

Latimer and, and Tony Rizal, who both,

uh, just knocked it out of the park.

685

00:35:18,379 --> 00:35:21,799

Marc Preston: Going back to your dad's

work with Karate Kid, of course, that's,

686

00:35:21,919 --> 00:35:26,880

I mean, I don't think, I think my kids

is trying to explain to them when Kai,

687

00:35:26,890 --> 00:35:31,465

how big karate A kid was, you know, when

it, when it came out and the whole story

688

00:35:31,465 --> 00:35:35,345

and, uh, but that was a big film for

your dad and that had that same kind of,

689

00:35:35,345 --> 00:35:41,425

there was choreography that Do you ever

peek into your dad's films and just see

690

00:35:41,425 --> 00:35:45,025

how they inform you that, you know, or

do you ever go back and watch something

691

00:35:45,025 --> 00:35:49,605

and just try to deconstruct maybe what he

was thinking about, or maybe what he was

692

00:35:49,605 --> 00:35:53,125

trying to accomplish and maybe integrate

that a little bit in what you do?

693

00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:54,540

Ash Avildsen: Yeah.

694

00:35:54,570 --> 00:35:58,910

Um, I mean, from a, from a visual, I

mean, he was so great with montages, um,

695

00:35:58,950 --> 00:36:03,690

and just getting the audience to feel

part of the, you know, the protagonist's,

696

00:36:03,869 --> 00:36:07,370

uh, underdog quest, if you will.

697

00:36:07,690 --> 00:36:11,899

But one thing that I think people will

see in Queen of the Ring, uh, that's

698

00:36:11,909 --> 00:36:16,960

something I, you know, was kind of

instilled with my father is he, he

699

00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:21,020

always, he was a big believer with

like, okay, and what happens next?

700

00:36:21,390 --> 00:36:26,160

In the sense that let's keep these

people interested, especially now,

701

00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,560

he'd always joke, you know, they

got a million things going on.

702

00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,300

They have all these things they

can do in their pocket on their

703

00:36:30,300 --> 00:36:32,070

phone, like what happens next?

704

00:36:32,070 --> 00:36:33,840

Keep them in the story.

705

00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,790

Marc Preston: Kinda like a

forward momentum kind of a thing.

706

00:36:35,820 --> 00:36:36,360

Ash Avildsen: Yeah.

707

00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:41,430

And so we have a lot of scenes in Queen

of the Ring, and I, I don't, I don't, I

708

00:36:41,430 --> 00:36:45,710

mean, I don't think we move too fast, but

I think we move at a pace because you have

709

00:36:45,710 --> 00:36:49,310

to, you know, we're, we're, we're going

20 plus years in two hours and change.

710

00:36:49,310 --> 00:36:49,550

Right.

711

00:36:49,555 --> 00:36:49,565

Right.

712

00:36:50,505 --> 00:36:55,615

We get to the main event, uh, before

the two hour Marc, there's a level of,

713

00:36:56,185 --> 00:37:01,025

you know, having to cover as much ground

as you can, but still have it flow and,

714

00:37:01,034 --> 00:37:05,834

uh, and keep the audience engaged and on

an emotional, you know, ride with you.

715

00:37:05,845 --> 00:37:11,089

So he would always, you know, talk about

that because, you know, a lot of movies.

716

00:37:11,380 --> 00:37:16,640

Um, are out there that are

purposely, um, you know, by design,

717

00:37:16,950 --> 00:37:18,950

not to say that it's good or bad.

718

00:37:18,950 --> 00:37:22,490

It's all just your opinion and

your taste, but like it purposely

719

00:37:22,490 --> 00:37:25,599

goes slow and they're slow burn.

720

00:37:25,620 --> 00:37:30,460

And a lot of times the ones that are

paced very slow can also be more kind

721

00:37:30,460 --> 00:37:32,569

of dark and depressing in the end.

722

00:37:32,570 --> 00:37:33,880

Um, and that's.

723

00:37:34,780 --> 00:37:35,730

Not this.

724

00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:36,900

Uh, right, right.

725

00:37:36,950 --> 00:37:37,590

It's not much.

726

00:37:37,720 --> 00:37:40,600

My dad did have some movies

that that lean more on that.

727

00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:44,300

But, um, you know, he

liked to keep it moving.

728

00:37:44,310 --> 00:37:48,939

He liked the momentum of scene

to scene and just keeping the

729

00:37:48,939 --> 00:37:51,100

audience engaged in that regard.

730

00:37:51,100 --> 00:37:57,410

So I think that's definitely the style of

of Queen of the Ring, um, in the sense of.

731

00:37:58,485 --> 00:38:03,205

Um, you know, each scene is, uh, is

hopefully making the audience feel

732

00:38:03,205 --> 00:38:07,134

like, oh, I can't go take a pee right

now because I'm going to miss it.

733

00:38:07,135 --> 00:38:08,685

Other movies, sometimes you're

just like, you know what?

734

00:38:08,685 --> 00:38:09,015

I'm good.

735

00:38:09,015 --> 00:38:10,914

I'm going to go, uh, go to the restroom.

736

00:38:10,914 --> 00:38:11,955

I'll be back in a few minutes.

737

00:38:11,955 --> 00:38:13,364

Yeah,

738

00:38:13,365 --> 00:38:14,494

Marc Preston: you know,

it's only slow enough.

739

00:38:14,494 --> 00:38:16,665

You can go knock that out

and whoever stayed, you know,

740

00:38:16,665 --> 00:38:17,845

like, catch me up real quick.

741

00:38:17,845 --> 00:38:18,115

Yeah.

742

00:38:19,265 --> 00:38:21,935

Going forward, what do you have

that you're working on now?

743

00:38:21,935 --> 00:38:23,925

Or are you, do you have something in mind?

744

00:38:23,935 --> 00:38:28,355

Like, okay, this is where I want

to get to next, be a TV film, even

745

00:38:28,365 --> 00:38:29,975

musically, what do you have going on?

746

00:38:30,195 --> 00:38:33,035

Ash Avildsen: I have a few different

scripts I'm deciding between.

747

00:38:33,065 --> 00:38:35,215

Some are, some are original.

748

00:38:35,565 --> 00:38:38,375

Some are also true stories

that aren't very well known.

749

00:38:38,900 --> 00:38:45,620

Um, I feel like it's opening up a,

uh, it's going to open up a whole

750

00:38:45,630 --> 00:38:47,210

box for me to start going into them.

751

00:38:47,210 --> 00:38:52,039

But, um, yeah, I definitely want

to keep, you know, the momentum as

752

00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,509

a, as a filmmaker that hopefully

queen of the ring brings me.

753

00:38:54,510 --> 00:39:00,289

And also, I just want to get back on

set, you know, post production process.

754

00:39:00,725 --> 00:39:05,115

You spend, you know, four or five

weeks, eight weeks prepping the movie.

755

00:39:05,115 --> 00:39:09,625

You shoot it for four or five, six weeks,

and then you work on it for a year plus.

756

00:39:10,335 --> 00:39:15,295

And, uh, you know, the post production

process on most movies is so much longer

757

00:39:15,305 --> 00:39:16,904

than the actual production itself.

758

00:39:16,904 --> 00:39:17,374

So.

759

00:39:18,105 --> 00:39:19,265

You really, it's the

760

00:39:19,265 --> 00:39:21,425

Marc Preston: additional, it's

the final telling of the story.

761

00:39:21,425 --> 00:39:22,675

You know, how are you cutting it together?

762

00:39:22,675 --> 00:39:23,275

We're at music.

763

00:39:23,275 --> 00:39:26,605

I mean, it's, it's a whole, there,

there's an ever going process,

764

00:39:26,605 --> 00:39:29,364

which would drive me nuts because I

would be like, okay, am I done yet?

765

00:39:29,645 --> 00:39:32,024

Do you ever get to the point of going,

okay, there's something else I can

766

00:39:32,025 --> 00:39:34,265

do, but I think, I think we're good.

767

00:39:35,255 --> 00:39:38,285

Ash Avildsen: I mean, there's still,

even right now, I'm still tweaking

768

00:39:38,285 --> 00:39:43,090

certain, uh, You know, musical

moments and I still watch it now.

769

00:39:43,090 --> 00:39:43,650

I'm like, you know what?

770

00:39:43,650 --> 00:39:44,670

I could tweak this scene.

771

00:39:44,670 --> 00:39:45,640

I could change this.

772

00:39:45,990 --> 00:39:49,659

We were, I mean, my, my

dad said something great.

773

00:39:49,670 --> 00:39:52,859

He was like, you know, I went as

far as the post production process.

774

00:39:52,860 --> 00:39:55,639

He's like, just keep working on it

until they take it away from you.

775

00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,820

And then eventually you have a date.

776

00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,670

And for us, we basically picked a

date that we felt, Okay, this is,

777

00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:06,940

this gives the movie the best shot,

Theatrically, based upon the time

778

00:40:06,940 --> 00:40:13,669

of the year, What other movies are

close to it, Um, and then anything

779

00:40:13,669 --> 00:40:15,469

that, like, helps people remember it.

780

00:40:15,470 --> 00:40:18,930

So we're in March, it's, it's, uh,

Women's History Month and then March

781

00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,320

8th, Which is our opening Saturday,

is International Women's Day.

782

00:40:22,570 --> 00:40:25,089

And there's not anything really

else in, like, the sports.

783

00:40:25,595 --> 00:40:30,945

underdogs, specifically female

world of things around our date.

784

00:40:30,945 --> 00:40:35,045

So I think March 7th is hopefully one

of the best dates we could have picked.

785

00:40:35,405 --> 00:40:38,474

So we basically had to set the

deadline that, okay, we can't really

786

00:40:38,475 --> 00:40:40,154

make any more changes up till now.

787

00:40:40,155 --> 00:40:44,254

So tomorrow, you know, we do the final

mix and then that's essentially it.

788

00:40:44,354 --> 00:40:50,224

Um, but yeah, you can keep, I mean,

you can always continue to tweak

789

00:40:50,224 --> 00:40:52,984

and change and also just try out

other ideas, you know, I mean,

790

00:40:52,984 --> 00:40:54,504

that's the thing it's, there's.

791

00:40:55,055 --> 00:40:58,345

Only so many hours in the day, but there's

always a new idea to try, but eventually

792

00:40:58,345 --> 00:40:59,515

you just got to say it's enough.

793

00:40:59,555 --> 00:41:03,295

And also your desire to go

tell a new story because.

794

00:41:03,500 --> 00:41:06,849

And so you've been working

on one for a while.

795

00:41:06,850 --> 00:41:07,020

Well,

796

00:41:07,020 --> 00:41:09,240

Marc Preston: that's the thing I, I've

mentioned it a number of times in the

797

00:41:09,240 --> 00:41:13,430

show that, uh, the times have acted

nothing big at all, but it's like

798

00:41:13,430 --> 00:41:14,909

you show up and it's its own work.

799

00:41:14,909 --> 00:41:17,150

Don't get me wrong, you know,

but you show up and you get to

800

00:41:17,180 --> 00:41:20,909

go home and you've invested, you

know, however much time in it.

801

00:41:20,909 --> 00:41:25,610

And, but as a director, you're, you You're

locking in well before in pre production

802

00:41:25,620 --> 00:41:28,580

and doing the thing and then the post

production you got a year to two years

803

00:41:28,580 --> 00:41:30,490

of your life dedicated to this one thing.

804

00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,360

So I guess that makes choosing that

thing ultra important for you because

805

00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:35,730

you're married to something for a while.

806

00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,650

Like where did y'all shoot this film?

807

00:41:38,710 --> 00:41:38,770

It

808

00:41:39,260 --> 00:41:40,520

Ash Avildsen: not in Louisville, Kentucky.

809

00:41:40,910 --> 00:41:42,500

Marc Preston: Do, is that

a, like a turn on for you?

810

00:41:42,500 --> 00:41:45,680

Like, okay, well I get to go here

to do this thing, or you do You like

811

00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:47,545

going out, traveling to get a, I,

812

00:41:47,665 --> 00:41:52,160

Ash Avildsen: I do love, uh, I do love

shooting outside of wherever I'm living

813

00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:57,620

because it, it, it forces you to go live

in a new city for enough time where you

814

00:41:57,620 --> 00:41:58,845

can actually really get a feel for the.

815

00:41:59,565 --> 00:42:03,535

You know, it's one thing to go to a

city for, like, three, five days a week

816

00:42:03,535 --> 00:42:07,435

vacation, or if you're on tour, you know,

we'd only be in a city for a day or two.

817

00:42:07,465 --> 00:42:08,674

So it's hard to really experience it.

818

00:42:08,685 --> 00:42:12,455

When you're living in a city for

months, you actually at least can

819

00:42:12,455 --> 00:42:16,449

really get the, you know, a much more

real experience of what it's like.

820

00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,490

that city is and how and how it is.

821

00:42:18,530 --> 00:42:22,340

Um, so I, you know, I can proudly say

I lived in Louisville, Kentucky because

822

00:42:22,340 --> 00:42:26,670

I was there for several months between

scouting and then prep and then shooting.

823

00:42:27,050 --> 00:42:31,370

Um, but yeah, that's part of the magic

of, of, of the adventure of making

824

00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:36,410

films is just going to a place that

you've never been and just putting the

825

00:42:36,410 --> 00:42:38,070

flag in the ground and getting to work.

826

00:42:38,380 --> 00:42:40,940

Marc Preston: When you're just kind

of having your own time, you know,

827

00:42:40,950 --> 00:42:45,250

how you like I'd say hobby But you

know, what is it that you're enjoying

828

00:42:45,260 --> 00:42:48,120

doing that kind of lets you clear

your head just kind of decompress

829

00:42:48,925 --> 00:42:51,635

Ash Avildsen: Uh, well, I mean,

on a physical side, I do, you

830

00:42:51,635 --> 00:42:53,775

know, hot sauna, cold plunge.

831

00:42:53,805 --> 00:42:56,575

I try and exercise and walk a lot.

832

00:42:56,585 --> 00:43:00,634

But on a personal level, you know,

I'm a father for the first time.

833

00:43:00,645 --> 00:43:05,994

So spending as much time as I can with

my little two and a half year old boy,

834

00:43:06,095 --> 00:43:08,745

um, I didn't have this growing up.

835

00:43:08,755 --> 00:43:12,165

So it's been a very cathartic,

incredible experience.

836

00:43:12,305 --> 00:43:12,675

Yeah.

837

00:43:12,755 --> 00:43:13,725

Being a father.

838

00:43:14,750 --> 00:43:20,510

all, you know, having all I never

experienced with like hyper sensitive

839

00:43:20,530 --> 00:43:24,870

to j and specifically father t

840

00:43:26,970 --> 00:43:30,500

hope, hopefully we have

a to have a little girl.

841

00:43:30,919 --> 00:43:31,639

Um

842

00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,500

Just a huge part ever since he was born.

843

00:43:37,500 --> 00:43:41,430

I mean, it's just, I'm so grateful

that I have him and that I get to

844

00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,609

be in his life and he's in my life

and he's actually in the movie.

845

00:43:44,620 --> 00:43:45,749

He plays a little baby.

846

00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,239

Marc Preston: Did you grow up as an only

kid or did you have a siblings around?

847

00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,550

Ash Avildsen: I had an older brother,

a different father, older brother.

848

00:43:54,550 --> 00:43:56,770

I mean, we're technically half

brothers, but he's my brother.

849

00:43:56,770 --> 00:44:01,560

I mean, I, we'd never thought of, and

then I have, I have two half brothers

850

00:44:01,609 --> 00:44:06,050

on my dad's side that I didn't know

at all that I still today barely know.

851

00:44:06,150 --> 00:44:11,950

Uh, and then, um, I have a half sister

on my dad's side who actually I've become

852

00:44:11,989 --> 00:44:14,040

pretty close with and I love her to death.

853

00:44:14,450 --> 00:44:18,500

Uh, but yeah, I grew up, I had one older

brother that would always beat my ass.

854

00:44:20,665 --> 00:44:21,525

Marc Preston: Now, now it's

855

00:44:21,905 --> 00:44:22,405

Ash Avildsen: grown up.

856

00:44:22,515 --> 00:44:24,235

Marc Preston: Yeah, I

grew up as an only child.

857

00:44:24,395 --> 00:44:25,975

I'm living vicariously through my kids.

858

00:44:25,975 --> 00:44:29,114

You know, it's like to have siblings,

you know, and I'm kind of disturbing.

859

00:44:29,324 --> 00:44:30,255

Ash Avildsen: They're out of college now?

860

00:44:30,324 --> 00:44:32,094

Marc Preston: Yeah, no, my

daughter Lily just graduated.

861

00:44:32,095 --> 00:44:32,974

She's 21.

862

00:44:32,985 --> 00:44:34,445

She's graduated from Loyola.

863

00:44:34,505 --> 00:44:36,614

Uh, and then my son is still there.

864

00:44:36,614 --> 00:44:37,215

He's 20.

865

00:44:37,215 --> 00:44:40,705

And my youngest is down

at Boca Raton at school.

866

00:44:40,715 --> 00:44:41,445

She's 19.

867

00:44:41,905 --> 00:44:43,105

Ash Avildsen: You were a young dad.

868

00:44:43,125 --> 00:44:43,465

Marc Preston: Yeah.

869

00:44:43,465 --> 00:44:43,655

Yeah.

870

00:44:43,655 --> 00:44:43,845

Yeah.

871

00:44:43,855 --> 00:44:48,225

No, I was 30 the when I had,

uh, when I had my first.

872

00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,650

Uh, which was, you know, a little later

than some, but earlier than others.

873

00:44:52,660 --> 00:44:54,010

I was a pretty good age to have

874

00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:57,350

Ash Avildsen: and gosh, I,

yeah, I had mine when I was 40.

875

00:44:57,350 --> 00:45:02,119

So

876

00:45:04,699 --> 00:45:06,820

Marc Preston: before we get going

here, I always have my seven.

877

00:45:07,340 --> 00:45:10,150

Questions like to throw in on

the back end little extra fun.

878

00:45:10,180 --> 00:45:11,420

Uh, just extra good to know.

879

00:45:11,420 --> 00:45:11,630

Yeah.

880

00:45:11,710 --> 00:45:16,130

Uh, first one I always ask is what

is your favorite comfort food?

881

00:45:16,140 --> 00:45:19,649

Something you just love best

day, worst day, just love to,

882

00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,180

you know, grab ahold of it.

883

00:45:23,210 --> 00:45:27,499

Ash Avildsen: Uh, I mean, my guilty

pleasure, although I have kind

884

00:45:27,499 --> 00:45:30,020

of had a high cholesterol, so I'm

not eating these anytime soon.

885

00:45:30,030 --> 00:45:33,150

I love a real Philly cheesesteak,

although with like provolone,

886

00:45:33,150 --> 00:45:34,110

I don't do the cheese whiz.

887

00:45:34,180 --> 00:45:37,340

So that's like my guilty pleasure.

888

00:45:37,410 --> 00:45:41,250

And then other than that, I mean,

pizza, Popeye's fried chicken.

889

00:45:41,250 --> 00:45:42,790

But again, this is stuff

I'm really not eating.

890

00:45:43,049 --> 00:45:44,119

Marc Preston: I felt like I have Liberty.

891

00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,990

I'm taking a stat now and

I think it's more genetic.

892

00:45:46,990 --> 00:45:48,440

I have a little bit of

a cholesterol thing.

893

00:45:48,679 --> 00:45:52,520

Not bad, but you know, now

I'm going, I'm down in Texas.

894

00:45:52,530 --> 00:45:54,130

So I'm like, can I have

that chicken fried steak?

895

00:45:54,130 --> 00:45:54,690

Yeah, I'll do that.

896

00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:55,940

I'm like, I like,

897

00:45:57,220 --> 00:45:59,220

Ash Avildsen: I'm a big, uh, I love frozen

898

00:45:59,220 --> 00:45:59,730

Marc Preston: yogurt.

899

00:46:00,315 --> 00:46:03,545

Ash Avildsen: That's my, my

guilty pleasure for dessert.

900

00:46:03,845 --> 00:46:06,665

Marc Preston: Now, the next question I

got for you is if you were to sit down

901

00:46:06,665 --> 00:46:10,214

with three people, living or not, you're

going to have a cup of coffee, sit down,

902

00:46:10,534 --> 00:46:12,314

uh, for a few hours and talk story.

903

00:46:12,534 --> 00:46:15,275

Who would those three people be that

you would like to sit down with?

904

00:46:15,725 --> 00:46:17,844

Ash Avildsen: Well, just because

she's so fresh on my mind, I'd

905

00:46:17,845 --> 00:46:19,595

love to sit with Mildred Burke.

906

00:46:20,195 --> 00:46:24,715

Uh, I've always, uh, you know, it'd

probably be maybe Mildred Burke,

907

00:46:24,725 --> 00:46:26,375

John F. Kennedy and Bob Marley.

908

00:46:26,935 --> 00:46:27,605

I think I would.

909

00:46:28,490 --> 00:46:29,710

That would be a great hang.

910

00:46:30,650 --> 00:46:31,270

Marc Preston: Very cool.

911

00:46:31,270 --> 00:46:31,450

Yeah.

912

00:46:31,450 --> 00:46:33,360

I was just, uh, Bob Marley just came up.

913

00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:37,200

I was speaking with Jimmy Buffett's

daughter Delaney and, uh, uh, Katie

914

00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,179

Corwin, they have a film coming out

and, uh, Bob Marley came up and I was

915

00:46:41,179 --> 00:46:44,469

like, Oh, you know, it's funny because

I always listen to your dad's music.

916

00:46:44,469 --> 00:46:45,309

There's a through line.

917

00:46:45,310 --> 00:46:45,960

I heard Bob Marley.

918

00:46:46,150 --> 00:46:48,340

I said, was your dad really,

really into Bob Marley?

919

00:46:48,340 --> 00:46:50,140

She's like, yeah, my brother's

middle name is Marley.

920

00:46:50,230 --> 00:46:51,360

I was like, apparently so.

921

00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,820

So I think he's only come

up once before and that was.

922

00:46:54,035 --> 00:46:54,765

Last week.

923

00:46:54,765 --> 00:46:58,805

So very good now going back when you

were young, uh, who was your first

924

00:46:58,815 --> 00:47:01,415

celebrity crush when you were a young guy?

925

00:47:03,465 --> 00:47:06,545

Ash Avildsen: Well, the first, I mean, she

wasn't, I don't know if she's a celebrity,

926

00:47:06,545 --> 00:47:12,774

but the first time I got like aroused

was, uh, the girl in, um, the rock, the

927

00:47:12,775 --> 00:47:15,435

cradle of love, Billy Idol music video.

928

00:47:15,805 --> 00:47:19,295

Marc Preston: Oh, well, we're old enough

to remember the videos, you know, like

929

00:47:19,305 --> 00:47:22,565

Tony contained, you know, but as far as

930

00:47:22,725 --> 00:47:25,065

Ash Avildsen: like, I mean, the

first, the first time I remember

931

00:47:25,065 --> 00:47:29,160

like putting like, A girl is like the

wallpaper on my computer and stuff.

932

00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:32,480

That probably was, uh, when

Sandra Bullock first came out.

933

00:47:32,550 --> 00:47:40,300

Um, I was like a teen, um, that was

like the, that was the first one

934

00:47:40,300 --> 00:47:44,449

I remember really just, yeah, like

the wallpaper, that whole thing.

935

00:47:44,470 --> 00:47:44,920

Yeah.

936

00:47:45,190 --> 00:47:46,770

Marc Preston: It's the first

time anybody's mentioned that.

937

00:47:46,770 --> 00:47:51,259

I forgot that people used to put

wallpaper of like a model or something.

938

00:47:51,260 --> 00:47:54,540

I think, uh, but when I was a

kid, it was posters and I think

939

00:47:54,550 --> 00:47:56,470

like Kathy Ireland was a big one.

940

00:47:57,110 --> 00:48:00,129

Cindy Crawford, I think the Mike was

941

00:48:00,130 --> 00:48:00,540

Ash Avildsen: up there.

942

00:48:00,540 --> 00:48:01,330

That's a big one.

943

00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:02,810

Definitely.

944

00:48:02,820 --> 00:48:03,000

Yes.

945

00:48:03,010 --> 00:48:03,600

Cindy Crawford.

946

00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:04,530

I had some wallpapers.

947

00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:06,439

Marc Preston: You're the

first person's mentioned that.

948

00:48:06,439 --> 00:48:10,500

And I literally forgotten about,

uh, wallpapers on your, and

949

00:48:10,510 --> 00:48:13,140

downloading and trying to like, you

know, you got your dial up mode.

950

00:48:13,140 --> 00:48:15,450

I'm trying to get that stuff

downloaded took forever, you know,

951

00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,790

just, and you always got yourself a

nice, healthy virus out of the deal.

952

00:48:19,210 --> 00:48:21,050

Um, Now, next question.

953

00:48:21,050 --> 00:48:24,520

If you're going to be living on an exotic

island somewhere for a whole year now,

954

00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:26,100

somewhere you want to be, it's a resort.

955

00:48:26,100 --> 00:48:26,550

It's nice.

956

00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,179

You know, it's not like you're cast

away, but you don't have streaming.

957

00:48:30,180 --> 00:48:33,129

So you have to bring a movie.

958

00:48:33,129 --> 00:48:36,960

You can watch over and over again, a

DVD and an album, or it could even be

959

00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,350

a box set if you want, but something

you could listen to all year long.

960

00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,300

What would that DVD and the music?

961

00:48:42,300 --> 00:48:43,400

What would the CD be?

962

00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,910

Ash Avildsen: The album would be

Florence and the machine ceremonials.

963

00:48:48,420 --> 00:48:52,600

I got stranded on an island, so I have

to think, I'm not gonna, I'm gonna

964

00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,650

want the right ending to lift me up.

965

00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:59,420

Thinking if I'm on an island,

am I, I mean, am I celebrating?

966

00:48:59,429 --> 00:49:02,190

Am I, is this like a castaway

scenario where I'm stranded

967

00:49:02,190 --> 00:49:03,440

and I hope someone finds me?

968

00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:05,360

Marc Preston: It's a year of chill.

969

00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:06,690

Yeah, a year of chill.

970

00:49:06,690 --> 00:49:07,150

Okay,

971

00:49:07,190 --> 00:49:07,760

Ash Avildsen: um.

972

00:49:08,460 --> 00:49:09,040

What would it be?

973

00:49:09,140 --> 00:49:10,250

That's a great question.

974

00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,220

Um, gosh, I don't know.

975

00:49:12,710 --> 00:49:15,619

I will say, I mean, I always find

myself going back to the People vs.

976

00:49:15,650 --> 00:49:16,269

Larry Flint.

977

00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:21,875

I really, really love, uh, That

movie is just a really fun ride.

978

00:49:22,675 --> 00:49:23,325

Um,

979

00:49:23,765 --> 00:49:25,585

Marc Preston: and Woody

Harrelson is just so underrated.

980

00:49:25,605 --> 00:49:26,865

I think he's just such a great.

981

00:49:26,955 --> 00:49:27,455

Oh yeah.

982

00:49:27,505 --> 00:49:28,595

The way he gets into stuff.

983

00:49:28,875 --> 00:49:29,305

Ash Avildsen: Yeah.

984

00:49:29,835 --> 00:49:31,095

Um, fuck it.

985

00:49:31,175 --> 00:49:32,245

The people virtual area plan.

986

00:49:32,255 --> 00:49:32,664

There you go.

987

00:49:32,885 --> 00:49:36,545

Marc Preston: Now, if you were to go stem

to stern beginning to the end of the day

988

00:49:36,554 --> 00:49:38,175

from time you wake up, I'm gonna sleep.

989

00:49:38,705 --> 00:49:40,825

If you were to define it Perfect day.

990

00:49:40,825 --> 00:49:45,085

What would the component parts be of a

perfect day beginning to end for you?

991

00:49:45,865 --> 00:49:47,835

So the key, the key parts,

992

00:49:49,245 --> 00:49:49,395

Ash Avildsen: I

993

00:49:49,395 --> 00:49:49,705

Marc Preston: mean,

994

00:49:50,625 --> 00:49:54,325

Ash Avildsen: the key parts, well,

it would be, you know, waking up

995

00:49:54,645 --> 00:50:01,914

and going to sleep with my family,

um, having a good, uh, moment of

996

00:50:01,914 --> 00:50:07,564

exercise, uh, ideally outside and

good weather, getting a great sweat.

997

00:50:07,844 --> 00:50:11,475

Um, great sauna, some time to write.

998

00:50:12,555 --> 00:50:16,375

Time to eat some clean, organic

food, time to catch up with a friend,

999

00:50:17,075 --> 00:50:22,394

um, listen to some music, watch

a great movie, yeah, a massage,

Speaker:

00:50:23,095 --> 00:50:23,355

Marc Preston: I'm a big

Speaker:

00:50:23,744 --> 00:50:28,854

Ash Avildsen: fan of massages, and uh,

I need to get back into yoga, but you

Speaker:

00:50:28,855 --> 00:50:32,905

know, self care, it's easy, it's easy

to put ourselves last, especially when

Speaker:

00:50:32,905 --> 00:50:36,655

you're trying to accomplish all these

things, you have all this kind of self

Speaker:

00:50:36,655 --> 00:50:38,964

induced pressure, so I try and take it in.

Speaker:

00:50:39,605 --> 00:50:42,555

Remember to unplug as much

as I can, but it's very hard.

Speaker:

00:50:42,785 --> 00:50:44,035

You really have to practice it.

Speaker:

00:50:44,035 --> 00:50:48,265

It has to become a practice of

like self care and not because

Speaker:

00:50:48,465 --> 00:50:51,275

Marc Preston: it's too easy for the back

of your brain to be processing going,

Speaker:

00:50:51,275 --> 00:50:54,244

you could be getting this done now, and

you could be getting that done now and

Speaker:

00:50:54,255 --> 00:50:56,684

you forget, okay, I need to take care of.

Speaker:

00:50:57,455 --> 00:50:58,645

just doing nothing.

Speaker:

00:50:58,885 --> 00:51:01,465

You know, that's something

I'm trying to work on as well.

Speaker:

00:51:01,495 --> 00:51:01,835

Yeah,

Speaker:

00:51:02,145 --> 00:51:05,555

Ash Avildsen: it's really hard, especially

if you're like, you know, running your own

Speaker:

00:51:05,555 --> 00:51:08,095

company or working on your own project.

Speaker:

00:51:08,095 --> 00:51:12,544

There's never like an end until you

just say, okay, I'm done for now.

Speaker:

00:51:12,915 --> 00:51:17,904

You know, it's not like you're, you know,

I used to wait tables and deliver pizzas

Speaker:

00:51:17,904 --> 00:51:22,985

and all these, you know, you know, just

normal hourly jobs when I was growing up

Speaker:

00:51:22,985 --> 00:51:25,965

and like, you know, you deliver the pizzas

for eight hours, you go home, you're done.

Speaker:

00:51:26,020 --> 00:51:30,250

Yeah, you're not like thinking

about, oh, I wonder what my first

Speaker:

00:51:30,250 --> 00:51:31,340

address is going to be here.

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00:51:31,350 --> 00:51:33,810

What the order is going to

use out of sight out of mind.

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00:51:33,810 --> 00:51:37,790

But with, you know, a lot of

the things in other worlds,

Speaker:

00:51:37,919 --> 00:51:39,060

it's like, it's never ending.

Speaker:

00:51:39,060 --> 00:51:40,679

It's like, there's a

million things right now.

Speaker:

00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,199

I need to be doing to.

Speaker:

00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,080

Make sure the film is

getting Marceted right.

Speaker:

00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:49,260

And, you know, coordinating everything

with the cast and the press and

Speaker:

00:51:49,270 --> 00:51:51,960

the theater, you know, it's just

never ending and it's, well, it's

Speaker:

00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,699

Marc Preston: a matter of delegation,

you know, that's my biggest problem

Speaker:

00:51:54,699 --> 00:51:57,460

is like, I'm not that I don't

trust somebody can do a good job.

Speaker:

00:51:57,460 --> 00:51:59,079

It's sometimes like, Oh, I gotta get this.

Speaker:

00:51:59,399 --> 00:52:02,630

There's a certain thing I'm looking for

in the time it takes me to explain it.

Speaker:

00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:03,620

Maybe go through a first.

Speaker:

00:52:04,110 --> 00:52:06,730

You know, I'll just get it done and

do it myself, you know, and I know

Speaker:

00:52:06,730 --> 00:52:10,260

that's probably not optimal, but

delegation is something I'm working on.

Speaker:

00:52:10,310 --> 00:52:12,290

Ash Avildsen: It's hard, yeah,

letting go and, and letting,

Speaker:

00:52:13,180 --> 00:52:15,490

you know, just kind of trust in

someone else to handle that stuff.

Speaker:

00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:18,610

Marc Preston: Now, the next question I

got for you is if you weren't doing this,

Speaker:

00:52:18,620 --> 00:52:24,940

if this was not an option for you, uh, as

a vocation, what would be the next thing

Speaker:

00:52:24,940 --> 00:52:27,840

that you would do that you thought that

you feel like you would find joy doing?

Speaker:

00:52:29,049 --> 00:52:33,910

Ash Avildsen: I mean, I always

either wanted to be a, uh, I

Speaker:

00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:38,140

was really in, I mean, I grew up

in D. C. So I, I loved history.

Speaker:

00:52:38,140 --> 00:52:43,130

I always, you know, as I mentioned,

meeting JFK and Bob Marley, these are

Speaker:

00:52:43,130 --> 00:52:48,770

people that really Helped fight for

truth and honor and for world peace.

Speaker:

00:52:48,780 --> 00:52:54,470

And so I did have a passion, um,

for trying to make the world better.

Speaker:

00:52:54,470 --> 00:52:57,739

And a lot of times it has to come

through politics and leaders.

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00:52:58,069 --> 00:53:01,699

I also was, you know,

considered being an attorney.

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00:53:02,110 --> 00:53:07,940

Um, specifically for either criminal

defense to try and, you know, find people

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00:53:07,940 --> 00:53:13,559

that I believe was innocent and get them

acquitted or, um, you know, an attorney

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00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,499

to, to help, you know, pass better laws.

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00:53:18,589 --> 00:53:21,589

So, yeah, I mean, professor attorney.

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00:53:22,175 --> 00:53:23,855

Politician, probably something like that.

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00:53:23,855 --> 00:53:25,395

If I wasn't into music and film.

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00:53:25,885 --> 00:53:28,275

Marc Preston: Now, the last question

I got for you, if you could jump into

Speaker:

00:53:28,275 --> 00:53:31,594

that DeLorean travel back to when

you're 16 years old and you have a

Speaker:

00:53:31,595 --> 00:53:35,065

piece of advice to offer yourself

either to make that moment a little

Speaker:

00:53:35,065 --> 00:53:37,885

bit better, or to put yourself on

a little bit different trajectory.

Speaker:

00:53:37,885 --> 00:53:41,134

What would that piece of advice be

that you would offer to yourself?

Speaker:

00:53:42,005 --> 00:53:48,255

Ash Avildsen: Probably to exercise

more, um, patience and gratitude for

Speaker:

00:53:48,255 --> 00:53:56,124

just the gift of life and, um, not,

uh, not letting, you know, myself get

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00:53:56,124 --> 00:54:02,174

worked up because of how other people

are treating me, um, how my luck of the

Speaker:

00:54:02,175 --> 00:54:04,465

draw is with the world, all those things.

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00:54:04,515 --> 00:54:06,785

I think I really just try and instill.

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00:54:07,710 --> 00:54:11,440

Gratitude for, you know, being

able to even have the gift of life.

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00:54:11,460 --> 00:54:13,070

I mean, life is so fragile every day.

Speaker:

00:54:13,070 --> 00:54:16,480

Now I'm at that age where I just,

there's constantly people dying that

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00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:18,679

I've known or getting falling ill.

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00:54:18,730 --> 00:54:22,040

And, um, that would probably

be it to just really enjoy.

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00:54:22,050 --> 00:54:25,749

And also, I know, I mean, it's a

cliche, but to really enjoy the moment.

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00:54:25,770 --> 00:54:27,670

The present is just that it's a present.

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00:54:27,670 --> 00:54:30,700

It's a gift that you're alive

and it's very easy to focus.

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00:54:32,005 --> 00:54:35,815

You know, fixate on the future

and, and, or, you know, focus on

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00:54:35,815 --> 00:54:39,815

the future, fixate on the past

versus like, you know, still really

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00:54:40,075 --> 00:54:42,545

enjoying, you know, living the moment.

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00:54:42,665 --> 00:54:43,285

Marc Preston: Yeah, that's

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00:54:43,495 --> 00:54:43,764

Ash Avildsen: it.

Speaker:

00:54:43,764 --> 00:54:43,914

You

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00:54:43,915 --> 00:54:47,185

Marc Preston: know, I think it's one of

the things, as you get older, you start

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00:54:47,264 --> 00:54:51,954

appreciating your time a little bit more

and, and how you're investing it and.

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00:54:52,255 --> 00:54:53,175

Trying to live in the moment.

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00:54:53,175 --> 00:54:55,065

It'd be so wonderful if I had that.

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00:54:55,105 --> 00:54:58,955

Uh, if you had that as a kid when

you're young You know, but man, I so

Speaker:

00:54:58,955 --> 00:55:00,594

appreciate you spending some time with me.

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00:55:00,595 --> 00:55:02,995

I am so jazzed, uh to see the film

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00:55:03,295 --> 00:55:04,335

Ash Avildsen: We were

just talking about you.

Speaker:

00:55:04,335 --> 00:55:05,745

Is he oh, there's my son

Speaker:

00:55:08,144 --> 00:55:09,005

Marc Preston: He's like who is this

Speaker:

00:55:09,445 --> 00:55:11,475

Ash Avildsen: one day when you're

all grown up researching your

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00:55:11,475 --> 00:55:15,480

dad This is going to be you

seeing yourself on the FaceTime.

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Marc Preston: Well my friend, you

take care, uh, go talk to your

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little one, enjoy that time, but

uh, hopefully uh, down the line

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we'll have a chance to connect.

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Awesome.

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Thank you so much, Marc.

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Great to meet

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Ash Avildsen: you.

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Marc Preston: All right,

there you go, Ash Avildsen.

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The new film is called Queen of the Ring.

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It is out today, Friday,

March 7th, uh, in theaters.

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Check it out.

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Emily Bette Rickards is in it.

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Uh, Josh Lucas, Martin Cove, who

was in the Karate Kid movies.

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So it's kind of a cool connection

as we discussed that he's directing

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Martin Cove, just like his father did.

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John Avildsen in the Karate Kid movies.

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Ash Avildsen

Director | Writer | Producer | Music Label Head

Ash Avildsen created, wrote and directed the entire first season of Paradise City.

Ash is the self-made Founder & CEO of leading independent rock/alternative label Sumerian Records. Growing up in Washington DC in a single mom household, Ash got his start in the business as a touring artist, a DIY promoter and a booking agent. Building the label from a tiny Venice Beach studio apartment running his own mail-order with his mom to what it is today has been no easy task. The laptop that he started it all on was put on display at the Grammy Museum’s Golden Gods: History of Heavy Metal Exhibit. With millions of albums sold and millions of followers on Sumerian’s YouTube channel, billions of streams and several Grammy nominations, the cultural relevance of Sumerian Records is at an all-time high.

Avildsen is also known for his work as a writer and film director. His last movie American Satan was picked up by Miramax for worldwide distribution and is currently on Showtime. He won Best Director at Peekskill Film Festival as well as Best Narrative Feature At Sacramento Film Festival, Intendence Film Festival and Oceanside Film Festival. His latest project is the scripted TV music drama series “Paradise City” due out Summer 2020 featuring Bella Thorne, Disney’s Cameron Boyce and several stars from hit shows such as Sons Of Anarchy, The Sopranos, Entourage, The Walking Dead and more.

Ash’s father is Academy-Award winner John Avildsen (ROCKY, THE KARATE KID, LEAN ON ME) whom he never met until he was 34. He grew up always knowing who he was and carryi… Read More